Wow

So technically, we have an open marriage. It’s still a novel thought.

Wifey says she wants this

Love split roasting my sexy hotwife

So, I REALLY love the idea of having a threesome, I even picture my husband fucking the other girl while she's eating me out and him & I are just staring at each other which so much passion .. my problem is I'm kind of afraid he may get this idea that I'm not enough. Now I know for fact he'd never cheat on me had I never brought a threesome up .. but idk why I feel that way since I do completely trust him. Have you ever felt like this?

Absolutely I’ve felt that way. It was always a small nagging concern in the back of my mind. It’s such a complex subject isn’t it?? I think the best way for me to handle those feelings of inadequacy was to take them and shift them in my mind. I used it as fuel for a fire that burned inside me. Like this small fire that started to burn… I transferred my anger, my jealousy and my hurt into this raging fire that I used as a tool to win him back. It’s like my inner beast was awakened and I let it out kind of. I reclaimed him after the encounters and made him see just what I was made of. I made it my goal to prove to him that there was nobody better than me. It really sounds silly when it’s in words and I’m feeling insecure about sharing this… But there you have it. Everybody is different though and you just gave to find what works for you. Those feelings are totally normal though and it’s really scary! But as long as you both work together and you ask for what you need (reassurance, quality time, validation etc etc etc) then you’ll be just fine. Hope this little ramble helps 🤓

What a crazy and powerful week. Here's the gist: We each gave each other explicit permission to fuck others, on condition that there's no falling in love or tearing this family apart. We are still very (VERY) into each other, so this is not at all a green light to go slutty with anything that breathes... more a promise that messing around won't shatter us. We acknowledge that we are both sexy, horny people, and we both are ready to begin a new chapter in our marriage. Together. My god, the conversations have been surreal (but wonderful). And I strapped her down to the bed to remind her that I'm her alpha. That was a fun night. Now my little bird is free to be herself, and I've never seen her so happy and sexy and beautiful.

Hey my lady and I are interesting in this type of lifestyle but she's nervous and we don't know where to start. Any advice?

Best advice? Take it really really slow. If she’s nervous or apprehensive at all, she’s not ready. Some butterflies are going to be normal because it’s uncharted territory, but it’s hard to say what’s best because I don’t know you or your partner and each situation is unique. Is it actual cuckqueening she’s into? Or just FFM play? Because they’re similar but different… Start with role playing or dirty fantasy talk? You could pretend she’s the other woman while you’re getting it on? Have her describe to you her fantasy, what turns her on and just go with it. That’s how hubs and I got started. I always knew I liked the idea of him with other women. After a few drinks and getting a little loose lipped, I’d describe to him in full detail what I liked, what I wanted to see, what I fantasized about while we got it on. It’s really what started all of this. Let her take the lead and go at a pace that’s comfortable for her. If you’re past all of that and she seems comfortable and interested then go on a date together and check out women while you’re out. Don’t actually pick anybody up yet, just make it a fun game. Where you both look for, talk about and fantasize about a female together and see where it leads? It took Hubs and I a long LONG time to actually bring someone into our bed because we wanted to be SURE it didn’t negatively affect our relationship. We were very cautious because you can’t go back in time and undo something that happened. All too often people jump in with two feet without thinking about the consequences or repercussions. We took it really slow, made sure both parties were comfortable. It was a natural progression to where we are today. I totally just rambled on and on here. But it’s hard for me to answer these asks with so little information. I hope this helps somebody somehow! 💋

Things my wife has said lately...

Do you want me to like girls more? -maybe a little. But what you do now is awesome and I love you.

You should flirt more. I don’t care if you squeeze tits and kiss, just bring that energy home to me.

Re: our completely spontaneous new playmate who my wife invited over, and then got eaten by at least twice (that I know of)… I asked why did you bring her home; what did you want to do with me? She replied: I did it for you. I just wanted to have some fun. I thought you would like it.

Then she said: I was really drunk and don’t remember much…

That’s just self-defense. She was feeling stir-crazy back then, and needed to find a way to shake things up. Well, it worked. But perhaps it was too much too fast, she got in over her head and is still trying to process it.

I love my wife and she’s super fun to fuck. We’ve been hitting each other hard for a couple years now, it’s been a glorious resurgence of our honeymoon years (our initial romantic period lasted at least six years–though now it’s even better, more dialed in, more hot).

I said: I’d like to try again. I want you to bring a friend home to suck my cock. Let’s play and make our organisms even bigger.

She agreed. She wants to try again, so we’re talking about it in detail.

I’ve got you. I love you. You’re my favorite.

Do ever turn to Your husband when you need to feel reassured of yourself/ do you ever feel neglected even if it's unintentional?

Of course I do! My husband is my rock. He’s always there to provide me with any assurance or comfort I need. That’s what marriage/partnerships are about. He does this FOR me, not to me. I enjoy it and I want it and if that ever changed he wouldn’t want to go forward with it any longer. Honestly I think I enjoy it more than he does 😉 We don’t enjoy humiliation or degradation of any sort whatsoever. If you need something from your significant other, just ask. If either party isn’t enjoying themselves or isn’t being satisfied, then it shouldn’t be happening. Good luck! Hope this helped ❤️