So, I REALLY Love The Idea Of Having A Threesome, I Even Picture My Husband Fucking The Other Girl While

Jealousy is a natural human emotion that we obviously all feel occasionally. I was just wondering because your situation is more unique than most how you personally deal with jealousy in your relationship or how often jealousy comes into play with a relationship dynamic like yours.

I would be lying if I said I didn’t feel those pangs of jealousy, but what I do with those feelings is what helps me. I literally transfer them. I know that sounds odd, and I’m not sure how I do it, but I change them and force those feelings to manifest as other feelings… So instead of jealousy I end up feeling really turned on, determined and challenged with winning back my husband’s affections. Sometimes I get sad, sometimes it’s anger, and most often it turns me on. I know for a fact I am strange, and my brain definitely isn’t wired like others… I think it also helps that I have a deep respect and admiration for my husband and I know he feels the same about me. At the very root of it all, I feel loved and supported and connected to him in ways that could never be broken. I know he would never leave me or do anything to hurt me. We only do this because I want him to, not the other way around 😉 So I guess it’s a combination of it all. My desires mixed with my strange way of thinking and the rock solid foundation I have with my partner! If you’re struggling with issues of jealousy don’t be afraid to speak up. Talk to your partner! If left to fester jealousy can break up marriages and relationships. Being open and honest is a must if you want to navigate this lifestyle together. Good luck! ❤️

31 Female here.. I absolutely adore your blog! Love it love it! Question: was it tough for you to get through any jealousy issues? If so, how did you get through them?

Yes! The first time we played I was insanely jealous and insecure and a mess. But I think that’s what drew me back in. Call it insanity but there’s a rush of adrenaline that comes with it too. I think for me, winning back my husband affections is what helped me through it. I knew I had some work to do. I had to own him, reclaim him, make him remember why he chose ME. That worked paired with openly talking to him about it. I know in our regular life, he would never do anything to hurt me or harm me. He would never cheat on me or lie to me. So with that rock solid foundation paired with open communication and all around great sex, we get through it together. It sounds crazy. You just need to find what works for you :)

Status

It's been just over a year since my wife first attempted to bring a playmate to bed with us. A year of thinking about it and what it means (if anything). It's been about a month since events forced us to focus attention on love, sex, and the foundations of our relationship. A month in which I learned my wife had wandered a bit; and talked about and then fulfilled our first FFM/swap with a fun couple. A month in which, somehow, our love for each other has increased exponentially. We are talking more than ever. We are reconnected like newlyweds. It's wonderful

Yeah that would be my wife on a dare

Freedom+Trust+Honesty

About eight of our best friend and neighborhood couples have gotten divorced in the last two years. It was weird how it cascaded from household to household, pent-up issues and dissatisfaction all revealing itself at once.

One of the things we’ve gleaned from all this heartbreak is a theme of repression/control contributed to the relationships’ failure.

We have vowed to avoid this issue.

So technically, we have an open marriage. It’s still a novel thought.

What a crazy and powerful week. Here's the gist: We each gave each other explicit permission to fuck others, on condition that there's no falling in love or tearing this family apart. We are still very (VERY) into each other, so this is not at all a green light to go slutty with anything that breathes... more a promise that messing around won't shatter us. We acknowledge that we are both sexy, horny people, and we both are ready to begin a new chapter in our marriage. Together. My god, the conversations have been surreal (but wonderful). And I strapped her down to the bed to remind her that I'm her alpha. That was a fun night. Now my little bird is free to be herself, and I've never seen her so happy and sexy and beautiful.

What made you decide to share you're husband? I wish I could get my wife to share me. Can you tell many any secrets to get my wife to share me?

I’ve always loved the idea of my husband being with another woman. I would try and dare my friends to kiss him after we’d been drinking, or ask him if he thought my friends were good looking… I really like watching him enjoy himself and he deserves to feel good. So it all kind of swirled together that way. I don’t think you can make somebody think/feel a certain way… But you might be able to try and experience some new and exciting things together and see where it takes you! That’s what sexual exploration is all about, right! No destination, just enjoy the ride. So with that being said, maybe you could see if she’s into threesome porn, female female male scenarios especially. See if she’s interested in bringing a woman into the bedroom. Ask HER what turns her on and go with it. You could tell her you’re interested this lifestyle, but that might look bad because then looks like you want to cheat. This lifestyle is really about the woman’s desire to share her husband so it really has to come from within her. Good luck!