Hey My Lady And I Are Interesting In This Type Of Lifestyle But She's Nervous And We Don't Know Where
Hey my lady and I are interesting in this type of lifestyle but she's nervous and we don't know where to start. Any advice?
Best advice? Take it really really slow. If she’s nervous or apprehensive at all, she’s not ready. Some butterflies are going to be normal because it’s uncharted territory, but it’s hard to say what’s best because I don’t know you or your partner and each situation is unique. Is it actual cuckqueening she’s into? Or just FFM play? Because they’re similar but different… Start with role playing or dirty fantasy talk? You could pretend she’s the other woman while you’re getting it on? Have her describe to you her fantasy, what turns her on and just go with it. That’s how hubs and I got started. I always knew I liked the idea of him with other women. After a few drinks and getting a little loose lipped, I’d describe to him in full detail what I liked, what I wanted to see, what I fantasized about while we got it on. It’s really what started all of this. Let her take the lead and go at a pace that’s comfortable for her. If you’re past all of that and she seems comfortable and interested then go on a date together and check out women while you’re out. Don’t actually pick anybody up yet, just make it a fun game. Where you both look for, talk about and fantasize about a female together and see where it leads? It took Hubs and I a long LONG time to actually bring someone into our bed because we wanted to be SURE it didn’t negatively affect our relationship. We were very cautious because you can’t go back in time and undo something that happened. All too often people jump in with two feet without thinking about the consequences or repercussions. We took it really slow, made sure both parties were comfortable. It was a natural progression to where we are today. I totally just rambled on and on here. But it’s hard for me to answer these asks with so little information. I hope this helps somebody somehow! 💋
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Recently said by my wife...
Tonight, while we're at dinner together: “I can’t help it–every girl I look at I’m like, would she suck my husband’s dick with me…”
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What made you decide to share you're husband? I wish I could get my wife to share me. Can you tell many any secrets to get my wife to share me?
I’ve always loved the idea of my husband being with another woman. I would try and dare my friends to kiss him after we’d been drinking, or ask him if he thought my friends were good looking… I really like watching him enjoy himself and he deserves to feel good. So it all kind of swirled together that way. I don’t think you can make somebody think/feel a certain way… But you might be able to try and experience some new and exciting things together and see where it takes you! That’s what sexual exploration is all about, right! No destination, just enjoy the ride. So with that being said, maybe you could see if she’s into threesome porn, female female male scenarios especially. See if she’s interested in bringing a woman into the bedroom. Ask HER what turns her on and go with it. You could tell her you’re interested this lifestyle, but that might look bad because then looks like you want to cheat. This lifestyle is really about the woman’s desire to share her husband so it really has to come from within her. Good luck!
There's lots of FFM blogs, but you are the coolest by answering questions and sharing insights. Thank you for sharing this part of your life. Wifey and I are taking baby steps into this, and your comments are helpful. 😘
Thank you! Glad the blog is helping in some way! ❤️
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