So technically, we have an open marriage. It’s still a novel thought.
What a crazy and powerful week. Here's the gist: We each gave each other explicit permission to fuck others, on condition that there's no falling in love or tearing this family apart. We are still very (VERY) into each other, so this is not at all a green light to go slutty with anything that breathes... more a promise that messing around won't shatter us. We acknowledge that we are both sexy, horny people, and we both are ready to begin a new chapter in our marriage. Together. My god, the conversations have been surreal (but wonderful). And I strapped her down to the bed to remind her that I'm her alpha. That was a fun night. Now my little bird is free to be herself, and I've never seen her so happy and sexy and beautiful.
My wife and I are deeply in love and committed to protecting our lives together and our family unit. We will grow old together and are resolved to work out any issues that pop up on this new journey.
She takes very good care of me in the bedroom. She almost never says no. She encourages me to use her, and enjoys it profoundly when I control her and show her she’s mine. She’s normally outspoken, jubilant and assertive (which I love) but she actually becomes a sub for me when I have the time to do her right (as I said, we have a family- so it's not every time). She is amazing, and I love making her cum. She is mine.
She also has an out of state lover she visits occasionally. He’s a fling, and it’s giving her some level of fulfillment and satisfaction she’s craving. She says it’s temporary, and in the big picture she remains mine.
She isn’t particularly hungry for new lovers, but knows she has permission to play when I’m not around. She has no real desire to have another male in the same room with me. When I’m around, she prefers me.
She’s happy to take a female playmate anytime, and to find one to bring to me to share.
She encourages me to take my own lovers on the side, if I feel the need. This has not happened yet, but I am now willing.
Processing all this emotionally has been a challenge, but we are working out the psychological kinks and getting stronger daily. We are a team.
Do you want me to like girls more? -maybe a little. But what you do now is awesome and I love you.
You should flirt more. I don’t care if you squeeze tits and kiss, just bring that energy home to me.
Re: our completely spontaneous new playmate who my wife invited over, and then got eaten by at least twice (that I know of)… I asked why did you bring her home; what did you want to do with me? She replied: I did it for you. I just wanted to have some fun. I thought you would like it.
Then she said: I was really drunk and don’t remember much…
That’s just self-defense. She was feeling stir-crazy back then, and needed to find a way to shake things up. Well, it worked. But perhaps it was too much too fast, she got in over her head and is still trying to process it.
I love my wife and she’s super fun to fuck. We’ve been hitting each other hard for a couple years now, it’s been a glorious resurgence of our honeymoon years (our initial romantic period lasted at least six years–though now it’s even better, more dialed in, more hot).
I said: I’d like to try again. I want you to bring a friend home to suck my cock. Let’s play and make our organisms even bigger.
She agreed. She wants to try again, so we’re talking about it in detail.
I’ve got you. I love you. You’re my favorite.
-------------18+ adults only----------Our slow journey into playtime. Happily married 15+ years, stable couple w kids, and starting to explore FFM and swapping.
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