Do Ever Turn To Your Husband When You Need To Feel Reassured Of Yourself/ Do You Ever Feel Neglected

What a crazy and powerful week. Here's the gist: We each gave each other explicit permission to fuck others, on condition that there's no falling in love or tearing this family apart. We are still very (VERY) into each other, so this is not at all a green light to go slutty with anything that breathes... more a promise that messing around won't shatter us. We acknowledge that we are both sexy, horny people, and we both are ready to begin a new chapter in our marriage. Together. My god, the conversations have been surreal (but wonderful). And I strapped her down to the bed to remind her that I'm her alpha. That was a fun night. Now my little bird is free to be herself, and I've never seen her so happy and sexy and beautiful.

Hey my lady and I are interesting in this type of lifestyle but she's nervous and we don't know where to start. Any advice?

Best advice? Take it really really slow. If she’s nervous or apprehensive at all, she’s not ready. Some butterflies are going to be normal because it’s uncharted territory, but it’s hard to say what’s best because I don’t know you or your partner and each situation is unique. Is it actual cuckqueening she’s into? Or just FFM play? Because they’re similar but different… Start with role playing or dirty fantasy talk? You could pretend she’s the other woman while you’re getting it on? Have her describe to you her fantasy, what turns her on and just go with it. That’s how hubs and I got started. I always knew I liked the idea of him with other women. After a few drinks and getting a little loose lipped, I’d describe to him in full detail what I liked, what I wanted to see, what I fantasized about while we got it on. It’s really what started all of this. Let her take the lead and go at a pace that’s comfortable for her. If you’re past all of that and she seems comfortable and interested then go on a date together and check out women while you’re out. Don’t actually pick anybody up yet, just make it a fun game. Where you both look for, talk about and fantasize about a female together and see where it leads? It took Hubs and I a long LONG time to actually bring someone into our bed because we wanted to be SURE it didn’t negatively affect our relationship. We were very cautious because you can’t go back in time and undo something that happened. All too often people jump in with two feet without thinking about the consequences or repercussions. We took it really slow, made sure both parties were comfortable. It was a natural progression to where we are today. I totally just rambled on and on here. But it’s hard for me to answer these asks with so little information. I hope this helps somebody somehow! 💋

We are in the midst of this as well. It's exciting. And our 1on1 sex has been massively more hot and passionate for months.

Hi! No question, I just wanted to tell you how much I love your blog! My boyfriend and I recently had our first threesome, and while we were busy planning it, I realized I was more turned on by the idea of him with another woman, than the idea of me being with another woman for the first time. During our threesome, watching them turned out to be the most erotic experience of my life!! It was at that moment I realized I was a quean. We both decided to explore this further, and I'm soooo excited!!

😍😍😍 Such a rush, right?? I’m so glad you two are exploring this further. And together! Thank you for sharing 💋

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Yeah that would be my wife on a dare