What A Crazy And Powerful Week. Here's The Gist: We Each Gave Each Other Explicit Permission To Fuck
What a crazy and powerful week. Here's the gist: We each gave each other explicit permission to fuck others, on condition that there's no falling in love or tearing this family apart. We are still very (VERY) into each other, so this is not at all a green light to go slutty with anything that breathes... more a promise that messing around won't shatter us. We acknowledge that we are both sexy, horny people, and we both are ready to begin a new chapter in our marriage. Together. My god, the conversations have been surreal (but wonderful). And I strapped her down to the bed to remind her that I'm her alpha. That was a fun night. Now my little bird is free to be herself, and I've never seen her so happy and sexy and beautiful.
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Status
It's been just over a year since my wife first attempted to bring a playmate to bed with us. A year of thinking about it and what it means (if anything). It's been about a month since events forced us to focus attention on love, sex, and the foundations of our relationship. A month in which I learned my wife had wandered a bit; and talked about and then fulfilled our first FFM/swap with a fun couple. A month in which, somehow, our love for each other has increased exponentially. We are talking more than ever. We are reconnected like newlyweds. It's wonderful
Evolutions
So my wife cheated on me. While away on a girls’ trip she made a connection with a random at the bar and ended up letting him in.
She only confessed because we’ve been having these ffm conversations and it came up. I asked if she wanted my blessing to take another man… she was absolutely terrified to tell me that she already did. I had to promise a hundred times that it would be ok and won’t divorce her.
And I won’t. I’m not a hypocrite. I’m asking her to bring a playmate home for some of my fantasies, and she has explicitly told me I’m free to go play if I ever feel the need… of course I have to extend the same courtesy to her.
Unfortunately her hook-up ended up having certain complicating factors, and she had to build up quite the web of lies to keep it hidden from me. It was a terrible burden on her heart and I’m glad she released that burden.
I forgave her for cheating on me, but the lying really hurt me and damaged my trust.
For 17 years it’s been only my cock. And she’s pretty demanding. So I get it-
It’s been a process getting through the emotions involved, but we are rock solid again.
There's lots of FFM blogs, but you are the coolest by answering questions and sharing insights. Thank you for sharing this part of your life. Wifey and I are taking baby steps into this, and your comments are helpful. 😘
Thank you! Glad the blog is helping in some way! ❤️
Recently said by my wife:
Let’s choose a girl and try to pick her up. Destroy my pussy. I like when you own me.
Sooooooo hotttttttttt part 1 of 2
Freedom+Trust+Honesty
About eight of our best friend and neighborhood couples have gotten divorced in the last two years. It was weird how it cascaded from household to household, pent-up issues and dissatisfaction all revealing itself at once.
One of the things we’ve gleaned from all this heartbreak is a theme of repression/control contributed to the relationships’ failure.
We have vowed to avoid this issue.
-------------18+ adults only----------Our slow journey into playtime. Happily married 15+ years, stable couple w kids, and starting to explore FFM and swapping.
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