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i think youre last sentence sort of summed up how we think about being plural and thats why we struggle with the idea of it being an identity on its own instead of being something that contributes to your identities.

like being multiple parts contributes to our gender identity 100% but its not its own identity seperate from that.

it also feels like saying it is is more of a way to describe it to singlets which would make sense. but i dont really enjoy having specific words and such that put us all into smaller categories so singlets can understand. its why we avoid using specific parts language outside of some of the therapy specific words.

why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?

being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such

yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as

we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.

you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?

yes it works for bpd

it doesnt work well for dissociative disorders though because you need to do parts work and face trauma before youre able to actually ground yourself and have a wise mind

most dbt skills temporarily calm you down but as soon as you stop actively using them youll start dissociating again

dbt isnt made for chronic dissociation

heres my wacky opinion of the day:

DBT is useless for people with dissociative disorders and i think it needs to be talked more about how and why

falling in love with your fwb is heartbreaking

i wish he could see me

Saying you have a "transfemme" alter in a dfab body is super fucking transphobic, I thought you'd know better. You can take your fake system and go play with the other fakes okay?

why is transphobic? give me like actual solid reasoning

im not saying you can be mtf in an afab body or ftm in an amab body while fronting

but there are identities under the trans umbrella that you can be that falls under masc and fem and honestly not respecting those identities feels more transphobic

new headcanon

evan rosier is a lesboy

im a narc and im recovering from the abuse i lived through so im gonna use the gosh diddly darn narc abuse recovery tag for shits and giggles

friendly reminder RAMCOA is real and exists. there are plenty of systems out there who have suffered this abuse and live their lives with the consequences.

i just think people need to remember them sometimes because they deserve to be acknowledged and feel seen too.

MEET NEOGLOWRATZ

•21

•he/they/it/rat/ze

•DID, NPD, ADHD, ASD, OCD, Bipolar, GERD, EDS, Gastroparesis, POTS, MCAS, Scoliosis

•This is my chaos blog, kinda just post whatever on here

•We have a seperate blog for our littles and a few other specific alter blogs (not willing to share them on this account)

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Fandoms we write for:

•Marauders

•Spiderman/MCU/Team Red

•Batfam

•Creepypasta/Slendervers

•Teenwolf

•Six of Crows/Shadow and Bone

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me when marc and steven are simping over each other and im just third wheeling everytime we’re all in front together

-jake

if he calls his mom and it turns out she’s actually dead im going sue marvel & kick kevin in the balls