Saying You Have A "transfemme" Alter In A Dfab Body Is Super Fucking Transphobic, I Thought You'd Know

why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?

being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such

yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as

we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.

you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?

give me begrudging disgruntled older brother frank langdon where the entire ED crew goes out and abby meets the med students and just in tired mom mode decides that yes these are her responsibility now too

she starts packing lunches for frank to take with him to give out to them (doesnt pack frank a lunch ofc, he just grabs a granola bar or an apple mr "ill just grab smth at work")

she gives them all her number and frequently checks in to make sure theyre sleeping enough and getting enough food

for their birthdays she drags them all out to celebrate

and frank's just there for the ride, he cant say no to his wife so he starts checking on them too

so now he just has four little ducklings following him around asking him for snacks and asking to come over after shift to spend time with his kids

I don’t blame Steven I can’t spot the difference

it impacts it in the same way bipolar or ptsd does. that doesnt make bipolar or ptsd an identity.

why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?

being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such

yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as

we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.

you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?

i have so many pitt fics brewing and ready to go

but im sitting here just waiting for the final episode so i can truly be a menace and make it as chaotic and like canon as possible

y’all i started watched Our Flag Means Death today and HOLY CRAP!! i love this show so much already and i’m only two episodes in.

the characters, the plot, just everything

absolutely amazing

-sully

THIS THIS THIS

people on the reddit sub for the pitt demonizing frank for yelling at robby as if hes not a man who is scared for his job and his life???

like was what he said the right thing? no

is his addiction like robby's ptsd? no

but is he a guy who is at the end of a 15 hour shift with a mass shooting who is suffering from withdrawal watching himself hit rock bottom??? yes

addiction, like ptsd, is a disease and both robby and frank are at their lows and taking it out on each other in the wrong way

robby needs therapy

frank needs rehab

i hope the show tackles that in some way

So fun fact I’m a hellenic poltheist and I’ve made a discord server for other polytheists and I’m currently working on the athenian calendar for the year. So like if anyone wants to join that’d be dope.

Hey uh singlets maybe don't tag your random moon knight posts with DID-