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To be systempunk is to be critical of misinformation even in our own community, so I'll post my own two cents: hot take that should be "hot" as lukewarm water, but sysmeds don't exist.
"Sysmeds" are just people with DID/OSDD. In order to develop DID/OSDD you need to have experienced repetitive childhood trauma while on a certain age rage, be predisposed to dissociation as a coping mechanism and on top of all of that to be disconnected (this term can mean emotionally and/or physically) from your primary caregivers. If you haven't met any of the many levels of those criterias and you still claim to be a system, then you are not. This is a traumagenic disorder that has many comorbidities with other disorders, such as C-PTSD.
I do not care one bit if this post will send so called mixed origins "systems" down a spiral, do us a favour and stop with the blatant bastardization of terms related to actual medical misinformation such as transmedicalism. - 🏹🌿
welp
thought we were doing good with the whole splitting and stuff but then we moved back home and somehow didnt notice us split several new parts
ofc we had to start fixating on some new medias at the same time
so ig welcome to the fuckin system kaz, aleks, jordie, heather, marcus, devin, spencer, hotch, and jj
im never watching a new tv show ever again (or rewatching a comfort show) genuinely wtf brain
i think youre last sentence sort of summed up how we think about being plural and thats why we struggle with the idea of it being an identity on its own instead of being something that contributes to your identities.
like being multiple parts contributes to our gender identity 100% but its not its own identity seperate from that.
it also feels like saying it is is more of a way to describe it to singlets which would make sense. but i dont really enjoy having specific words and such that put us all into smaller categories so singlets can understand. its why we avoid using specific parts language outside of some of the therapy specific words.
why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?
being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such
yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as
we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.
you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?
i made a polycrows sims household and inej and kaz had a baby
nina and matthias both have loyalty issues though and keep getting jealous of each other's relationship with the others (specifically with inej)
wylan's the only one currently bringing in a large enough paycheck for them to pay the bills
jesper's constantly wanting to woohoo and milo (their dog) is kinda just there existing
ive decided im bored of them all living in the same house so im going to have an accident happen where jordie (the baby, currently toddler) drowns and have a major blow out over that between a few of the crows so i can move them out into seperate neighboring houses im working on preparing rn
guess who's celebrating october by writing a batfamily angst fic everyday
this guy 😎
romeo and juliet /pos
ok ok so this might sound a bit gross so like if you arent prepared please keep scrolling
to my fellow gastroparesis havers, how do you manage the taste in your mouth? like the disgusting taste of rancid food thats sitting in your stomach? because thats all ive been tasting for days (and its definitely my fault cause i ate a whole bunch of ice cream and junk food) but i cant get it to go away at all and the last time this happened to this extent i ended up throwing it all up
so please give me tips if you have them
"Inshallah he will OD soon" fucking sent me
if i see one more person calling marc the “original” or saying he “created” steven and jake i am going to actually lose my freakin mind.
That! Is! Not! How! This! Works!
do some god damn research before making uneducated assumptions on how dissociative identity disorder works
sincerely, signed,
an anonymous introject from the show
