no rest for the wicked but the wicked is an emotional unstable asexual biromatic disaster with abandonment and daddy issues who instead of going to therapy reads unholy amounts of platonic soulmate AU's on ao3 she/her 18
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All the morons trying to claim that Dean wasn't saying anything to Cas because he was holding back slurs or something equally ridiculous... what show have you been watching? Surely not Supernatural. Like, yeah, Dean had some internalized shit for a while (mostly cause of how he was raised, let's be real), but this isn't season fucking one. Dean's in his goddamn forties now guys.
But you still think Dean Winchester is homophobic? Let's examine the evidence then, shall we?
1. Aaron Bass: Dean was flustered because he's not used to being hit on by dudes, but he was completely respectful. And he was alone, too. It wasn't like he was trying to "hide his homophobia" from Sam. He could've said whatever he wanted in that moment without anyone ever knowing, and he chose to awkwardly walk backward and wish Aaron a nice day. Then later, when they're working with him, Dean says nothing about it (other than a quick "he was my gay thing" to Sam), doesn't make it weird, and talks to him exactly the same way he would talk to anyone else.
2. Jesse and Ceasar: Dean's surprised when he realizes that they're married, again because he's not really used to it and so he made the wrong assumptions (which I will point out is really really normal, it happens all the time even between queer people, because heteronormativity is very much a thing in real life). But what does he do when he finds out? He asks them about their marriage - with genuine curiosity. What's it like to be in a relationship with a hunter, is it hard, all that jazz. Never asks about the fact that they're both men, none of those gross "so who's the woman" questions, literally just. Talking to two married hunters. That's it. Then later, when they're working, he never once questions their capability as hunters or suggests that they're weak in any way. There's no "you're less 'manly' because you're gay" mindset at all. And at the end of the episode he's genuinely happy for them, two hunters who managed to get out of the life and retire together.
There's lots of other examples (several male cops have been obviously into him over the years, his reaction to Jody talking about Claire and Kaia, all the subtext surrounding Lee, etc.) but for my last one for now, let's not forget...
3. Charlie fucking Bradbury: Arguably Dean's best friend besides Cas (no I haven't forgotten about Benny, I love Benny, but he was part of a very specific chapter of Dean's life and that chapter is done). We've known she was a lesbian from the get-go, and Dean takes it in stride when he finds out, immediately improvising to coach her through some painfully awkward flirting so she can get into the office ("you've just come home, and Scarlett Johansson is waiting for you"). And yes, there's the whole "I feel dirty" "yeah so do I" bit there, but that's clearly established as a joke, plus the guy was gross - as someone who is attracted to both women and men, I would feel dirty after flirting with him too.
The next few times we see Charlie, she and Dean are geeks and dweebs together, Dean is having more fun than we've seen in years, and we see him be a really good friend - in some ways, a better friend than he is to Cas. Charlie talks to him a little bit about girls, they LARP, they go shopping together, Dean comforts her when she has to let go of her mom. When she's killed, he gets so upset he goes on a murderous rampage (maybe not the most healthy way to deal with greif, but nonetheless showing how much she mattered to him). When he sees an alternate version of her in trouble he's immediately ready to risk his own life to help her even though she doesn't know him. He loved her like a sister, and he never once expressed any issues with her sexuality.
So let's go back to Cas. Cas is in love with Dean. Not much of a surprise there, he's said it before. But this is the first time Dean understands that that's what he's saying. It makes sense that he's a little stunned, especially considering that Cas is also saying that he's about to die. I mean, if your best friend of twelve years told you one day that they've been in love with you all along, that just knowing you has irrevocably changed them for the better, and that also by the way telling you this means they're going to die, mightn't you be rendered a tad speechless?
Dean does not hate Cas for this. Not at all. Because whether or not Dean is bi, whether or not he reciprocates, Cas is still his best friend. We've seen how hard Dean grieves every time Cas dies. We know how much Cas matters to him. Of all the shit they've put each other through, there's absolutely no logical reason for this to be the thing that damages their friendship beyond repair. Not after everything. No fucking way.
Dean says nothing because he doesn't know what to say, because he's still processing Cas's confession but also already grieving and blaming himself for Cas's death. The way he breaks down at the very end of the episode? That's not a man who's disgusted. That's a man who's shattered.
How dare you try to simplify this incredibly complex and emotional moment into Dean being a dick. How dare you. It's positively insulting. The entire point of Cas's speech was that Dean is so much more than that. If you can't see that, than I'm sorry, but you're missing the whole message of the show.
Supernatural is about family and sacrifice. It's about free will, making your own choices. And it's about being more than just who you're supposed to be, going beyond what other people want or assume. All the depth beneath the surface. That's the show. That's why we're still watching after all this time. Because it means something important. Something relevant. Something real.
Don't you fucking discredit that.
(thank you for coming to my TED talk)
Has this been done before? Yes it has. Is it still entertaining? You bet!
Some tags from @ao3tagoftheday
"Well done, you just decapitated your grandfather."
i’ll start: “i’m a god you dull creature!”
peter parker, expressing his affection as any teen would: thor i would die for you :)
thor, gripping his shoulders with the intensity of ten thousand burning suns: i would never let that happen
Anyway adults saying “I don’t know isn’t an answer” is part of the reason I learned to lie and bluff so well.
Raven makes mistakes sometimes.
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Gen Z is slowly dying on the inside as you paint a smile on your face.
Gen Z is hoping for another bomb threat so you can get out of taking that math test.
Gen Z is laughing at things that make no sense to anyone else because they don’t realize that humor is the only thing we have left.
Gen Z is making nihilistic jokes all the time.
Gen Z is saying you want to die and hearing your friends say they want to die and not quite knowing if they really mean it anymore and being scared that they do.
Gen Z is not making those jokes so much after someone really does die.
Gen Z is knowing exactly why every door on campus needs an ID card to open.
Gen Z is knowing that those locks won’t do shit if something really happens.
Gen Z is wondering when someone will come to your school and start killing your friends.
Gen Z is hating the shitheads in charge and just waiting until you can finally do something about them.
Gen Z is being torn between wanting to die and wanting to overthrow the government.
Gen Z is being tired of being treated like a child when our childhoods were ripped away from us years ago.
Gen Z is growing up too fast but still no one else will take you seriously.
Gen Z is angry.
Gen Z is done.
Gen Z is here and you’d better watch your asses.
GenZ culture is Wanting to talk about your real issues with your family, but refusing to because you’ll be told its because of that damn phone.
GenZ culture is considering self harm but never doing it because you don’t want to be shamed by everyone except other GenZ’s
GenZ culture is having your childhood ripped away by all the problems in life that the older generations started
GenZ culture is wanting to kill yourself but never doing it because there are too many fucked up things in this world to fix first
GenZ culture is being treated like a child, even though your right to be one has been ripped away
GenZ culture is Joking about having depression with your friends, but wondering if it’s really just a joke
GenZ culture is sad
But GenZ culture is the most accepting
GenZ culture is not understanding how people can just Judge based on sexuality, race, or looks. It’s not knowing why there has to be people like this in the world.
GenZ culture is ready to fight back
We’re only finding out recently that a lot of animals have colors and patterns that we cannot see because they’re outside of our visual range. It calls to attention how much of the world we can’t experience because our senses are limited. When we shine UV lights on them, they glow pink or blue, but these are the colors that we CAN see…. they could be a bunch of different colors, which we SEE as all pink. It’s also interesting to consider that most of these animals are not aware of having glowing patches on their bodies…. isn’t it also possible that we have skin or hair patterns that were not aware of? . . (There is actually some research out there to support the idea that our own skin fluoresces as well and that there are gender differences in the pattern and glow.) Other places to see my posts: INSTAGRAM / FACEBOOK / ETSY / KICKSTARTER
Gen z culture is living out of spite
It’s a cat. What do you exspect?
Best buds.
For the last three years I had this teacher I was rly afraid of, because he was always extremely intimidating. Today I was in class and when he came in he sneezed and I expected it to sound like someone murdering an elephant instead he sounded like an adorable, fluffy, kitten and I don't think I can look him in the eye ever again without cackling like a madman.
dude: *draws on girl who sits next to him*
girl: *gets mad, punches the dude*
dude: *is to manly to let it end there, punches her back*
girl: *is too much of a feminist to let him win, punches back while cursing*
other dude, behind the two: *stops throwing his neighbours pens at the trashcan, starts throwing them at the two in front*
dude who doesn't have any pens anymore: *wakes up, gets mad at pen throwing dude*
other girl: *genuinely tries to ask a question despite the fistfight between the first dude and girl next to her*
teacher: *on the verge of walking out the door/window and or a mental breakdown*
the rest of the class: *chanting the names of the people involved*
death: i've come to collect your soul
me: wait one more episode