More Of Him

Apparently this is a trend? Not that I needed an excuse for it anyway

(I owe one of you a Valentine request. I haven't forgotten about it. I discarded like 4 sketches, but I think I finally have one that I might finish, although it's more wintery than Valentine themed)

This is very relatable

You can pry my AGAB info from my cold dead hands.

(from u/Carousel-of-Masks on Reddit)

"Obviously, I’m exaggerating for the point, but holy hell does it piss me off when someone demands to know my AGAB. “It’s important info!”

FOR WHAT? For u to have an expectation of my genitals and internal sex chromosomes? News flash, any trans person will tell u that AGAB does not = typical presentation of that gender.

On top of this, it’s my CHOICE to reveal my AGAB. I like keeping it a mystery because people are all too quick to assign certain expectations of me based on AGAB.

AMAB? Oh trans woman in denial! Man in dress stereotype!

AFAB? Oh trans man in denial! Completely feminine woman-lite stereotype!

Like. No. I’m just me. An extremely dysphoric non-binary person that actually would love to be binary but has to grapple with an internal gender that does not feel like the 2 binary options. I say I am non-binary to escape those expectations in the first place. AGAB just reduces it all back down to the binary.

Now, other non-binary people can do whatever u want. Not like I can control anyone else’s actions. But a part of me does hate how prevalent it is to write “Non-binary (AFAB/AMAB)” every time someone mentions they are non-binary. I’m not talking about specific tips for transitioning, hrt, etc. But everyday conversation, social media posts about nothing to do with gender, etc."

Something about this rant deeply resonated with me, so I decided to crosspost it onto here. You cannot reinvent the binary to include nonbinary people. It will never work.

Wanted to reblog because I like this so much

“the void is so kind … we are all just yelling at her n she just sits n listens …” ~bepeu

I like to think that no matter what, the Void is a kind and gentle soul who only wants to help those who come to her. She listens to everything you have to say, and knows that sometimes… that’s just all you need. ~me

Meet Void, the ever-lasting mother. She wants nothing but happiness for you, even if it means you have to yell and scream to feel better.

That poor pest control guy did not know what he was getting into, but given the state of my yard i feel like he should have known what he was getting into.

The Preserver’s Hand

....I...Good to know...

the worst part about ocd and ocd-like tendencies is that you think hyper-analyzing your thoughts and constantly psychoanalyzing yourself will fix you but that's actually part of the disorder. it's the disorder. disordering.

Goth Bancoran is hot

#CertifiedSillyMoment

when you're nonbinary cis people will constantly try to shove you back into the binary, and you'll think "hey maybe the queer community will treat me better" but then the queer community tries to shove you into a new "progressive" binary because no one can handle you not fitting neatly into a box

so clearly being nonbinary is the queerest gender you can be since it's too queer even for queer people

[binary people can reblog this but don't derail]

Shaming your kids for not knowing certain things does not encourage them to learn them