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Just under fifteen years so far
I didn’t want to do this. But I’m only doing it for my friend. She’s the last person I care about, and said this is my only way out now. She thinks other people will care lmao. Anyways the agreement was, I have to post this, agree to what we said, and I have to have it in all caps, colored, and tag it. So…
One note= one more day I stay alive.
please don’t do it. I need out.
every holocaust memorial day, i always ask people to keep romani people in their thoughts, but this year i’d like to clear up some misconceptions that i see every year w/ a psa
romani people are not white. we’re south asian (from northern india), and each subgroup has a unique racial makeup of asian/white/etc, in different amounts. this is also why we vary wildly in physical appearance/skintone
we still face oppression. what we face, especially in europe, can still be constituted as attempted genocide, as we’re forced to live in hazardous conditions or to give away our children, be sterilized, etc just for the crime of being roma
the ‘g slur’ isn’t just an american issue. the reason some european roma prefer the slur is because, in many countries, there is no term for roma that isn’t a slur, and it’s either the g slur or the literal translation of the n word. i’m romanian, and if you used the slur in my hometown, you’d get slapped, since we just use ‘roma’.
we live in every continent across the world. some of the largest romani populations exist in south america, predominantly in brazil. they are no more and no less roma than their european counterparts, and they, like romani in asia, africa, etc all face unique challenges and oppression.
we’re the largest ethnic minority in europe, and yet have almost no political power, no land ownership power (in some places, we’re forbidden from owning land entirely), etc. with very few reputable charities- a lot of us reject charity by principle, as well as there being a general lack of education about us- the best thing you can do to help romani people is to just spread information, and help individuals when you can.
It’s strange getting over suicidal thoughts because your mind is like “hey if you do this, you could easily kill yourself” and then you’re like “oh cool...wait, I don’t want to die!”
I’ve seen a lot of posts on my dash tonight about users who are threatening suicide, with other Tumblr members posting in effort to try to get ahold of them. I think you all should see this:
IF THERE IS EVER A TUMBLR USER WHO HAS POSTED A GOOD-BYE MESSAGE, SUICIDE NOTE, VIDEO, OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT, PLEASE FOLLOW THIS POST.
1. Scroll to the top of your dashboard.
2. See the circular question mark icon at the top? It’s the third one over from your home symbol. Click on that, and a screen similar to the one in the picture will come up.
3. Where you can type in questions, the box with the magnifying glass at the top, type in the word “suicide.”
4. Click on the first link that shows up. It should say, “Pass the URL of the blog on to us.”
5. Type in the user’s URL and tell Tumblr admin that the user is contemplating suicide and has posted a message indicating that they are going through with it or will be attempting. Hit send! Tumblr administration will perform a number of actions to contact the user and take the necessary steps to prevent the suicide.
TUMBLR: THIS COULD SAVE A USER’S LIFE. PLEASE DO NOT IGNORE SUICIDE THREATS.
Reblog this to keep other users aware. Suicide isn’t a joke, and neither is someone’s life. If you didn’t know this, someone else may not, either. Pass it on.
Man, why would you bother? If Satan is chill, just stay in Hell with all the cool people. Besides, there are too many straight people in Heaven. Plus the paperwork is the actual torture of Hell.
All your life, you’ve considered yourself a fairly good person, but after a freak accident, you wind up in hell. Satan turns out to be a pretty chill guy and says there’s been a mistake, and you’re supposed to be in heaven. Now you must suffer through the long and complex paperwork to be moved to where you properly belong.
There was the Italian plague of 1629 to 1631, which isn’t really 1620, but it’s rather close. This is also called the Great Plague of Milan, and it killed over a hundred thousand people. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1629%E2%80%931631_Italian_plague https://www.historychannel.com.au/articles/16000-venetians-die-of-plague-this-month/
There was the Great Plague of Marseille in 1720 to 1722. It was the last significant European outbreak of the bubonic plague. Over a hundred thousand people died here as well. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Plague_of_Marseille
From 1817 to 1824, there was the first Asiatic cholera pandemic. Hundreds of thousands of people died. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1817%E2%80%931824_cholera_pandemic
I can’t find any consensus on what these people are talking about for the 1920s outbreak. It could be the Spanish Influenza, which went from 1918 to 1920 and killed between 20 million and 50 million people. https://www.history.com/topics/world-war-i/1918-flu-pandemic There also was the 1924 Los Angeles pneumonic plague outbreak which killed 30 people. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1924_Los_Angeles_pneumonic_plague_outbreak
https://philnews.ph/2020/01/23/1720-plague-1820-cholera-outbreak-1920-bubonic-plague-whats-next/ something that talks about this as a whole.
And yes, I know that Wikipedia isn’t a great source, but I don’t want to go into much more depth with this.
When my grandpa died, we cleaned out the house so my Gram could move into a senior living place. You know what we found? A coconut. In the attic. At least twenty years old (I forget when mom told me they went on a vacation where they would have obtained a coconut). We still talk about it.
So proud of my mother for doing her own research after I sent her that meme. A sign she hung in her car window.