Latest Posts by lookingforsomeoneto-foliadeux - Page 2

"that side of fandom is a dark place idfk what goes on down there" about a subgroup of fans that have *one* different headcanon about my favourite character

"None of us are free until every one of is unshackled"

sometimes I feel like we are all glorified whores (although untrue) , that's why men can call any woman a bitch and no one will blink an eye because any sexual encounter makes you unpure, unfit for the picture of a lady -and if you haven't don't any of it because you are waiting for marriage don't woryyy about it.You'll get called a prostitute by your in laws the first moment you guys have a big fight, after all isn't marriage considered a lifetime supply of "free" sexuality exclusively resorved for one person? Some of us have have a wardrobe of silk clothes, some hold positions of extreme power and others hold onto the delusion of consent but we are all a bitch as long as men see us that way, as long as we keep letting them.

A woman: So I recently developed ovarian cancer & I could sure use someone to talk to about it

Trancels on Tumblr: Um this is kinda problematic sweetie. Trans women dont have ovaries & ur sure being cissexist when u bring them up. Bringing up the cancer u have in an organ that’s exclusive to females is transphobic & by trying to discuss a womens’ issue youre basically saying you want all trans women to DIE, so uh…

once you start noticing how casually misogyny is incorporated into society theres literally NO going back. look at our insults! theres so many words to degrade womyn just existing the same as men.

bitch, slut, whore, cunt are just used to insult us for being confident/sexually active.

even passive terms like crazy cat lady and calling confident young girls 'bossy' ARE contributing to this!

the first step to unlearning internalized misogyny is learning to stop using terms like these.

No, I don't have a "praise kink." No, I don't like "gentle doms." I want you to treat me like a thinking, feeling, breathing person instead of a punching bag with a bonus fleshlight. The male desire to treat women as subhuman, especially in bed, is mortifying. I hate that we've had to "pornify" our language to be understood by an entire class with porn addiction.

How did it become normal to choke, hit, and degrade our partners?

piss kink only makes sense if, AT LEAST, one party of the relationship can smell the scent markings and get possessive over it. if not why the fuck do you want my urine

idk why people are surprised the fans are eating up the gay incest plotline in the White Lotus, did you think mommy and daddy are only straight fetishes?

(incest is a form of validation run for the subordinate in the relationship and since queer people usually got it less than their counterparts...)

Why Men’s version of 4B (MGTOW) will never work

CREDIT: @venusiandemure on TIKTOK

queer summary: old gay man without a purpose sets his eyes out for a seemingly straight young man. the experienced one is desperate for connection to a point he takes them out to a jungle in South Africa in an attempt to do "telepathy" with mysterious weed. the drug freaks the young one since it feels like they are merging together. he leaves the sugar daddy and never comes back. Daniel Craig dies alone on a hotel bed while imagining he's cuddling him.

based wojak memes but make it radfem.

(not mine, found on pinterest, credits to the owners.)

and it's even worse when they pride themselves of being "slave free". it is teached in school that ottomans didn't took slaves then just describe "cariye" to you which is a woman you stole from her motherland when you lay destruction there.. bruh

It's very interesting to listen to history lectures that first say that there was no slavery at a certain period of time, and then follow it up with something like: "women didn't have the right to marry at their free will, property was passed down from father to son..." and so on.

you are absolutely sure that there was no slavery, right?

god the Uygurhs...if you mentioned the U of them or the prisonment camps you wouldn't only get banned. you would not be able create another account with the same email

i'm like actually legitimately loving that the result of the tiktok ban is decimating decades of propaganda against china in record time. everyone is flocking to the actual chinese-owned version of tiktok called rednote where they are being welcomed so warmly with the silliest jokes like "i'm your assigned chinese spy! i've been waiting for you! welcome!" alskdjgsld. folks are already making attempts to learn some mandarin to better interact with the chinese users. everyone realizing what our own government collects on us is twice as harmful as anything ccp could do with it. everyone waking up to the fact that every fucking facet of the american internet is designed to harvest and sell personal data off of you so what the fuck does it actually matter anyway if one more entity does it. us government managed to speedrun undoing their own fucking brainwashing it's so goddamn funny.

remembering last year when my male cousins shit talked about my outfit and how a daughter from our family wouldn't show that much cleavage so I inhaled, opened my mouth to put them in their place and stopped because I was curious what my father would say to them and he never even defended me, didn't open his mouth, just laughed "you could do that on your own, you always have" I KNOW. I could've but I wanted YOU to show solidarity. "they don't actually think that they know you're a hotheaded feminist so they try to rile you up" so the constant judgement of women's clothing is a joke to you and shouldn't be taken seriously?

the misandrist fujoshi is the bravest thing a woman can be in our world

EDITING PROMPT OF THE MONTH -> LYRICS | THE GREAT IMPERSONATOR, HALSEY

or I would love to be put down like a lame horse

this sucks so bad i need to [remembers suicide jokes only worsen my mental health] get sent to the farm where all the dogs go

I entered new year's while crying bcz of college applications last year, this year I'm improved I'm crying involuntarily bcz my brain is leaking from my nose! excited for what the next year brings

Who will come into my kitchen and be hungry for me?

you say you don’t want a boyfriend, but you know that’s not true - Charlotte Green/the voice - Anaïs Nin/the unabridged journals of Sylvia Plath - Sylvia Plath/tolerate it - Taylor Swift/the unabridged journals of sylvia plath - Sylvia Plath/the unexpurgated diary of anaïs nin - Anaïs Nin/ @treebloods/@lovebeing-a-girl/@ sanwtch on instagram/ @onlyanothermundane/@tullispink/I am an observer, but not by choice - @fatimaamerbilal/the prophecy - Taylor Swift/criss cross - Lynne Rae Perkins/Vladimir Mayakovsky in a letter to Lili Brik/what I could never confess without some bravado - Emily Palermo/little weirds - Jenny Slate

requested here

live footage of me trying so hard to be not like my father but if you gaze into the abyss long enough, it stares back

cause blood is thick but water is forever and I'm stiffer than a board lighter than a feather and that girl will be a problem only if you let her and I left her back home but I cannot forget her

"have you ever given the world to somebody as a gift and had it returned? did you know the father's DNA stays inside the mother for seven years? have you ever waited seven years?"

daily listens to remind myself misery is choosen not earned

You Asked For This // Dog Years

Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin

I'm tired. I would like to lay down under a cherry that has carpeted the soil with a color not unlike goddess' lips or a willow with soft green grass where the wind unlocks my hair to freshen me up but there is laundry. so I march ahead

do you think I look at you with longing that will never be satisfied in every universe?

I'm full of rage because I paint my ceiling with memories of a life unlived, or whatever the fuck they said

sometimes my brain tells me everything has been wrong from the start and no amount of crawling can make it right.But then I remember if the world was ending tomorrow I would still have 24 hours to love my people

they act like it means nothing while it shapes our whole world view. yesterday I saw a trans identified male calling a guy "if a man can't be a woman why are you such a pussy" like... did you ever sit and thought why the genitals of the group of people you tryna be carries a deragatory meaning? if you truly feel connected a womanhood why are you using a word that's supposed to be an insult to our inferiority in a man's world?

I'm exhausted by this constant pretense that we live in an equal world, as though sexist slurs like 'bitch' or 'mf' exist in isolation. These words are never neutral, they always target women.

And yet, men brush it off, claiming they don’t mean it literally or justifying it because one or two women told them it’s okay. But they never question why these slurs are always rooted in women’s degradation. Misogyny is normalized, ignored and excused at every turn.

I refuse to watch the documentary on the woman who slept with 100 men in a day because I cannot stand to watch a woman do that to herself willingly. I cannot stand to see her process what she has just done to herself.

She is a victim. A victim of a world that has told her this is empowering. A victim because how can she give consent if she is disassociating?

Anyone saying that she is entirely at fault is delusional and libfems absolutely have a hand in this because it is the whole "OF/porn is empowering!" rhetoric that got us here in the first place. YOU told her that this line of work was empowering. And don't get me started on the men because we will be here all day.

I dread to think what psychological damage this will do to her.

The clips I see fill me with some deep, gut wrenching feeling that I cannot describe and I know for my own health, I cannot watch this.