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Astrology observations 27 🏖️

A Lil Summer post before entering into summers 🩴🏄🏼‍♀️

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🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Personal placements in pisces do not have much trouble lying especially if it is to protect their own peace. They don't even mind lying or feel remorse which is not to imply there should be. But definitely, white lies are there. I don't however see the developed pisces placements to outright lie about serious stuff. Definitely lies to make someone not feel bad.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Mercury square IC, is one placement I think really makes the native to overthink constantly when there surroundings are shaken up. They may go into their shell to think things through and then come back.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴I really believe mercury in 6th house can be a very useful placement, as you have the skills to make friend's or make small talk with anyone. It may not seem obvious to you due to other aspects in your chart maybe like you have Chiron aspects to mercury of Chiron in 3rd but this mercury in 6th is really here to help you do just that.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Moon square Mars transits are tricky and will really hit your self esteem. You may find yourself struggling with lower confidence, self-doubt, trouble being energetic.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴 Pluto in 11th indicates meeting influential people with power. Having good connections. 2°,28°, 14°,17° shows having rich influential network.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Mars/Sun/Mercury in 6th house in pisces or piscean degrees can show someone that takes medicine or drugs on s regular basis. This can also happen in charts of people with 6th lord getting an aspect from Neptune. Neptune rules Medicines and drugs.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴 Ascendant lord degree can also show what suits you or how you should dress up. Like with people with Ascendant lord in cancer degrees look really good in white. Ascendant lord in Leo degrees may look really good in bright colors.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Jupiter in Aries or Aries degrees (1°,13°,25°) or Capricorn or Capricorn degrees (10°,22°) may marry someone with an official uniform. Someone from army, Navy, airforce, Police, etc.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴I have read this in few places and I was curious. So indeed there is a theory that that 4th house is the parent of opposite sex. So think about it if it makes sense for you.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Scorpio, Capricorn, Or Saturn in 3rd house or 3rd house at 8°,10°,20°,22° natives can be scared of being happy, they may not be willing to take that leap out of fear. They may also get anxious at moments where they should be happy.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Its likely you will most probably live away from home when you have 8th lord in 12th. Since 12th house rules far away places. This is also an indication of living a very different life than you did before marriage.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️I have seen many cancer and Libra stellium people to have a lot of people around them. Multiple groups that they are really close with.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Sun in 2nd/8th house overlays scream staring at each other. Multiple planets in Leo/Scorpio in each other houses in synastry also does that. With 8th house it's as if they are looking into your soul. Very intense.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Venus/Jupiter in 2nd/5th/6th people might like eating lot of potatoes or rice or startchy food. Venus and Jupiter rules starch.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴If somebody has their Venus in your 12th house, you may be unaware of their romantic feelings for you. You may also remember only the good times with them.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Sun -North node synastry are relationships that will bring profound change in you, not just when you are in relationship but even after that. Like you are recollecting any memories and you may be reminded of something the other person did before to cause a change in the present.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴12th lord in 6th house uses work to escape their thoughts.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Mercury or Neptune influence over the 7th house natives might enjoy watching shows related to law, lawyers, justice, legal system. Legal shows are also possible if you have Mercury/Neptune/Uranus in Capricorn degrees (10°,22°).

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mercury in water signs and degrees are very sensitive to communication, very observant and able to perceive things just by how one communicates. Change in tone, language they observe everything. Also quick to assess one's intentions just by how they are talking.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Mercury/Jupiter/Virgo in 5th house or even 5th house Cusp at 6°,18°,12°,24°,9°,21°,3°,27°,15° can indicate being a parent to to you pet. Mercury/Jupiter and Virgo rules over pets. 🐶

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Having good Neptune - Martian/Sun aspects is such a blessing, you really make it happen for yourself, you don't wait for anything or don't wait for it to be served to you. This is bomb placement 🔥

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ With Lillith opposite MC..your dirty laundry can sometimes be subject to the public.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴 Aries in 8th house people can start or go into business with their partners/spouses.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Capricorn in 8th house people might have jobs related to research/medicine/Pharmaceuticals.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Capricorn in 8th can also give you hots for authority figures, there can be relationships with bosses, older men or older masculine energy people. This can also work for Capricorn in 5th house.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Saturn rules "recession".

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴With Saturn in 10th house you may be someone who is constantly chasing your next milestone, one task is done and onto next.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Jupiter/Venus in 7th house or Jupiter-Venus aspects may bring you mature partners/spouse.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Degree on your North node can tell you what energy you need to channel to achieve your goals.

🪖 Virgo degrees- You might need to humble down, be willing to be at service to others

🪖 Capricorn degrees- Be more in control and get more authoritative and take on leadership attitude

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Saturn in Pisces degrees (12°,24°) can be very laidback people, they might be very chill people in times of setbacks, on the flipside they may not even care much about many things, so even in times of happiness they may not as happy as they "should" be or as others.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mercury dominants/Rising/Stelliums/ or in big 3 natives are not taken seriously often, not that they are a joke but they are almost always cracking and being witty, so when they get serious it may make some people suprised.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Chiron aspects Saturn (square) natives are slow to grow into their power and may struggle with themselves when young, but this struggle is what becomes power for them later.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Chiron aspects on Mercury people may have been bullied by their siblings or peers when young.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Mercury in Libra/Taurus/pisces are the kind to imagine scenarios in their head with their lovers or about their love lives.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Sagittarius natives, even though are spontaneous and adventurous and can easily adapt, one thing often overlooked is in all these how much they may be trying to escape, when they reach their destiny, they don't want to be their and chase a new high. It's quite similar to their Jupiter sister Pisces, who also uses escapeism but there's more in their head, sag being a fire sign looks for a more tangible outlet to escape.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️I have noticed people with 21°/9° in ascendant/Sun and Mars to be very spiritual. Also reminds me how wonderful it is when vedic and western charts relate, this one chart I was seeing had an Sag rising in navamsa (D-9) and they are very spritual and religious, but nothing significant in western but their Ascendant degree is sag degree and so is the mars degree.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴When you have IC in Virgo degrees (6°,18°) you are likely to work in your hometown and are very involved in community work in their home town.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Many times Moon in 10th house shows that a women was the leading authority in their household.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mercury in 5th house is an very underrated popular people placement, they are very cheerful and easily mixup with others and have many admirers and friends.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Taurus rising are very dependable people, everywhere they go they seem like people can rely on them, they are also resourceful so they are great at when there an event and you need helping hand, they will get the shit done.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴 Pluto/Saturn aspects to Moon makes you unaccepting of love and care. You might feel "oh why me I don't deserve this" attitude even if you have a healthy self esteem

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ 4th house ruler in pisces, Aquarius, Sagittarius shows being away from home, staying some areas of life away from birth country.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mercury in 8th house of composite couples may need variety in sex life. Sometimes this can lead to introducing a third person into the relationship be it when both of the people knows or just one.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Same of mercury in 8th house natives, these people can get bored easily with partners or activities so they need variety in activities they do together including sexual activities.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴I have seen Leo moons or moon in Leo degrees (5°,17°,29°) may have many childhood photos or videos or albums, they may have gotten clicked or recorded a lot as a child.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ One theory I have seen is when ruler of your angles .i.e ASC, DSC, MC, IC are in your 7th house, native tend to marry or be attracted to people who look a lot like someone they already know, mostly like their sibling or parent..so basically a family member.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Mars in 2nd house can go either way, these can be as health conscious of their diet or just eat the most junk.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Aquarius moon or moon in 11th house of moon in Aquarius degrees (11°,23°) in my humble opinion are much more critical than a virgo stereotype. There are the friend you need when you want to be humbled down, unlike there sister sign Leo, which serves more as the hype person you will need.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴I think most mutable placements struggle with perfectionism not just virgo, especially when a decision needs to be made they have ability to look at various povs that they will dissect all information to come at the best decision, which is what I think they may cause them to delay decision making because they are so aware of their thought process and how time consuming and exhausting it will be that they put off on descisions.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Neptune and Pluto dominants may never fill enjoy their present except they keep looking to make their future better or wanting to know how it will be

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Sixth house synastry isn't everyone's cup of tea especially when you have a moon in 12th house. Here the planet person can be critical of the house person but this criticism is not just criticism it's personal and degrading to the house person with the direct aspect on moon in 12th house.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Capricorn in 1st, 10th, 7th, 11th, 5th and 3rd house natives really cares about how they are perceived in their social circle, they like to be dignified and seem like that with their peers and not feign any weakness or vulnerable moments.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Pluto in 3rd/2nd house natives are very sceptical of their immediate family and people they have met when young, they may have also felt powerless when dependent on others.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️Scorpio in 2nd/3rd/8th house natives tend to have a secret source of income once in their life, besides their normal job they may do some things to earn money not known by others. 💰

Vedic astrology 🏝️

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴If everything supports in your chart, 5th house lord in 6th can increase your chances of converting love into marriage, as 6th house rules contracts and it's 2nd from 5th house which indicates if the love will sustain. There is also a chance of elopement but you need to see other aspects for that.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Saturn/Sun/10th lord or Amatyakarka in 8th can mean you can work in a financial organisation.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Check for planets in your 1st house of dasamsa chart ( D10 ) and where that planet lies in your lagna/birth (D1) chart, the house placement can also tell about potential careers.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Piscean Jupiter and mercury are very likely to travel to far places for education. Like schools in different districts, colleges in other cities or takes some hours to reach.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴It's very likely for older siblings to have planets in their 11th house, so there will be someone younger than you most of the time.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Saturn in the 11th house can make some one take on important responsibility or financial responsibility at a very young age.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Dhanishtha moon or natives sometimes have this energy of being always right or what they like to believe, there is also ego attached to being right when actually are.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ 7th lord in Mrigasira nakshatra may marry quickly and unexpectedly or their future spouse may be someone unexpectedly new or enter unexpectedly. You may be dumbfounded when you realise feelings for them.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Darakaraka of the Natal chart when in first house of Navamsa chart', natives tend to behave and mold themselves into the personality of the spouse, they may adapt mannerisms and behaviour of the spouse.

🩴🏄🏼‍♀️ Atmakaraka in 2nd/8th/11th house of D9 chart may be earning more money and gaining after marriage.

🏄🏼‍♀️🩴Navamsa ascendant lord if falls in vishakha nakshatra in your lagna/natal chart, you will see success after marriage.

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Learning to love yourself 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

Celebrate yourself. Every accomplishment deserves to be acknowledged, no matter how big or small. Stop putting yourself down by thinking that you don't deserve to celebrate your achievements just because others have accomplished "greater things." Also, there is so much fun in hyping small wins; call your girlfriend, bake a cake, and enjoy yourself!!

Invest time in things that you love. Doing what makes you happy is essential for your mental health. It's so important to pursue one's small and simple pleasures without the intention of turning them into profit!!

Boundaries and relationships. Learn to say no, define and set boundaries, question your current relationships and friendships, and distance yourself from people who make you feel unloved or worthless.

Allow yourself to grow. Let go of the notion that you are undeserving of growth. Acknowledge the past for what it is, learn from it, and grow from it.

Refelct. Getting to know yourself deeply is key to self-love; journaling is a great way to reflect. Ask yourself questions, question your habits, observe how you respond in certain situations, etc...

Trust yourself and your intuition. Listen to yourself, and don't dismiss the small cues that your inner voice gives you!!

Care for yourself. It is not selfish to look after yourself. Start exercising, eat balanced and healthy, stay hydrated, educate yourself, read complex literature, consume media mindfully, prioritise your sleep and routines, care for your skin and hair...

Be patient. Self-love takes time; you must slowly unpack and unlearn past habits, confront uncomfortable thoughts and memories, and gain a deep understanding of yourself. Give yourself time and approach this as a journey to enjoy. <3

You guys ALWAYS ask about self-love and confidence, sooo I hope this can be a little helpful to some of you and as always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments!! ♡

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be in the present and notice those little things you never saw before, but that have always been there

experience new exciting things that bring you joy

love people, listen to them and create meaningful connections

make art and don’t label it as “good” or “bad,” just let your soul be free

stop scrolling on social media and start turning pages of an interesting book

do mindfulness meditation and feel your body and mind calming down

move your body, no matter how as long as you’re enjoying

listen to music that matches the moment you’re in

eat nourishing food, feel your stomach full without discomfort

get a good night of sleep and feel yourself ready for another day

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If you're a writer take a look at your Mercury placement for inspiration 🖋️

1st House: Baby you're the inspiration! Dig deep into your identity and practice introspection for your work.

2nd House: What do you value? What will you work hard for, protect, collect? Use that for your inspiration! Maybe take inspiration from the material world or nature as well.

3rd House: Pay attention to your community and family (especially siblings, extended family, and family arguments or rivalry) for inspiration. Knowledge and research may be your best friend as a writer. Speak your mind and explore your emotions through writing, journaling, or blogging.

4th House: Family, home, your private life, or maybe your own inner world of coping, emotional sensitivity, and depth are your muse!

5th House: Having fun with your words and stories may be a good starting point! This is the house of creativity, joy, and celebration. Here creativity should stem from passion, discovery, and maybe romance. Be brave and even dramatic or ridiculous in how you write and how you get inspiration.

6th House: The house of routine, health, and work may not sound very inspiring but things like daily writing exercises or challenges may be very helpful for you. Time management and aiming to reach goals with your writing is going to be highly productive. Inspiration for you may come from ideas around altruism and what makes you feel like you're making a difference.

7th House: Take your inspiration from your relationships, fights, competition, rivalry, deals, and romance. Seek inspiration in others. Find a true muse.

8th House: The skeletons in your closet may be the best inspiration. Your fears, secrets, pain, depth, and vulnerability.

9th House: Your beliefs can be a major source for inspiration/creativity. Taking inspiration from other works, research, and knowledge may be your style too. Diving into a subject like history, sociology, psychology, religion, laws, journalism, politics, etc. can be very motivating.

10th House: Rely on your sense of purpose to give you inspiration. Reflecting on society or authority can give insight too.

11th House: Look to your friends for inspiration and friendship dynamics! Zooming out to collective trends and feelings can be a powerful tool as well for your writings. Tap into your aspirations and highest dreams too.

12th House: Using writing as a tool to explore your subconscious may be useful. Taking inspiration from your dreams, imagination, and even the darkest parts of you may be key for you as a writer.

PLANETS IN THE 8TH HOUSE

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The 8th house represents s€x, taboos, death, resurrection, and other people's possessions.

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Sun in the 8th

creative, able to see the bigger picture, will focus on what others posses and how to administer their resources, may think fate sends them hidden messages, always wanting to make changes to become better.

Moon in the 8th

cannot find their peace romantically, always searching for other partners in bed, emotionally unstable, loves cuddles, may have a strong need to connect with others but difficulty doing so.

Mercury in the 8th

Naturally drawn to deep, intense, and sometimes mysterious topics. Interests in psychology, secrets, or taboo subjects. Understands what's going on beneath the surface, good at uncovering hidden truths. Your conversations often touch on deeper emotions and complex issues.

Venus in the 8th

Deep emotional connections and bonds, finds beauty in the mysteries of life, sharing secrets with partners, transformative love life.

Mars in the 8th

Intensity, transformation, power dynamics, exploring inner depths, facing fears, profound changes. Strong drive for intimacy, desire to conquer changes head on.

Jupiter in the 8th

Growth, expansion, and optimism in areas related to 8th house. Blessings and opportunities through inheritances, investments, or partnerships. Deep interest in philosophy, spirituality, or psychology.

Saturn in the 8th

Serious and disciplined approach to areas like shared resources, intimacy, and transformation. May indicate challenges related to these areas, but can bring wisdom and maturity through facing and overcoming them.

Uranus in the 8th

Unexpected changes/surprises, and a need for freedom in 8th house themes. May indicate unconventional approaches to these areas and a desire for independence especially in finance and deep connections with people.

Neptune in the 8th

Strong imagination, intuition, and sensitivity in 8th house themes. Desire for spiritual connection, idealistic, a need to be aware of potential deception or illusions in matters of joint finance, inheritance, or deep emotional connections.

Pluto in the 8th

Undergoing significant personal growth and transformation through relationships, particularly in intimacy. Strong need for control.

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My childhood trauma didn't make me stronger. it made me a people pleaser. it made me forgive way too much. it made me not speak when i'm supposed to. it made me an extreme empath.

Mercury ☿️ in Houses- What you are always thinking about?

Mercury in 1st- The mind is always questioning, finding answers to something and creating new thoughts.

Mercury in 2nd - The mind is always thinking money and finances and how to increase them or save them.

Mercury in 3rd- The mind is always thinking about the next short trip or just curious in general.

Mercury in 4th- The mind is always thinking past events and childhood memories.

Mercury in 5th- The mind is always thinking about dating, romance and kids or about the stock market.

Mercury in 6th-The mind is always thinking about diet and nutrition.

Mercury in 7th- The mind is always thinking relationships and the partner.

Mercury in 8th- The mind is always thinking about astrology and occult.

Mercury in 9th- The mind is always thinking about the next long trip or flight or the next country to move and settle.

Mercury in 10th- The mind is always thinking about the next best job and how one could get more efficient.

Mercury in 11th- The mind is always thinking about extra profits, promotions and new business ideas to make money.

Mercury in 12th- The mind is always thinking about an imaginary world like the Hogwarts school. Can't fall asleep and thinks about how one could fall asleep and the cycle continues.

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Could you tell us what indicates no marriage or yes marriage in a birth chart?

I rarely see charts that are very troubled in regards to long-term relationships/marriage. You have to have multiple aspects that show difficulty and even then people are still able to find love, marry, etc.

The "Challenging" marriage aspects in the Natal Chart:

I would say that Uranus in the 7th House (natal) could be a bit difficult - it could show commitment issues, attracting on and off relationships, right person/wrong time - timing could be a bit problem for people with this aspect. This includes having Transit Uranus in your 7th house as well. The positive is that when the timing is right you can find love very unexpectedly and the relationships could be very freeing. I have observed that people with Uranus in 7th also like unusual relationship dynamics/non-standard dating.

Saturn in 7th house could be interpreted in different ways - marrying later in life, feeling dissatisfied about the thought of marriage, high standards/expectations, prioritizing other areas of life over marriage/relationships.

Pluto in 7th shows that any traumas/insecurities could manifest in relationships and marriage so the person has to heal, really wait for the right person in order to avoid jumping into unhealthy relationships.

Aspects between Juno and Uranus (square, conjunct, opposite), Juno-Saturn and Juno-Pluto could have a similar effect as the descriptions above.

Neptune in 7th, Juno in 12th could show someone that idolizes marriage/has an unrealistic idea about marriage. So that could lead to disappointment in committed relationships or once the honeymoon phase is over in marriage.

I will also add the ruler of the 7th house conjunct Uranus/Pluto/Saturn. For example: Cancer on your 7th house cusp, Cancer is ruled by the Moon and the Moon is conjunct Saturn/Pluto/Uranus.

2. The "Good" marriage aspects in the Natal Chart:

Venus in 7th, Venus trine Juno/Venus conjunct Juno is the one that is usually associated with good, lasting marriage, supportive spouse, equality in marriage. Committed relationships could be easy for these people.

The 7th House ruler conjunct Venus has a similar effect.

Juno conjunct/trine Jupiter or Jupiter in the 7th House is great for a happy marriage. Your partner usually inspired you, teaches you a lot of things, helps you go out of your comfort zone.

Juno in the 7th House is also really favorable for commitment, attracting a spouse who has the characteristics you want in a partner, commitment could happen easily.

Libra or Taurus on the 7th House cusp also tend to have good marriages.

My advice is to wait for the right timing and the right person/not rush into it. There is always someone you are FULLY compatible with so don't waste your energy on bad relationships!

You have options. I promise you, you have options. Even if you blow up your whole life, change your name and train hop half way across the country- you still have options. So long as you are alive you have choices and chances. If you can’t see them, ask someone else. Ask a stranger or someone who loves you. Anyone not in your situation will have different a perspective. Stay safe and stay alive.