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Hot.

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Because the universe is funny that way: a swinging couple was recently introduced into our lives and lately we’ve been hanging out more. Wifey and I are not seriously interested in swapping--it’s not our primary focus. But it may happen anyway.

Last night we ended up kissing each others’ spouses.

They’re a fun and cool couple, so just hanging out (with mild sexual tension) is enjoyable.

Wifey says she wants this

Love split roasting my sexy hotwife

Love this “raw-homemade-clip” via(ktoy00) ! ! !

Hey my lady and I are interesting in this type of lifestyle but she's nervous and we don't know where to start. Any advice?

Best advice? Take it really really slow. If she’s nervous or apprehensive at all, she’s not ready. Some butterflies are going to be normal because it’s uncharted territory, but it’s hard to say what’s best because I don’t know you or your partner and each situation is unique. Is it actual cuckqueening she’s into? Or just FFM play? Because they’re similar but different… Start with role playing or dirty fantasy talk? You could pretend she’s the other woman while you’re getting it on? Have her describe to you her fantasy, what turns her on and just go with it. That’s how hubs and I got started. I always knew I liked the idea of him with other women. After a few drinks and getting a little loose lipped, I’d describe to him in full detail what I liked, what I wanted to see, what I fantasized about while we got it on. It’s really what started all of this. Let her take the lead and go at a pace that’s comfortable for her. If you’re past all of that and she seems comfortable and interested then go on a date together and check out women while you’re out. Don’t actually pick anybody up yet, just make it a fun game. Where you both look for, talk about and fantasize about a female together and see where it leads? It took Hubs and I a long LONG time to actually bring someone into our bed because we wanted to be SURE it didn’t negatively affect our relationship. We were very cautious because you can’t go back in time and undo something that happened. All too often people jump in with two feet without thinking about the consequences or repercussions. We took it really slow, made sure both parties were comfortable. It was a natural progression to where we are today. I totally just rambled on and on here. But it’s hard for me to answer these asks with so little information. I hope this helps somebody somehow! 💋

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My wife and I are deeply in love and committed to protecting our lives together and our family unit. We will grow old together and are resolved to work out any issues that pop up on this new journey.

She takes very good care of me in the bedroom. She almost never says no. She encourages me to use her, and enjoys it profoundly when I control her and show her she’s mine. She’s normally outspoken, jubilant and assertive (which I love) but she actually becomes a sub for me when I have the time to do her right (as I said, we have a family- so it's not every time). She is amazing, and I love making her cum. She is mine.

She also has an out of state lover she visits occasionally. He’s a fling, and it’s giving her some level of fulfillment and satisfaction she’s craving. She says it’s temporary, and in the big picture she remains mine.

She isn’t particularly hungry for new lovers, but knows she has permission to play when I’m not around. She has no real desire to have another male in the same room with me. When I’m around, she prefers me.

She’s happy to take a female playmate anytime, and to find one to bring to me to share.

She encourages me to take my own lovers on the side, if I feel the need. This has not happened yet, but I am now willing.

Processing all this emotionally has been a challenge, but we are working out the psychological kinks and getting stronger daily. We are a team.

So, I REALLY love the idea of having a threesome, I even picture my husband fucking the other girl while she's eating me out and him & I are just staring at each other which so much passion .. my problem is I'm kind of afraid he may get this idea that I'm not enough. Now I know for fact he'd never cheat on me had I never brought a threesome up .. but idk why I feel that way since I do completely trust him. Have you ever felt like this?

Absolutely I’ve felt that way. It was always a small nagging concern in the back of my mind. It’s such a complex subject isn’t it?? I think the best way for me to handle those feelings of inadequacy was to take them and shift them in my mind. I used it as fuel for a fire that burned inside me. Like this small fire that started to burn… I transferred my anger, my jealousy and my hurt into this raging fire that I used as a tool to win him back. It’s like my inner beast was awakened and I let it out kind of. I reclaimed him after the encounters and made him see just what I was made of. I made it my goal to prove to him that there was nobody better than me. It really sounds silly when it’s in words and I’m feeling insecure about sharing this… But there you have it. Everybody is different though and you just gave to find what works for you. Those feelings are totally normal though and it’s really scary! But as long as you both work together and you ask for what you need (reassurance, quality time, validation etc etc etc) then you’ll be just fine. Hope this little ramble helps 🤓