Because The Universe Is Funny That Way: A Swinging Couple Was Recently Introduced Into Our Lives And

Snow bunny

I think if I talk this out it will help me process it. Constructive feedback welcome.

Happily married for 15 years; monogamous, traditional, awesome. We average sex every 2–3 days, and it’s good stuff. My wife has never shown an interest in any other man, but can get a little flirty when drinking. I’m ok with that. But she gets really flirty with other women when she’s drinking. Usually just caresses and snuggling, but titty squeezes, nipple play and motorboats are par for course too. I’m also ok with that. We are strong sexually, and having a great time in life together. She is beautiful, sexy, amazing. She’s 30s, I’m early 40s.

And then one day, she brought a stranger home

Last winter. We we’re coming down off the mountain together after a full day of skiing, exhausted, happy. A snow bunny (early thirties, cute) started up a conversation with me, but then gives full attention to my wife. They hit it off and exchanged #s, my wife inviting her to the big dinner party we were attending that night.

I was kind of surprised when she actually came to our little rented house about an hour later. We still had an hour till dinner, and we have a hot tub… fast forward a couple bottles of wine, two smokin babes in tiny bikinis and me in hot tub paradise. They’re flirting with each other, gently touching, building each other up.

And right about the time we should be leaving to the dinner party (with my two daughters who are patiently waiting inside), little miss thing has her arm around my wife, grabs her tits and smooches her… then looks at me and says right to face, “I’m going to fuck your wife tonight.” She’s only slightly drunk so her words are just barely slurred. It was hot.

Wifey has an embarrassed, but flattered, but maybe yes? expression on her face. But what I know for sure is that she wasn’t backpeddling or trying to get out of it. I could see that in an instant. So, I smiled at them both and nodded.

We all go upstairs to our suite (allegedly to get dressed for dinner). It’s normal getting dressed and girls talking about bras stuff. I’m ready first so I go downstairs and get my daughters ready for the walk down the street to dinner. But too much time passes. It’s quiet upstairs. They should be done by now.

I wrestle with the awkward situation of going up to check on her, or honoring her privacy and her wishes. Eventually, I go upstairs.

They’re both halfway dressed but almost done. My wife quietly whispered to me, “she licked my pussy!” “Did you like it?” “Yes.” “Show me.”

Next thing you know they’re both naked, my wife is on her back getting eaten and finger-banged. It was sooo beautiful. Her orgasm came quick.

And then wifey crawls over to me, pulls out my hard on and says “Come on!”

I’ve never had my dick out in front of two hot sexy women. And I don’t know what my wife had in mind for me–I think she would suck on me while getting eaten by our new friend, and who knows what next…

But my 10yo daughter started banging on the door complaining about how late we were for dinner and how hungry she was. And we were late–more than an hour.

So that’s how it ended. Dinner. Awkward goodbyes. Missed opportunities.

What a crazy and powerful week. Here's the gist: We each gave each other explicit permission to fuck others, on condition that there's no falling in love or tearing this family apart. We are still very (VERY) into each other, so this is not at all a green light to go slutty with anything that breathes... more a promise that messing around won't shatter us. We acknowledge that we are both sexy, horny people, and we both are ready to begin a new chapter in our marriage. Together. My god, the conversations have been surreal (but wonderful). And I strapped her down to the bed to remind her that I'm her alpha. That was a fun night. Now my little bird is free to be herself, and I've never seen her so happy and sexy and beautiful.

-> Live real threesomes <-

Wow

What made you decide to share you're husband? I wish I could get my wife to share me. Can you tell many any secrets to get my wife to share me?

I’ve always loved the idea of my husband being with another woman. I would try and dare my friends to kiss him after we’d been drinking, or ask him if he thought my friends were good looking… I really like watching him enjoy himself and he deserves to feel good. So it all kind of swirled together that way. I don’t think you can make somebody think/feel a certain way… But you might be able to try and experience some new and exciting things together and see where it takes you! That’s what sexual exploration is all about, right! No destination, just enjoy the ride. So with that being said, maybe you could see if she’s into threesome porn, female female male scenarios especially. See if she’s interested in bringing a woman into the bedroom. Ask HER what turns her on and go with it. You could tell her you’re interested this lifestyle, but that might look bad because then looks like you want to cheat. This lifestyle is really about the woman’s desire to share her husband so it really has to come from within her. Good luck!

Recently said by my wife:

Let’s choose a girl and try to pick her up. Destroy my pussy. I like when you own me.

I certainly identify as a Stag, but it's not my place to call anyone a sissy for doing what they need to do. We're all fucked up in our own way--the point is to work with what you've got and support your partner.

Do ever turn to Your husband when you need to feel reassured of yourself/ do you ever feel neglected even if it's unintentional?

Of course I do! My husband is my rock. He’s always there to provide me with any assurance or comfort I need. That’s what marriage/partnerships are about. He does this FOR me, not to me. I enjoy it and I want it and if that ever changed he wouldn’t want to go forward with it any longer. Honestly I think I enjoy it more than he does 😉 We don’t enjoy humiliation or degradation of any sort whatsoever. If you need something from your significant other, just ask. If either party isn’t enjoying themselves or isn’t being satisfied, then it shouldn’t be happening. Good luck! Hope this helped ❤️