biggest pet peeve ever is when people assume they can “always tell” when someone is trans. the human race is SO diverse. some amabs have ridiculously soft girly hands, some afabs have broad shoulders and narrow hips, some amabs have patchy beards and long beautiful hair and higher voices, some afabs have more facial hair than others. you. can. not. always. tell. if someone is trans. and you shouldn’t assume. unless you’re planning on having sex with someone it’s actually none of your fucking business. me personally i’ve never been bothered by it myself but it can feel really horrible to others. not all amabs look like big burly men and not all afabs are tiny and delicate and curvy. in this essay i will