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happy international women's day!! đđ¤đ wishing every women a wondrous day and week and month and year and decade and life <333
i need more radfem witchy teen friends but all of my witchy teen friends are solidly in the libfem category
why would i be wary of strangers based on what they identify as + how would i know theyre cisgender?
take precautions around ALL male strangers.
We used to make fun of people for saying "not all men" it was beautiful
one of the main principles of radical feminism is being anti-organized religion. i see radfem woc talking about how racism affects misogyny more then i see anywhere else (as they should), and not affirming and agreeing with the ethics of someones identity isnt the same as 'really hating them'.
Radical feminism sounds so cool and great an amazing but then you look deeper and are like "do you think critically about how race and gender intersect to create unique discrimiantion for women of color?" and they're like "no?" and your like "oh so you must think critically about how religion is often a tool of sexism?" and they're like, "no?" and so you're getting kind of confused, because what is radical about it, so you ask just that and they're like "we really hate trans women and think trans men are confused and just trying to escape the patriarchy" and you're like ohhh. so you're a fucking freak (derogatory).
hi omg i just wanted to say its so awesome to see another teenage radfem! it feels like there isnât really a lot of us, much love <3
HII theres definitely a scarcity of us here yeah đ <3
My move for feminism is saying âif youâre wearing oneâ when asking female clients to remove their bra before a massage.
also same for anything saying u have to be polite to scary or creepy men or else you're putting yourself in danger. WRONG. men like that see a 'polite' woman as an easy target. being rude to or ignoring a guy you think might be dangerous tells him u aren't going along with it and he will 99% of the time give up. in contrast giving in to a small request or being 'nice' makes it much harder for u to leave the situation or say no later, google the foot in the door phenomenon
anyone who thinks the 'male loneliness epidemic' is anything but a result of their own actions is literally a joke
males have literally made huge bit out of the idea of lying about being a male feminist/caring about womyns issues to coerce womyn into thinking they care about us and letting them have sex with us. idc if im being dramatic and its just a joke, its such a reflection of real life and they dont even know!
most men dont care about womyns issues. they never have, and they will. theres a very small percentage of men who are actually decent and womyn dont have to endanger themselves with toxic relationships just to find them.
there is not a single way for teenage girls to express themselves without being mocked and itâs absolutely infuriating
Love seeing women with bare faces, short fingernails, practical shoes, comfortable clothing, a full plate, a toothy grin, a relaxed posture. Love love love seeing women comfortable and happy and unselfconscious.
i was in the replies on this and i think they lost their minds.. lesbians cant have ANYTHINGGG
thereâs no way this isnât satire. right?! RIGHT!??
âa guy who genuinely feels their attraction to women is queer/sapphic/lesbian/etcâ I canât do this shit anymore.
This is why I donât give a fuck when people say itâs mean for me to want all those with a Y chromosome to do forced military service and die in war. Because now theyâre wasting all our resources to go on the internet and say pedophilic shit like this.
TIL i shouldnt confront people about being groomers and pedophiles because i might sound like a TERF! God forbid :(
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i think tumblr has actually gone insane
What, and I mean this genuinely, the fuck
a fellow radfem minor?? this is crazyyy
also i love your blog, apologies for all the sudden reblogs and likes lmao
HII i feel like theres only a few of us on tumblr đ i barely see anyone under 20
once you start noticing how casually misogyny is incorporated into society theres literally NO going back. look at our insults! theres so many words to degrade womyn just existing the same as men.
bitch, slut, whore, cunt are just used to insult us for being confident/sexually active.
even passive terms like crazy cat lady and calling confident young girls 'bossy' ARE contributing to this!
the first step to unlearning internalized misogyny is learning to stop using terms like these.
cant remember who said this originally (not on tumblr) but i 100% believe the reason memes die out so much quicker now is because more womyn are involved in the culture.
the 'womyn arent funny' stereotype is so ingrained in mens head they dont like womyn enjoying internet jokes!
men get praised for the bare minimum in EVERY aspect of life while womyn have to overachieve and still dont get recognized
Male: Abusing women is wrong. (1.000 praising comments and 10.000 likes)
Women: Omg king!!!! we need more men like you â¤ď¸ marry me please đ you forgot this đ
Honestly when i see this, i wanna cry.
Sometimes I wonder what the world would be like if there was no patriarchy, no gender roles, no men.
I imagine I'd be more secure in myself. I would be less afraid to allow my body to exist as it naturally is. I could jump into a lake shirtless and never feel the real or imagined lingering eyes on my back. There would be no "man-peering-through-the-keyhole" psychological phenomenon women experience - the urge to always be palatable to the male gaze. I could feel completely comfortable cutting all my hair off in the summer so I could comfortably tend to my garden without sweat dripping from my hair. There would be no "does this hairstyle fit my face" bullshit that men interestingly never subject themselves to. I would walk home alone at night in the city and I wouldn't feel the urge to check behind me every minute. I could stretch my arms high in the air without the urge to immediately put them back down lest others see that I am human enough to grow body hair - to be human as a woman in this world is to be a beast - I could lay on the warm sands of a beach without the urge to cover my legs with a towel for the same reason. I wouldn't ever feel anxiety when making connections with other women because I would know with confidence they won't sell me out for a corn chip of validation from the patriarchy, because there wouldn't be one. Other women wouldn't look down on me for existing against the grain. And there wouldn't be the other kind of human to beat, rape or kill me for the same. Other women wouldn't be pushing their daughters, themselves, or me to conform to the identity of "decorative object to be oggled" because there would never have been anyone to start the demand.
I could rip my clothes off and grow my claws, my fangs. I could become the beast I'm meant to be. I could run to a hilltop with my sisters under a full moon and dance around a fire while we howl "This is freedom! This is freedom! This is freedom!" We could laugh heartily, loudly. We could feast decadently on all the delicious things we deny ourselves. We could take up all of the space we desire. We could love - truly love - one another and the Earth. Life would flourish.
I am deeply saddened that will never be the world.
The social coercion women face to date people theyâre not attracted to is fucking insane. I remember distinctly thinking âwell, I can just force myself to be attracted to himâŚâ
Films, books, etc, all show the trope of beautiful woman and unattractive man. There is still the myth that an unattractive man will treat you better than an attractive one (more women are waking up to this, but still). Even now the left thinks that activism happens between the legs of women.
Donât date people youâre not attracted to. Donât feel guilty for not giving them the time of day. No means no.
we dont need male allies. womyn make of the population, and men have NEVER liked feminism thats not because of "misandrists", its because they dont want to give up their power and dont see womyn as equal.
coddling men and letting them put their problems into feminism wont make them allies, itll just dissolve feminism till its a movement for everyone instead of our own.
men would NEVER defend you on this like you defend them, especially as a feminist!
the idea that men should be included in feminism is actually insane. why would womyn include their oppressors in a movement for their liberation?? if men didn't exist, we wouldn't need feminism!
"not all men!" in 2025 is actually insane LOL and im not saying men arent people, im saying they have no place in feminism because they arent victims of misogyny and DONT NEED LIBERATION!
womyn are the only oppressed group who are expected to share their movement for liberation. you wouldnt try to force poc to include white people in blm, or lgb people to include straight people in pride!
this is probably because you dont see misogyny as a valid form of oppression, which isnt my problem to fix.
the idea that men should be included in feminism is actually insane. why would womyn include their oppressors in a movement for their liberation?? if men didn't exist, we wouldn't need feminism!
girl if you have to go to a subreddit for advice about your boyfriend he is not the one
a few centuries, womyn were only introduced to sex ON THEIR WEDDING NIGHT. if the girl knew what sex was before, she would most likely hide it, so her husband thought he was the one showing her what it was.
i honestly hate history. the standards for womyn get more and more pedophilic the farther back you go, till its just middle aged men actually marrying little girls.
and literally no one cares about those girls, because well womyn have their rights now so its not important and we need to focus on other oppressed groups! right?
Hey girl I just want to say that I see a lot of your posts and I think youâre doing a great job, especially for someone so young. Keep that spark and fire alive and donât let people dull or quiet you like I let them do so when I was your age.
i really appreciate this đ thank you so much!
You're very young. I hope you protect yourself and stay sane. Godspeed lass
<3
yeah girls haha imagine being.. 14..
I just needed others to suffer with me. (She also made the âif i were a fishâ thing, if you recognize her)