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deeply frustrating that 1. my poorly worded vent post about peoples' attitude towards forced pregnancy is the one being reblogged 2. people are comparing being forcibly impregnated with being forced to impregnate someone

those two things are utterly violating in different ways and i think comparing them undermines the unique ways in which both of them are violating and horrific because they are not the same

"Women are the only species expected to mate with our natural predators" they're not our natural predators, there's nothing about how dangerous they are to us that should make you go "that's just the natural order of things," stop treating this as inherent and inevitable, also you sound like a TERF, we're not separate species.

2004

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I know you meant nothing malicious by this and it might've absolutely just been poor wording on your part (which happens!), but please consider moving forward wording the discussion around abortion around the capability of getting pregnant rather than gendering it, even when talking about transgender people.

This is not exclusive to perisex transmascs. Many intersex trans folks people, across the whole spectrum, can or were able to get pregnant. Even if you meant as far as perisex trans people go, perisex genderqueer and nonbinary people who aren't transmasc and are capable of giving birth exist, and they also deserve not to be ignored in the conversation.

I'm still thinking about that one post (by a cis woman) where it was some news of abortion access being restricted, and she said "This is why I need to stand up for my trans sisters". Fully meaning trans women. and I just ... ugh. There are times where I can kind of understand the logistics behind why trans men end up being invisible in certain discussions but like.. are you fucking kidding

Hate to say it but the abortion issue isn't one where the opinion of perisex trans women matters all that much, if at all.

If you're gonna talk about trans people, it's always going to be only perisex transmascs and trans men that matter.

i go on instagram. i see that them magazine has posted an article about how to have sex with transmascs (written by a transmasc). i go to the comments. people complain about, amongst other things, how the first paragraph is transmisognistic and that there's no similar article for transfems. i go to the article. the first paragraph has a line about how transmascs are erased, with a link to an article about erasure. i leave instagram and put my head directly through the nearest wall

like genuinely if you're into forcefem and you were AMAB you should actually shut the fuck up whenever a trans person AFAB politely asks you to consider tagging it or has a broadly similar kink

like yo people are forced to be girls in real life and it's deeply painful trauma have you considered that? is that a thing you've registered? that the idea is more than just a cool thing you wish happened to you? I would be fully supportive of the same deference being given by people who are into forcemasc if we must adopt this framework in order to act like human beings to each other but miraculously they aren't fucking weird about other trans people in the first place and I think it'd be great if maybe that could just be the path forward instead

like do you think I WANT to exist in a world where we treat those kinks like that? of course not! no one would! I would personally love if we could all just go back to pretending like forcefem and forcemasc are wacky fun imaginary concepts that everyone can play with instead of acting like "gentrification of a fetish" is what we need to be concerned about going into 2025

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