Yanattheloom - Untitled

I want to send you the most sincere thanks. When I initially started following you, I considered myself nonbinary, with no masc or fem leanings at all. But watching your defense of transmasc people, making sure that your blog is a safe place for all transmascs, and the reassurances that there's nothing *wrong* with being transmasc made me realize things about myself that I'd been subconsciously repressing. I'm pleased to say now that I'm transmasc nonbinary, and will be starting T as soon as I can manage it. Thank you for helping me find myself.

this is the best ask I've ever gotten <3

like genuinely if you're into forcefem and you were AMAB you should actually shut the fuck up whenever a trans person AFAB politely asks you to consider tagging it or has a broadly similar kink

like yo people are forced to be girls in real life and it's deeply painful trauma have you considered that? is that a thing you've registered? that the idea is more than just a cool thing you wish happened to you? I would be fully supportive of the same deference being given by people who are into forcemasc if we must adopt this framework in order to act like human beings to each other but miraculously they aren't fucking weird about other trans people in the first place and I think it'd be great if maybe that could just be the path forward instead

like do you think I WANT to exist in a world where we treat those kinks like that? of course not! no one would! I would personally love if we could all just go back to pretending like forcefem and forcemasc are wacky fun imaginary concepts that everyone can play with instead of acting like "gentrification of a fetish" is what we need to be concerned about going into 2025

So you hate pancakes ass moment fr

The average woman working in the healthcare industry cannot comprehend a transgender man existing.

Once got called a ‘another white TME’ by a transandrophobe, which is funny considering the fact that my profile picture is literally the Iraq flag. I’d argue that flag specifically is hard as hell to mistake for a queer flag, so I have no idea what they were thinking when they called me that

DFSKJGH

MATE DOESN'T IT HAVE ALLAHU'AKBAR ON IT???

it truly is the most privileged men who come on here acting like their experiences are universal

i’m glad that the white man kevin who lives in a blue state in the USA got to go on testosterone when he was 16 and the only misogyny he ever experienced was being told ‘you throw like a girl’ but that does not apply to all of us

why do the kevins of tumblr feel the need to downplay our oppression. i am glad that kevin never got raped or beat up or had medical care withheld from him for being a trans man but some of us don’t get to have it that easily

"Trans men use womanhood when it's convenient for them."

Okay cool. Question though: What's boymoding? How's that work?

"there is no platonic explanation for this--"

I fell asleep in my friends' arms. It was eleven at night, we were tired, curled up in a small pile on my tiny bed. I had my head buried in my roommate's side, and one of my closest friend's hand on my shoulder, steadying me. It was quiet and nothingness and peace and their heartbeats in my ears, my hands in their hair.

"there is no platonic explanation for this--"

We pack four people to that little bed, you know. Laps used as footrests, collarbones as pillows, little lights like moonlight in rustic yellow bathed on their faces. The TV plays an anime. The words are repeated by my dear friend on my shoulder, curled close. My legs are asleep; my roommate may be, too.

"there is no platonic explanation for this--"

The cat curls on top of our criss cross mess of legs and arms and heads on chests to absorb the warmth of us all. She purrs in contented peace. When my roommate and I are left alone in the quiet, she cries, and watches the door for our friends' return.

"there is no platonic explanation for this--"

I will never kiss them but the top of their heads. I will never touch but the warmth of their arms. I will never take more than what's freely given, and in return I put my glasses on the bedside table fashioned from a guitar amp, and when I lean into their sides, I pick up my vulnerability and place it in their capable, tender hands.

"there is no platonic explanation for this--"

I sing for them. I cry for them. I work and I run and I withstand the worst of the world for them, because some days I get to cradle their forehead on my shoulder and some days I get to see their shining eyes.

"there is no platonic explanation for this--"

Maybe to you. But look beyond explanation. I love them. With my heart in my unsteady hands, with my nose pressed to the side of their head, with the buzzing in my feet and the warmth all around Iike the sunset pushing into the window.

"there is no platonic explanation for this--"

Is it enough to say I love them? With no strings attached? With reckless abandon and utter devotion and freedom and kindness and fear?

"there is no platonic explanation for this--"

I cannot explain it any clearer. I love my friends. There is no more to say.

this might just be because i'm a tee-em-ee or wtv but personally. if i'm being 100% genuine. i think "transmascs have an innate biological want to return to their birth sex and become terfs" is more bioessentialist than "transfems are capable of hurting other people because transfems are people, and people are capable of hurting others"

edit: some dumbass bitch called me a nazi and a fascist for this post. btw