18+ | she/her | 35 | ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ | kink blog
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Oh you knowโฆ just being cute n soft
my links >:)
Into this angle
I hate how people can be like โI like absโ or whatever but the second anyone says anything that suggests that fatness is actually attractive; that fat bodies are hot actually, yโall immediately jump in to tell them theyโre โfetishizingโ even if theyโre fat themselves.
Are they fetishizing or can you just not stand the assertion that non-thin bodies can also be desired, that they donโt have to be just something you overlook in favour of a good personality or whatever. That theyโre actually a perk, and worthy of being sought out.
Do yo ever feel alone and like you always have to hide from friends and family? Does your kink ever make you wish you were "normal"? I surely feel these things and I am very sad.
This is a common feeling for a lot of people, so I want you to understand that you're not alone, but also understand that it's not something you should continue allowing yourself to feel! A fetish can be extremely intimate since it's so closely tied to sexuality, personal history, etc. but feeling like you have to hide or be alone because of it is very unhealthy.
I recommend starting by trying to break down the stigma around weight gain and fetishes. EVERYONE has kinks and fetishes and niche interests that they like to keep hidden. And feedism/tummy love is actually a VERY common fetish! Trust me, as a feedism model I can guarantee you that I've gotten way more attention both on/offline as a 300+ lb person than I ever did when I was thin. It's not inherently dirty or wrong to be attracted to fat people or to want to be fat for your own sexual/personal fulfillment.
Try looking into fat politics more! Read up on biases surrounding fatness and weight gain and how that may be impacting your mental wellbeing. Do the work to unlearn what's been pushed onto you and in time you'll start to feel more comfortable speaking outwardly about fatphobia and how being fat/fatness is beautiful. At some point things will start to click for you and you can feel more at ease both with yourself, and with talking to others about your interests! This isn't to say that you should broadcast bluntly your fetishes and what turns you on, but being able to join in on those kinds of conversations when they happen can be really wonderful with building community with your friends!
Again, you are normal. Liking fat bodies (your own or others) is normal. Having fetishes is normal! It's up to you to destigmatize things and unlearn the fatphobia and puritanical ideology that's holding you back from feeling connected to others.
As a fat feedist with friends/family/community that know all about what I do for a living and why I gained so much weight, I promise it's possible to live without shame.
shoutout to blob girlz and their fat round faces ๐๐๐
Virtual Meality, originally posted on the Supercake Studio Patreon!
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Wind speed 2.0 m/s. Sea temp: 29.6 ยฐC, air temp: 28.2 ยฐC. #transgender
her name is Addy and she does not know how to act around food
Its summer baybay
Beyond all the obvious perks of dating a feedist/feedee, I do really miss going kinda nuts at gas stations/grocery stores off the cuff.
It's always that little voice.
"Good feeders wouldn't show up empty handed."
And it's a very cute little way of affection. She wouldn't know at the very moment that I'm snaking up and down aisles like the kinky mess I am, studying the options. She loves those. Oh but I can't just get her sweets. There needs to be some salty. Something with bread/carbs too. And then I'm stuck with an armful of snacks thinking about how I'll be feeding some of that to her... which is my little secret I get to keep until I get home from my original trip to the gym to work out.
And it does become near comical. If she lit up when I sauntered in with snacks the first time, then maybe I should seek that reaction... every time.
Post office? Add a detour to get $17 of junk food.
Went for a bike ride? Well how am I supposed to get my post ride Gatorade while ignoring the Texas Rolls near the checkout?
And there's no rationalization either. Is that a lot of food to bring home each and every time I leave the house? Yes? But you loveeee the snacks. I don't see the problem. I'm just your playfully idiot himbo feeder who can't connect the dots between your issues with those pants and my own shopping habits. I thought you thought I was cute when I brought home snacks? You think you're getting fat? I don't see how that is my fault. Let me be cute.
Self-conscious about having minimal chin+neck definition but what can you do?
I can usually only put this skirt on by pulling it over my head, but my feeder was determined to get it up over my ass ๐
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Hey feedees... itโs okay if you canโt finish that big meal. If youโre not feeling like stuffing today. If that wg shake makes you sick. If youโve lost weight. If youโre in a plateau. If youโre struggling to gain or struggling to keep up your intake. You donโt have to push yourself all the time. Be kind to and patient with yourself. Take breaks. You will reach your goals.
An 8,000-year-old marble figurine of a voluptuous woman was unearthed in 2016 in the Neolithic urban settlement of รatalhรถyรผk in central Turkey. The figurine is 17 centimeters long, 11 centimeters wide and weighs one kilo.
Please reblog this is you fully support trans people in the feedism community!
Trans women on bbw blogs, trans men on bhm blogs, and nb gainers not being misgendered
I want to know that there are good, respectful people in this community
Gaining goddess
I love the energy of feederism + body positivity, people enjoying all the food they want, enjoying life and enjoying how its making them fatter and cuter, then rocking their fat bodies rubbing it in the face of fatphobic culture. I love the confidence so much.
fatphobia is truly a sinister evil and I understand we are all trying to have a good time here on feedism tumblr but please. examine your fetishes and think before posting extremely fatphobic rhetoric and engaging in fatphobic kinks. just because you get off on fat bodies (your own or someone elses) does not mean you are immune to anti fat ideology.
if you run a blog dedicated to degrading fat bodies or insinuating that someone "ruined" their body via weight gain, that is an extreme kink and needs to be labeled as such. I'm tired of seeing fatphobic rhetoric passed around with no trigger warnings whatsoever just because a lot of feeders in this kink assume every feedee is okay with being referred to as a "disgustingly fat lazy slob that can't stop eating".
the rules of consent and kink/trigger warnings still apply outside of bdsm/dark kink posts. don't reblog peoples posts with commentary they didn't consent to, and please make sure to let people know in your pinned post/bio if you post degradation or death feedism! I think it would make us all have a much better experience
Getting fatter is the ultimate form of self love, because it means there will be more of you to adore. ๐
weight gain as a result of being comfortable and pampered.
feedees that are happy and fat and loved
pride month is almost over ๐ฅฒ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐โจ
Fat is so beautiful. So soft, like putty under your hands. Sensitive skin covered in lines that showcase how well taken care of, how well loved someone is, how much they've enjoyed life. Gorgeous curves that on some people ripple like water droplets in a puddle and on some like ocean waves. Reddened tummies and rosy cheeks like cherry blossom petals. So much to touch, kiss, and hold. No matter how much or how little, fat is just so perfect and loveable.
i did a small water bloat and i'm beyond happy with the results. i kept trying to redo my button but these poor pants just can't hold me together :p
bonus belly hehe c:
Caught with my hand in the cookie jar,
once again ๐