I Hate How People Can Be Like “I Like Abs” Or Whatever But The Second Anyone Says Anything That Suggests

Theres so much to lift out the way now!!!

Liking being fat is not bad.

Liking fat people is not bad.

Eating however, whatever and whenever you like is not bad. And nor is helping, admiring or encouraging that behaviour.

Feeders, feedees, encouragers and fat admirers are NOT. BAD. PEOPLE. and should not be made to feel as such.

Tumblr demonising the kink and the community behind it is a joke.

This community is and can be a sanctuary for an otherwise marginalised section of society, a place where fat people and those who love them can be unapologetically themselves, and be revered and celebrated for it. And practice their kink (or just embrace being fat) in a safe place, free of judgement.

It’s a disgrace what has been done, it’s blatant fatphobia, plain and simple.

Sometimes ur fat bc u were born that way. Ur parents are fat, ur cousins are fat, u always have been fat.

And sometimes, you become fat. Something happened (puberty, change in diet, change in ability, anything) and someone who was once skinny is now fat. This doesnt make you a failure. It just means ur fat now. Its okay. You didnt do something wrong.

No matter how you are fat, its okay to be fat

Self-conscious about having minimal chin+neck definition but what can you do?

This is how much I fill out booths when I go out, there used to be space between me and the table. Enjoy me eating a doughnut after stuffing myself at dinner🐷

I’ve seen a lot of posts like this recently, and I just wanted to say in our community—your partners deserve to be seen. Large partners deserve respect! If you love your partner, you don’t hide them. Full stop. 🗣️

I work a very big corporate job, have for years—and guess what? Biggie comes to every event, every game, every dinner. Arm in arm, we walk in together, and I’m never shy about saying, “Yep. That’s my man.” And you know what? No one questions it anymore. Because I don’t leave any room for that.

I have a super strict, honestly pretty harsh father—and before Biggie, I’d only ever introduced one person to him. But Biggie? He met him right away. He comes to every holiday, every event, and even though I’m often uncomfortable around my own family, I bring him proudly every time—because he deserves to be there. My discomfort will never be more important than making sure he feels seen, loved, and included. That’s what it means to show up for your partner.

When I was younger, people used to question me or make comments about my partner’s size. But now? I command the room. I love him fiercely, treat him like my equal, and show him off with pride—and I dare anyone to challenge that. I’m just as loving (and yes, just as demanding) as I would be with any partner. His size doesn’t change his worth, or how seriously I take him.

And honestly? If you’re leaving room for your friends or family to question why you’re dating a larger person, then you’re not advocating for them enough. Period. Your partner isn’t just their body—people should know all the incredible things about them, and if you’re not making that loud and clear, it’s time to reflect. They deserve to be loved out loud.

So if you’re out here loving someone big? Don’t shrink them. Don’t hide. Be loud. Be proud. Be a good partner. They deserve nothing less.

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you've all gotta stop acting like "overweight" is a gentle PC alternative for the word fat and not itself an assertion of the ontological wrongness of being large. Over What Weight Precisely

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