That "OKAY SO" Before Someone U Love Starts Infodumping........ Most Blessed Feeling In The World

Something people don’t understand about child abuse

One of the things that I really hate is that people don’t understand that survivors act differently and respond to their traumas in different ways.

I’m a survivor of csa and so is my friend. Her trauma made her extremely hypersexual while I could literally cry if someone even touched me.

My bf is a survivor of csa, I can talk for hours about my trauma if I felt safe enough while he NEVER brings it up.

A friend of mine is a survivor of emotional abuse and so am I. Her trauma made her angry while mine made me soft and defenseless.

My bf remembers every little detail about his trauma, while I repressed most of my childhood and traumas.

There’s no special “criteria” that you should fill in order to be a “valid” survivor, and there’s no specific way you should act if you were abused.

People respond to their traumas differently and it’s okay, your abuse is STILL valid no matter how you respond to it.

:)))))) mouth rocks for all

out of context from the sanders sides server

I lub them all because they’re great :’) also they also agree about mouth rocks so :3

every now and then all the remus alters front in our sanders sides discord server and it’s just absolute chaos

reblog if you’re asexual, support asexual people or really really want a crossbow for literally no reason.

My...my mom just accused trans people and scientists of starting the Corona virus.

Am I the only one that noticed that in S2 of TUA Five literally asks Luther for help and is actually talking emotionally to him? Not once, but twice in another episode. Five doesn’t seem like the type to talk to people emotionally or ask for help, but he did and Luther.shuts.him.down. I was proud of Five for actually asking for help and Luther pulls that shit? I knew Luther was low key kinda stupid but tf was with that? Our expectations for you were low but holy fuck.

the way that straight men talk about their attraction to women’s bodies is so dull and colourless compared to the ways I’ve seen queer women talk about women’s bodies

like we out here talking bout

razor sharp jawlines like the kind you could fuckin cut yourself on hoo baby

those biceps like gimme that dumb jock energy, that “I can carry you from the doorway to the bed in one go easy” energy christ

muscular bACKS HOLY SHIT OOOO LORDY LORD

hands. just have you ever heard a gay woman talk about hands? like fuckin hell I’ve seen people go nuts over Katie McGrath’s wrists that’s the level we’re at here

hair!!!! long, short, loose, styled!!!!! that specific moment when someone goes to tie their hair back into like a messy bun or a half pony and they hold the elastic band in their mouth and pull their hair back in their hands THATS A WLW KINK RIGHT THERE

eeeeeeeyes. The first three girls I got with all had gorgeous eyes and all commented on my eyes like this is a whole thing it’s our sneaky way of forcing eye contact is to just be like “woah your eyes are gorgeous what colour even are they” and BOOM we have contact this is a-happening

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I once saw a girl with a six pack and couldn’t form a sentence for the next minute

etc etc (don’t even get me started on forearms aaaaa)

whereas whenever I talk to straight dudes about women they like it’s always like hahahahaha her tits are banging amirite and I’m like

guys

liberate yourselves

let yourselves talk about a gal’s popping collarbone once in a while like Christ there are so many gorgeous things to focus on in women get creative go fuckin nuts women are absolutely incredible angels I am so gay

...and I know you’d stole my famous casserole recipe CAROL

I will drink Apple Cider Vinegar

Don’t think I won’t cause I will. I will drink it. There is no stopping me. Give me a bottle of it I bet I’ll finish it in 5-10 minutes. I sound like a wacko but do I care? NO

trying to prove a point to the boys at school

reblog this if you believe trans men are real men like this if you dont