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i love perverts who r embarrassed abt it. perverts who clear their search history if they see you peering at their computer screen. perverts who stutter out euphemisms and vague "you know..."s when u ask them what they're into. perverts who lie. perverts who swear they're not weird, that they looked up porn of some disgusting fetish "one time" or "on accident". perverts who look the other way when they talk to u because if they didn't, their eyes would be glued to ur tits. perverts who secretly wish that you would find out, that you would force them to confess to all sorts of sick things about themselves, abt how they think of you. perverts that want you to hear all of their depraved fantasies involving you. perverts that need someone like you to make them admit it. ❂
For the love of god, praise and reassure your Dom after sex. I cannot tell you the amount of times I’ve told a Dom they did a good job after sex and they’re like “???? Why are you saying that???” It’s INSANE. Aftercare goes both ways! Praise! Your! Dom! Tell them the specific things you liked! Tell them how hot they were! Tell them that you appreciate them taking control! It goes such a long way, trust me.
SOMEONE will advocate for you
boys with their face burried into the mattress. boys with their back arched and their ass up. boys with their holes exposed, begging and whining to be touched. boys that softly moan as they pant. boys that stick their tongue out and let the saliva drip freely down their chin. boys that are unable to form any cohesive sentences once they feel that first finger slide in. boys boys boys.
ready for your inspection, puppy? mhm? awwh, did my sweet thing get a haircut? your bush looks so cute all trimmed and shaped. feels so soft against my gloves. look at that pretty clit, all hard and ready for me. you twitch so cutely when i tap my gloved fingers against your tip. leaky little thing, you enjoying this? good pups love their inspections, bet you were looking forward to this all week. lemme take a look at those pretty holes, make sure you didn’t miss any spots. such a tight little ass. gonna let me tear it up tonight? everything looks above and beyond, you did such a perfect job, puppy. i’ve gotta give it a taste, y’know part of the inspection… shh, stay still or i’ll have to get the restraints out.
15 Points of a BDSM relationship!
1) Communicate- The importance of this can never be stressed enough. If you are a Dom, make sure your requirements and demands are clearly expressed. If you are sub, make sure you talk about what you need and want out of the relationship. Talk about issues that arise, joys and pleasure that you both experience, things that are going really well, and areas that need to be adjusted.
2) Go Slow- When you are starting a new relationship, or trying a new aspect of a BDSM relationship, take things slow. Nothing good comes from rushing into anything.
3) “A” sub, not “Your” sub- Just because someone is a sub, doesn’t mean they want to be YOUR sub. Calling yourself a Dom doesn’t give you the right to call subs names, or act dominate towards someone who has never given you their submission. Treat people with respect at all times.
4) The BDSM Buffet- It’s ok to take different aspects of different BDSM dynamics and create something that is unique and works for you. Every relationship is different. If you want to be in a DD/lg relationship with pieces of pet play and a bit of Master/slave dynamic, then go ahead! Find what works for you. Experiment.
5) Don’t EVER kink shame- It’s ok to not like every kink. It’s ok to be confused as to why someone would enjoy a certain activity or dynamic. But it is NEVER ok to shame someone for what they like to do (so long as what they like to do is legal, consensual, and safe).
6) No two relationships are the same- You don’t have to try to be like every other relationship. If your rules are super strict, or really relaxed, that’s fine. If you live a 24/7 relationship, or only play once a month, that’s ok! If it works for you, and makes everyone involved happy, then that’s all that matters. Don’t compare your relationship to others, and don’t make other people feel bad for not doing things the same way that you do.
7) Aftercare is ESSENTIAL- After any scene it is vital for the Dom to look after the sub. Encourage them, tell them they are beautiful, hug, cuddle, massage, kiss, sing a lullaby…whatever the sub needs (as everyone is different). If the sub is crying, make sure they are consoled. If part of the scene requires humiliation or intense physical/mental exertion, then make sure you re-assure them and give them a chance to rest. Most importantly, make sure they know that you love them, care for them, and want only whats best for them!
8) Keep going over/adjusting the rules- This goes along with the earlier communication point. Don’t be afraid to adjust the rules to meet current needs. As people grow, things change. A rule that once made sense, may no longer be required, or perhaps something that was once strict needs to become more lenient (or vice versa). This should be something that both Dom AND sub talk about, and all rule changes should be mutually agreed upon.
9) Try to switch- This isn’t a requirement, but it is a suggestion. It’s hard for a Dom to fully appreciate how beautiful and difficult submission is if they have never experienced it. Likewise, a sub who has never been dominant may not understand how hard it can be to constantly be in control. Try switching (even if it is just for a half hour play session). It gives both parties experience, and everyone will learn something!
10) Stay Safe- This seems obvious, but it should always be said. If you don’t feel comfortable in a relationship/situation….LEAVE. If you need something to stop, use the safe word! It’s the subs responsibility to make sure they are communicating with the Dom (especially if things are starting to get uncomfortable), and it is the Dom’s HUGE responsibility to make sure they are respecting all limits, and respond to safewords.
11) Explain punishments- Never punish for the sake of punishing. Don’t just create arbitrary rules just so you can punish the sub. If you are going to punish, make sure the sub knows exactly WHY they are being punished.
12) Submission is a gift- Never take the subs submission for granted. It’s a beautiful gift that needs to be respected at all times!
13) Make sure you give rewards- Don’t just be the Dom that only ever hands out punishments. Give your sub praise for a job well done, and make sure that you give them rewards as often as you can!
14) Don’t make a habit out of acting up just so you can get punished- I’m not saying to never do it…sometimes it can be a fun little game to play. However, if you (the sub) wants to get spanked or punished, it’s ok to just ASK for it! Trust me, very few Doms will turn down the opportunity to spank their sub.
15) Have Fun! BDSM should be fun. Enjoy it! Don’t take the relationship so seriously that you don’t ever enjoy yourself. Yes…a BDSM relationship is a big deal and a lot of work…but if it’s not enjoyable then whats the point? If you can’t laugh and smile with one another, play games (that aren’t always sexual), or just enjoy each others company, then you are either doing something wrong, or you are in the wrong relationship.
This is by no means a complete list. What other things should be added to the list?
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i will always be pro-abortion, pro-trans, pro-women, and anti any man who thinks he has a say in whatever a woman chooses to do with her body. if you don’t like that please fuck off
how r u gonna call them love handles and then try to convince ppl thats a bad thing. insane to me
Date idea! You dump load after load into me until I'm dumb and blissed out and both my holes are leaking cum
I love doms that are normally so so sweet and soft and caring but deep down are perverts that love seeing you sob on their cock as they violate every bit of you, breaking you down. Show me what you've been hiding under that kind and sweet disguise and reveal how fucking perverted you really are
All my kink guides and primers and rambling in one place
This one is about aftercare and specifically what your body needs to heal a wound
This one is a fairly basic guide to training a submissive, I feel there's some really important information here especially for beginners (both dom and sub) and I think more experienced players will get something out of it too
This one is a deep dive into brats, how to control them as a dom and some advice for brats
This one is about the mechanics of impact play, it talks about force = mass x acceleration and how to appraise an impact toy before using it (this is the first one I ever wrote so it's pretty rough and dry, feel free to skip)
This one is a primer on heavy impact play, nowhere does it say you cant do something only the risks of doing so
This one is how to give someone a black eye
This one is a primer on doing a drowning scene (or 'dunking' if you prefer)
This one is a guide to pulling out finger nails
I will try to update this as I write more
fucking obsessed with Dom breaking.
starting out letting you think you have all the power, being so sweet and obedient, letting you think I'm the most perfect little pet.
then once you let your guard down even slightly, I'm shoving you against a wall, or pinning you to the bed, biting you neck, grinding my thigh against your crotch, while you try to push me off and win back dominance, but failing miserably.
your little puppy isn't so little anymore.
you'd try so hard to maintain that tough Dom demeanor, but it just feels too good to resist. praising you for being such a good submissive slut for me, i know it feels so good, just let me take over, I know what you need. I'll turn you into my little bitch, whimpering and writhing beneath me.
I'll have you pinned beneath me, fucking you into that lovely fuzzy headspace while you're beet red with humiliation as the tags marking me as your property on the collar you gave me jingle together. reminding you with each thrust that your submissive little puppy is fucking every last drop of dominance out of you. I'll have you begging and whining like a slut in no time.
you're mine now.
i need a trans girl to fuck my boy cunt into oblivion and make me cum over and over and over again while she uses her cum as lube. i need her to breed me until im so full i cant think.
i need a trans girl who will stalk me before catching me alone and raping me in public while people walk on by without a care for my well being. i need her to choke me with her girl cock. i need her to pull my hair while she fucks me like a dog. im drooling snd an absolute mess. my brain is mush and my bones are slug. i need girl cum so badly i will do anything to fuck a trans girl.
Sorry if i spam like your posts... Im trying to cum
Aftercare IS a fucking necessity.
Aftercare IS NOT a privilege.
Aftercare IS NOT optional.
Aftercare DOES NOT take away from the scene you just had.
Aftercare DOES NOT make you any less of a Dom/sub.
I want you to shove a camera in my face while you violate me. Make me say hi to the camera, and answer questions like “who’s my little slut?” “whos cock are you taking?” “Who’s pussy is this?.”
eating a girl out for the first time? as someone with a couple of decades' experience (i started young, ok?), can i offer some advice?
take your time. your aim isn't to make her come as fast as possible, it's to make sure she enjoys every moment. slow down, revel in the process of finding out what she likes.
tell her how beautiful she is, how tempting her cunt looks, how intoxicating it smells, how sweet she tastes. she might be feeling vulnerable, especially if she's inexperienced too - it's your job to make her feel safe and adored.
enjoy the journey - i know you just want to feel your tongue on her clit NOW, but exploring her thighs, working your way slowly to her folds, trailing all the way up her cunt, drinking her juices, letting her feel your breath before she feels your touch...it'll be worth it. for both of you.
learn to read her body with all of your senses. she might be vocal but she might prefer to bite her lip or enjoy being gagged. you don't need to hear her words to know what to do. you'll feel her muscles twitch and relax - learn what it means when she lifts her hips, squirms or sinks into you. she might taste and smell differently when she is close to coming for you. pay close attention to her clit - if you're lucky and you've done a particularly good job, you might see it twitch as she recovers from the perfect orgasm. enjoy it.
you can be vocal though. moan into her. use every sensation you can. light flicks to determined, long, slow licks. blow gently on her wetness. how does she react to your lip piercing? your teeth?
build and add to the experience until she's completely overwhelmed. play with her nipples. run your nails over her skin. lift her legs and spank her.
chances are, she'll get to the point where she really needs you to fuck her. slip your tongue all the way down and inside her. if you can't breathe, you're doing it right. that means you probably won't be able to keep it up for hours, so save this move for when she's right on the edge and you're ready to let her tip over.
if you're especially lucky and she's a squirter, you will get absolutely soaked. enjoy it. show her you're enjoying it. moan into her cunt; she'll come even harder.
if she needs to be fucked harder, slip your fingers inside her cunt and curl them up towards your tongue as it circles her clit. all of her most sensitive nerves will be between your tongue and your fingers. you'll be able to feel every tiny twitch inside her; it's the most beautiful place in the world to be.
when she can truly take no more, stay close to her as you drift away from her cunt. kiss your way up her tummy and her chest, let her taste herself on your lips as you hold her and let her ride out the aftershocks. trail your fingertips over her back. whisper in her ear. tell her everything you loved about eating her out.
The feeling that the smartest boy you know turns into a brainless mutt when he’s around you is ughhh.
Knowing he trusts you enough to give in and let you fuck his pretty little brains out, tease him, grope him, mark his soft pretty body, humiliate him like the dumb puppy slut he really is feels intoxicating.
He deserves praise for being such a hard working puppy, his poor little head needs a break from such big responsibilities.
Collaring him, smothering him in attention and praise to the point where his first instinct is to drop to his knees as soon as he gets through the door is, well, the best thing to do really.
DOMS NEED AFTERCARE TOO!!!
Tell them they did good
Remind them they didn’t hurt you and that you are mentally ok
If they did hurt you tell them how much you enjoyed it
Tell them you felt safe in your scene
Make sure they hydrate and refuel with a little snack if they need it
Thank them for fulfilling your desires
Cuddle them, pet them, hold them
If either of you safeworded discuss why you did so and how to prevent it from progressing that far in the future
Relax! Watch a movie play some video games together! Don’t just leave or ask them to leave afterwards…doms are not just sentient sex toys
i just love boys who are just too eager to be my good boy. willing to abandon all his ego and pride, stripped to be the representation of desperation and willing to do anything just for my pleasure and amusement, embarrassing himself almost shamelessly just for me. how pathetic cute <3
“sweet boy” okay can i grind on your lap while you grope me however you’d like
Are you blushing, puppy? All because I called you a good toy? My good toy. You’re just a pretty fleshlight, barely have enough brains to be embarrassed. You like it when I pick you up and use your holes like a real toy? My hands tight around your waist, fucking you back and forth on my cock? Use your words, puppy. Good toy, thats it. Fuuck, sweet thing, you feel so incredible. Tightest little toy, oh my god, you were made to please me.
I have said it SO MANY TIMES and I will SAY IT AGAIN.
AS A DOM. YOU DESERVE CARE TOO.
aftercare is often times sub-focused, and while that’s always great, it’s often seen as “only subs need aftercare because they’re the ones that took the brunt of the acts.” and as a disabled dom, that’s absolutely not true.
dom drop is very real. I often experience it as guilt for hurting someone, or being “too aggressive,” as trans women are often seen. especially for doms that take care of subs, pretty please take the time to take care of yourself too!!
and for all the subs out there, if you’re able, please please please go get your dom some water or a snack. even if neither of you can walk, it’s imperative that you *talk to each other.* in my past, even the smallest things made me feel so much better. I’m going to list off some great things to say to your dropped dom here (feel free to add in reblogs!!)
“I’m okay. You didn’t hurt me too much.”
“Thank you for doing (self care act) for me, do you need anything?”
“I liked everything you did.”
“everything was within my boundaries.”
“you did great, (name/nickname).”
“do you need anything?”
“would you like (self care act)?”
“can I help (task: clean up, get water, etc.)”
just doing something like talking, showing physical affection, kisses, comfort, etc, is so so so important, and everyone deserves it!
and to all my fellow doms out there, don’t feel guilty for asking for help! if you need it, ask for it! your partner is there to show you love and care too!
making him praise himself while i fuck him
having him on all fours in front of a mirror while i give it to him from the back. i keep a hand in his hair so i can make him look up and watch us. i tell him that he's such a good boy, isn't he, and at first he just nods, maybe blushing lightly, but then i start going faster and harder. he closes his eyes and i tug on his hair to remind him to look at himself. "say it baby, say 'i'm a good boy'". and he does, whispering between panting breaths. and i go even harder and faster to reward him. "that's it baby, you take it so well don't you?" and he agrees and repeats my words because he understands it'll allow him to feel more of my strap. he'd agree to anything i say. he sounds so pretty talking like this
Subs with glasses>>>>