i love the idea of someone eating my pussy or playing with my clit whenever and wherever they want bc they cant get enough of the pretty noises i make for them
i didn’t know objectification was a kink! i thought i was just Being A Sub. thank you for answering and introducing me to it i’ll definitely look into it and maybe someday bring it up (im a shy whore) 🥰
Objectification is a little more than just being submissive. It's very much a de-personalization of the submissive, making you more of a vehicle for the dom's pleasure than an active participant in the scene. It's a specific dynamic that often needs specific aftercare as well, but it can be really nice for knocking you out of your head.
Do you enjoy being a toy, or having your dom ignore you while they use you? You might have an objectification kink! Do you enjoy the idea of being treated like furniture? You might have an objectification kink! And if the idea of free use seems appealing, but you want there to be a little bit of a non-con element to it as well, you might have an objectification kink.
Shit I want to embarrase a shy little sub boy so bad, I want to fuck him until he's just dripping of cum just completely weak and legs shaking while I just tell him how much of a whore he is, how he looks like a dirty little cock slut from this position and watch him get more and more embarrassed, I want to leave many dark hickeys on his neck and watch him get shy when people ask him who did that, who did the poor little thing let him mess up so bad, I want to make him wear tight revealing clothes and put a leash on him that says who he belongs to and take him outside for a walk. "But that's embarrassing" that's the entire point love, embarrasse yourself for me, just entertain me with your cute expressions<3
DOMS NEED AFTERCARE TOO!!!
Tell them they did good
Remind them they didn’t hurt you and that you are mentally ok
If they did hurt you tell them how much you enjoyed it
Tell them you felt safe in your scene
Make sure they hydrate and refuel with a little snack if they need it
Thank them for fulfilling your desires
Cuddle them, pet them, hold them
If either of you safeworded discuss why you did so and how to prevent it from progressing that far in the future
Relax! Watch a movie play some video games together! Don’t just leave or ask them to leave afterwards…doms are not just sentient sex toys
nothing pisses me off more than men that think they can dominate me. i’ll make you cry on my strap, bitch.
Being fingered by your partner under a blanket while you're cuddling<3 they're just kissing your neck and whispering praises into your ear while you're softly grinding against their hand , letting out the prettiest whimpers and whines
Normalise sex being fun and funny, not taking it entirely serious and knowing things will not go to plan. Being able to laugh at maybe a slightly strange sound or an unexpected move or slipping up on words when trying to be serious. It’s not p0rn, it’s real people and it’s not going to be a perfectly rehearsed sexy scene it’s real and human. If you can’t have fun and laugh with your partner even in some compromising positions you’re missing out. Keep a list of funny moments and sentences, it’s so much more personal and intimate when you can joke with each other.
the urge to pin a squirming boy down and fuck him until he cries. make him kneel and apologize for trying to run, make him beg for mommys forgiveness. not giving it to him until hes so teary eyed and red and embarrassed that he can barely get the words out anymore.
I really need more men to realize hot it is for them to be a total slut for a woman. Just overwhelmed af when I kiss you. Losing your mind. Eyes rolled back and already salivating and getting ready to drool just at my kiss and maybe feeling my hand gently close around your throat. I want your thighs to reflexively spread open. Give me access to your sensitive body, I’ll take good care of it for you.
Casual cockwarming is so hot… just unzip at any time and slip your soft cock into my mouth like it belongs there. Teach me that if your cock isn’t in your pants, it should be in me. Doesn’t matter if i’m doing something at the moment, a hole should be available to warm you for as long as you want
use me as a stress relieve toy. had a hard day? pin me down and bite me and spank my ass and use me like a fleshlight. I genuinely want nothing more to be happy. use my holes while calling me a dirty lil slut and telling me how needy and pathetic I am. and then hold me as you tell me how much better you feel after taking things out on me. and I'll melt in your arms while loving the marks you gave me <3
your girlcock x my boypussy??
Strong sub. Big strong subby puppy. You’re only able to pin him down when he lets you. You didn’t win dominance over him, he gave it to you. Tied up in restraints that only keep him down if he doesn’t try to struggle. And he doesn’t try. He trusts you, he relinquished himself to you, he lets you get him out of his own head, you couldn’t physically overpower him if you tried, but he lays under you nonetheless. I think trust is pretty damn hot.
why can’t a subby boy be making me a sandwich with nothing but an apron on rn ?? i wanna grope him while he’s making it 😕💔
Awww did you get wet when I called you a pretty boy?
What happens if I call you a good boy?
Or my cute little fuck toy, hmmm? What happens then?
Yeah that's what I thought.
You're such a needy slut, you'd probably cum in your pants if I rubbed your bulge.
sending nudes? hot.
asking for consent before sending nudes? very hot.
asserting your personal boundaries by declining to send nudes? so fucking hot.
assuring someone that they should never feel pressured to send nudes if they're not entirely comfortable? hot hot HOT!
Are you blushing, puppy? All because I called you a good toy? My good toy. You’re just a pretty fleshlight, barely have enough brains to be embarrassed. You like it when I pick you up and use your holes like a real toy? My hands tight around your waist, fucking you back and forth on my cock? Use your words, puppy. Good toy, thats it. Fuuck, sweet thing, you feel so incredible. Tightest little toy, oh my god, you were made to please me.
"aw, honey. you're okay, you're okay, just take it for me, easy. i know it's big, you can take it. deep breaths, doll."
"atta boy, atta boy. i trained you well."
"so obedient. so wet for me too, god. pathetic mutt."
"look at me. no, look at me, slut. there you go."
"pretty dog."
"sit. good boy. now beg."
"drop the attitude. no? need me to fuck it out of you? fine."
"god, you're nothing but a dumb dog, aren't you? nothing behind those eyes."
"c'mon, open your mouth, pup. take my fingers, that's it."
"did i say you could stop?"
"sweet thing, so precious with my hands around your throat. no, stop squirming. don't make this harder for yourself."
Kinktober day 6: Size difference
More of you kinky fucks need to talk about short dom tops more, need to realize that just because I'm shorter than you doesn't mean I can't easily bend you over and break you
I'll gladly shove and pin you down on the bed, push you down, ass up and presenting to me like the good sweet pet that you are, so I can easily spank and pinch at the pretty thighs of yours and get you whining love. You're just a little puppy after all honey, just a precious little puppy, with the sweetest and cutest tight little holes for me to stretch out and fuck. I can't reach enough to hold your wrists in my hands, but I can easily overstimulate you enough to get you gripping onto the sheets
No matter how short I am compared to you love, I can still get your mind all dumb and fuzzy, easily melting all your thoughts away as I rest my throbbing cock against your tummy. You and I know very well that this will end with you on my chest, as I cuddle and clean you up, your little puppy parts all stretched out and leaking my cum. After all, puppies are always smaller when they're on their knees and begging~
men with praise kinks are so easy you can convince them to do anything if you just tell them they'll look hot and pretty doing it
on your knees, beneath me, where you belong. look up at me, that's a good boy. your eyes are begging for me to touch you, tease you, edge you, deny you. you can handle it pretty boy.
so obsessed with the idea of having a pretty boy who’s just so docile and only wants to be a toy for me :c want him to be willing to spread his legs open for me anytime, even and especially just when i’m bored and want something to have fun with :c he’d be so willing to be my little toy and let me tease him and edge him over and over and over again, and even thank me after i finally let him come despite the tears streaming down his pretty face :c
hey there, if you’re rubbing yourself to my blog rn, don’t forget to give yourself some emotional aftercare when you’re done. genderplay is awesome but it can also be confusing for our self-image, so don’t forget to give some love to the self you’ve built outside of kink :) ✨
oh, good little thing, aren't you? already on your knees, so ready to be touched and used however I see fit. fucking adorable, really. whine for me a little bit? come on, darling, make me smile.
i'm a simple man . you call me "good boy" or "good dog" or other such terms and my eyes glaze over and my brain turns off and you could probably get me to do anything you say!
The desire to be called a good boy VS the embarrassment of admitting i want to be called good boy
I cannot brat at all I'm too starved of praise and affirmation that I'm being good and doing good I will literally follow any command given to me if it means I'll get that rush from the praise I'm given
The amount of you saying "fuck you" and "how dare you" in the tags of my praise kink callout posts is just adorable.
It's okay to like being praised and adored, sweetie. You can just enjoy it. No need to fuss or whine, but I know you secretly enjoy that too~ It's cute how desperately embarrassed you get over something as simple as a few words.
You're doing such a good job, and I'm so proud of you just for being you :)
Ugh I just need to fuck you. I just need to spread your legs open and hold you still while I use you I need to use you. I need to use you. it's not my fault you're so gorgeous. That you're so stunning and easy to use. That you're mine. You're mine. You're mine.