Ive Been Seeing Your Talk About This On My Dash A Lot And I Really Would Like To (politely) Clear Up

ive been seeing your talk about this on my dash a lot and i really would like to (politely) clear up a misconception i think you're having. i think you're confusing "kink" with "bdsm". "kink" is ANYTHING that is considered "unconventional" with regards to sex. thinking feet are kinda sexy is kink. wanting to see pregnant bellies in otherwise normal sex is kink. men wearing lacy lingerie is kink. "bdsm" is "bondage, domination, and sadomasochism" which is a TYPE of kink that can involve inflicting and receiving pain (sadomasochism) as well as handcuffs and restraints. it's meant to be negotiated by everyone involved. kink isn't always "hardcore". sometimes kink is wanting to fuck a guy with a paper bag on his head

no I know that, trust me I do..... I've been hypersexual for the majority of my life, wanting to recover. I know too much, seen too much.

I'm just using it as an overall term that I'm more comfortable with than bdsm, which is probably wrong-

but since I think kink ≠ bdsm

but bdsm = kink

and many others seem to use it wrong colloquially too so... I'm just wanting to make myself understood

rest under the cut bc nsfw talk!

there's a difference between fetish and kink too as far as I know? there's like those that are pretty cool to you but not necessary to reach satisfaction, those that are preferred bc it's hard to reach satisfaction otherwise and those where it's necessary and nothing else will work. I forgot the english words but it was in a scientific article-

but the last option is definitely a fetish, right

yeah so apart from 1 thing I consider myself vanilla.

I'm into Flug bc he's fictional and I don't consider him masked, I think of him as an object head (and I don't wanna see his face, I wish the bag was his head) idk if being objectum is kink or a sexuality. I would have labeled myself as latter since this applies to romantic feelings for me too. the bag/mask itself isn't the object of my desire.

and for pregnancy; I think a better description of it would be impregnation then, huh. I don't fw that personally. (that's mostly what's being found under the "pregnancy kink" tag, a lot of nonconsensual impregnation fantasies or "hyper" stuff, and lots of pain related things. at least during the 1 time I checked it out, maybe I was unlucky!) but the way you describe it, yeah I can see it! that doesn't make me uncomfortable. even tho I don't get any kind of sexual feelings out of this thought. I just think it's aesthetically pretty, whether clothed or naked.

but I would draw that for example. bc I'm neutral to that.

I don't ever really feel sexual feelings.

so ig I am not into kink... nor bdsm... but more comfortable with all kinks outside of bdsm (the clothes are cool tho. like just in general, I'd wear that for fun outside if it wasn't socially inappropriate.) (and clearly I'm ace)

extremely interesting conversation tho, thank you!😭

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anon ask ask reply help me how did I get here honestly the kinks that are like... silly. I fw that even tho I don't feel anything for it but like feet are intriguing anything softcore is ok honestly anything that isn't inherently sexual but as soon as we reach smth involving pain I'm out aaaa fellas is it a kink to think about kissing and cuddling and missionary with Flug bc that sounds like vanilla to me and that is basically where it ends for me yk my shame comes a little from entering spaces for kinky people bc feeding is definitely kinky but kinda mild and silly huh and people calling themselves “freaky” so I be like “oh me too!!!” and they be like. “ok softie. well I want my fav character to get beaten and insulted while being tied up and fucked” (and that is ok) but also terrifying to me personally like OH GOD WHAT- NO HOLD UP😭 oh hell no I'm not freaky LIKE THAT get me out of here ...and then I do be judged for being too vanilla in comparison I've also had very accepting hardcore kinky friends who respect me not wanting to talk about extreme stuff like that! but the majority of my experiences have been people pushing their nonconsensual fantasies onto me; and I'm making no general statements; just saying “yo can we pls not do that with me” and then I'm quickly being rejected for not being freaky enough so atp I've just accepted ok... I don't belong anywhere complicated shit can I be honest I feel that kink has become so mainstream that many communities popped up that don't understand- that the most important rule to kink is Safe; Sane; and Consensual so sometimes you run into toxic people that take it as an personal insult or “kinkshaming” if you say you personally don't fw smth but that's another can of worms for another day; I wonder if I'm alone with this experience tho

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4 months ago

Hell yeah dude congrats on the mini human!!! If you’re craving chocolate chip cookies, brownies etc but don’t want to worry about a messy kitchen after, there’s a few ways to make single servings in a mug in the microwave and a few of them don’t use egg if you’re worried about things like salmonella and any other health concerns that come with not using a conventional oven. Also, if you REALLY want another layer of protection, heat treating flour can kill a lot of harmful stuff as well for extra peace of mind. Either spread a thin layer on a cooking sheet and bake at ≈150°C (converted from freedom units lol) for 10 minutes, or you can nuke a bowl of it in the microwave for 30 second intervals, stirring occasionally.

I know when my mom was having my sister years ago, she had to be careful about things that were normally okay before and my dad would take a couple extra precautions when cooking for us.

I’ve also seen packets of Betty Crocker mix in stores marketed as “(X) in a mug” (the blueberry muffins are my favorite personally)

They’re marketed as just “Mug Treats” and so far I’ve seen one with Hot Fudge Brownie, one with Soft Chocolate Chip Cookie, and another with Funfetti.

Whew, sorry for the yapping 😅 I just remembered you mentioned craving chocolate and sweets so I thought I’d share with the class in case you wanted baked goods quickly and without all the mess afterwards.

Congrats again on the pregnancy, and don’t let the bastards get you down👏 you’re doing awesome

THANK YOU this is godsent, omg🙏🏻😭💗

I'll share it for everyone who's also pregnant or just hungry for no reason🫡 this is amazing and easy (and I'm a great cook and baker! I love being in the kitchen) I made one a week ago and then I made 5 more (aka my own mom made them with/for me) and I said it was literally the best thing my taste buds have ever witnessed in that moment. it really hit the spot. we also threw some cherries from a jar in that bih and it's🤌🏻 chef kiss

Hell Yeah Dude Congrats On The Mini Human!!! If You’re Craving Chocolate Chip Cookies, Brownies Etc

I should have put some empty mugs around him but this still conveys an accurate picture of what my past few weeks looked like


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1 year ago

OMG LOOK AT HIM!!!

OH HE'S SUCH A TRY HARD AAAAAA

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS BLESSING I'M FREAKING OUT🥹🥹🥹 COMPLETELY LOSING MY MIND ABOUT THIS IT'S SO MUCH WTH I WISH I COULD DRAW THAT FAST. HE'S FUCKING BEAUTIFUL, YOU DO SUCH AN AMAZING JOB ON HIM (AND THE REST OF THE CREW TOO!) THANK YOUUU🧡🧡🧡 CRYING SOBBING AND SCREAMING-😭🥹

I love your Villainous art so much specifically Flug. I love Flug. so. much. It might be a slight obsession. just a tiny bit yk, miniscule even, I swear I am totally normal about this man.

You draw him so adorable... I'd die for him

That being said it might surprise you that I'm begging you to draw Flug more. Please. I'd be happy with anything but I've honestly never seen anyone draw him in the outfit at the very end of the 6th episode and it's a shame

Aw thank you!! Flug is very flattered!

I Love Your Villainous Art So Much Specifically Flug. I Love Flug. So. Much. It Might Be A Slight Obsession.
I Love Your Villainous Art So Much Specifically Flug. I Love Flug. So. Much. It Might Be A Slight Obsession.

Also a little extra since you mentioned the outfit! (I honestly completely forgot about that outfit-) It was actually pretty fun drawing him in it :D

Hopefully I got the right one-

I Love Your Villainous Art So Much Specifically Flug. I Love Flug. So. Much. It Might Be A Slight Obsession.

I usually don’t mind drawing the crew, especially Black Hat or Flug. So feel free to send any more Villainous prompts if you want (●’◡’●)ノ


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1 year ago
The Statement On This Picture Would Still Apply If You'd Remove The Arrow Or Point It To Literally Any

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