You should try supporting endos or at least listening to some endo perspectives if you’re interested! We have DID but from the endos we’ve interacted with, many of them genuinely do not fit the criteria for DID/OSDD, still feel and function as plural, and are just trying to live their lives in peace <3
There’s always room for more pro-endo DID systems (like us!) in the plural community!
i actually really do want to hear endogenic system's perspective. i have a post a bit ago where i asked a few questions because im genuinely curious about their experiences.
i kind of personally go by the idea that the two communities should be completely seperate especially since one is a disorder. i dont really care what endos do outside of what i see from them interacting with disordered systems, most of my anti endo posts are actually based on interactions ive seen or had with endos who come into other spaces and try to start arguments and whatnot.
im celebrating my 21st bday by getting narc supply from arguing with uneducated people on tiktok
if they dont want to learn then theyll just have to deal with me pestering them and wasting their time 🥰
yea exactly its shaped your identity. its a defining characteristic of your identity but ptsd is not just an identity like being trans or gay is.
why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?
being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such
yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as
we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.
you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?
Saying you have a "transfemme" alter in a dfab body is super fucking transphobic, I thought you'd know better. You can take your fake system and go play with the other fakes okay?
why is transphobic? give me like actual solid reasoning
im not saying you can be mtf in an afab body or ftm in an amab body while fronting
but there are identities under the trans umbrella that you can be that falls under masc and fem and honestly not respecting those identities feels more transphobic
Friendly reminder with Moon Knight coming out tomorrow;
While the cast have come forward to say they tried their best to portray this disorder, they still probably won’t get it completely. And that’s ok, because at least it’ll be better representation than anything else we’ve had (hopefully).
What won’t be ok is if any of you singlets out there start treating it like its not something that seriously affects a lot of people or if you start infantilizing one of the alters of the main character. There are so many of us systems out here who really want to enjoy this show but if a bunch of you non-systems decide to take this disorder and not do any proper research on it before talking about it you could be ruining so many of our experiences with this show. So please, just remember this show is portraying an actual disorder many people have and regardless of if you think you’re spreading good information or not always double check your facts with someone who actually has the disorder.
The future should not be plural.
The future should accommodate for those with dissociative disorders.
The future should have further more thorough research in dissociative disorders.
The future should be more accepting of dissociative disorders.
BUT
The future should not be plural.
That means children are getting repeatedly traumatised at an impressionable age.
That means children don't have healthy coping mechanisms.
That means children AREN'T SAFE.
The future should not be plural, but it should be respectful and accepting to those who are.
I don’t blame Steven I can’t spot the difference
i wonder if the dumbass in my comments understands that my feelings arent as hurt as their's is by other people's opinions
lmao i'm gonna let you finish but these headcanos that make santos into a good person are hilarious. she already outted him as a drug user, now you want her to out him as trans without his permission christ.
oh trust me i dislike santos
but its less outing frank as trans and more confirming it after someone else accidentally outed him
it was more of a situation of someone needed to ask him caus he enjoys watching people squirm so its not like he wouldve ever actually straight up said it
Please stop posting in the plural/plurality tags. They were made with endogenic systems in mind, and are pro-endo. We have our space and you have yours.
The only posts I tag with the plurality tags are ones that I want to discuss with endogenic systems. Like I'm not posting my anti-endo posts in that tag because im aware that its a pro-endo tag, im posting my endo neutral posts there because i want responses and want to learn more.