We’re Such A Mess But In Such A Fun Chaotic Way

Robby can, should, must, and will fuck everyone he works with.

i definitely dont mean a dissociative disorder specialist. i just mean a normal therapist. because even tho you might not have headmates as the result of trauma its still a neurodivergency and getting help with figuring the best way of working with your neurodivergency and figuring out and getting the accomodations you need in day to day life should be a priority for anyone.

gonna be so real

i think the only issue i really have with endogenic systems is that most are not willing to see a therapist or get professional help and theyre not willing to face the idea that they may actually have trauma or another mental health issue causing their system symptoms

i have the same issue with self diagnosed traumagenic systems that discount anything their therapists say if they bring up any other disorder first before DID/OSDD

like yall

for your health and wellbeing please be open to other options andnplease seek professional help to help navigate this stuff

like you wouldnt be like yea i have ehler danlos syndrome and not seek professional help because youre scared it could be an autoimmune disorder instead

fun facts about sharks

so fun fact about us

we write fanfics on ao3 about our introject’s sources 😎

should we show them off on here?

personally id rather not have control over perceived reality

idk that just seems like a lot more work than most people are worth

Remember, a narcissist's ultimate goal is total control over your perception of reality. Being around someone who has a vested interest in making you feel crazy will never be good for your mental health. Gaslighting is part of the abuse. Chronic gaslighting can cause psychosis.

System culture is the clown alter. :o)

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You should try supporting endos or at least listening to some endo perspectives if you’re interested! We have DID but from the endos we’ve interacted with, many of them genuinely do not fit the criteria for DID/OSDD, still feel and function as plural, and are just trying to live their lives in peace <3

There’s always room for more pro-endo DID systems (like us!) in the plural community!

i actually really do want to hear endogenic system's perspective. i have a post a bit ago where i asked a few questions because im genuinely curious about their experiences.

i kind of personally go by the idea that the two communities should be completely seperate especially since one is a disorder. i dont really care what endos do outside of what i see from them interacting with disordered systems, most of my anti endo posts are actually based on interactions ive seen or had with endos who come into other spaces and try to start arguments and whatnot.

systems being able to shapeshift wld be SO FUCKING COOL

HEAR ME OUT

Frank goes to rehab and comes back and slowly starts spiraling because he's actually taking the time to focus on himself and who he is and suddenly realizes that he might not actually be a he

Cue a scene of him sobbing his heart out in Abby's arms as he has the big realization

Abby's of course super supportive (I'm a big fan of queer abby) and takes Frank out shopping to find some outfits to try out to figure out their own personal style and identity

Frank still is proud to be called a dad but absolutely loves when Tanner calls them Dad in public on a more feminine day where she's wearing a skirt and very obviously looks feminine. Frank's a chaotic bastard that takes pride in being a menace in public

She obviously tells Mel first and this sets off a course of events where Mel Abby and Frank end up in a queer sapphic polycule (mel is acearo so its very qpp too)

the others in the ED learn because one of Frank's new trans friends (because duh she abby and mel are obviously going to community events) comes in due to some injury (maybe a non serious car crash or smth) and gets super confused because that is Frankie and their pronouns are she/they why are all these people calling this badass lesbian doctor a he

they have a concussion and so in a moment of confusion lets it slip and Frank just laughs and just shrugs and is like yea youre right because she loves fucking with her friends and so now the entire ED staff are like oh god have I been misgendering my friend this whole time and none of them are comfortable enough to ask until finally santos is like dude are you trans because she just does not gaf and is tired of the others all being uncomfortable

frank's just like yea have been for a while and keeps moving

robby especially is internally freaking out a bit because hes a good attending™️ and cant believe he missed this major part of his favorite resident

btw dating sucks as a concept.