I am a sensitive soul and sometimes it understands on some level the struggle of others unspoken and there is an itch to help drag them out of the hole they can’t seem to come out from
But It also knows you can’t really drag another person out of their hole, only hope they get the strength to drag themselves out and letting them know, you are standing right at the exit holding out your hand
Do not quit!
What does that mean?
Why stay in a place, in something that brings you no joy, that brings mostly negative emotions without trying to find something new.
I choose to be brave, to take a leap and be hopeful that
It will all work out, that everything will be okay.
That I will be fine.
Sometimes it pays to be embarrassed by a romantic partner or prospect for you to start to see clearly if a relationship makes sense or not
Shame can be strong teacher to re asses s situation
How to love her.
She is soft
Careful with her
She is strong and quiet
But loves a good laugh
Remember she is soft
Be gentle, patience
that’s her language
Careful intentionality
Is what is required
Be kind, generous and soft
She will reveal herself
Slowly like a puzzle
Patience again and again
She is all you’ll ever need
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The scene at Osun Osogbo in Osun State, Nigeria by Adeolu Osibodu (@adeoluosibodu)
This might be an unpopular opinion but:
I'd rather start the romance all over again
I'd rather fix the problems
I‘d rather work on the triggers
I'd rather find out what went wrong
I‘d rather go through the hardships
I'd rather go through more fights and arguments
I'd rather go on more dates
I'd rather work on winning you over a million times
Than to start all over again with someone that won't be the same
I walked past a old neighborhood and I felt so much nostalgia for a time that was past and I wondered if I fully understood what I had in that moment or maybe it was just practice
I don’t write great poetry but I write and they make life feel a little less heavy
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