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being kissed in your sleep and being pulled closer within cuddles is such a top tier form of affection

“I wait every year for summer, and it is usually good, but it is never as good as that summer I am always waiting for.”

— Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters of Martha Gellhorn; in a letter to Hortense Flexner and Wyncie King

Can we bring back love letters?

Another blush and white wedding

10 Traits that Lead to Success

1. Independence

2. Self-confidence

3. Persistence

4. Creative thinking

5. Being thick skinned

6. Knowing who you are and what you want from life

7. Setting clear goals – and going after them

8. Staying focused

9. Optimism

10. Passion and a zest for life.

How to Motivate Yourself

1. Visualize yourself succeeding. Imagine what you will be doing, how you will look, how others will be reacting or relating to you, how you will feel …

2. Break your main goal down into lots of smaller, more manageable pieces. Then, just do “the next thing”. Don’t get bogged down by everything you still have to do!

3. Remind yourself that every tiny bit of effort counts. It all adds up and makes a difference in the end.

4. Make a start – even if you’re just committing yourself to doing 10 minutes of something you don’t want to do. Often the hardest part is overcoming the initial feeling of dread or inertia.

5. Put on some of your favourite upbeat music. That can help to get your moving, and also change your mood.

6. Get a friend – who also wants to improve their motivation – to join in the commitment to see this project through. It’s easier when others are hanging in there with you – and you also keep each other more accountable.

by stephenisabellemaggie

more fab skies here ❤️

“I can say with great certainty and absolute honesty that I did not know what love was until I knew what love was not.”

— Unknown

“Someone somewhere is searching for you in every person they meet.”

— Unknown

“You will search for me in another person, I promise.”

— Unknown

“Let them be wrong about you. You have nothing to prove.”

— Unknown

He saw her before he saw anything else in the room.

F. Scott Fitzgerald

How to Develop Self-Compassion

1. Acknowledge to yourself that you’re having a hard time.

2. Don’t beat yourself up for struggling.

3. Let go of any tendencies towards perfectionism.

4. Ask for support from those who truly care.

5. Make sure you enforce healthy boundaries with others.

6. Drop some commitments, and give yourself more space.

7. Take time to relax, and to do things you enjoy.

8. Learn to appreciate and value solitude.

Rules for a Happy Life

1. Focus on the positive, not the negative.

2. Live your life one day at a time.

3. Don’t be afraid to say “I love you”.

4. Be someone who gives to, and who nurtures, others.

5. Look for the good in everything and everyone.

6. Prioritise your time, and do what matters first.

7. Don’t sweat the small stuff, or let stupid things upset you.

8. Set healthy boundaries in relationships.

9. Keep on dreaming, and invest in your dreams.

10. Let go of worry and anxiety.

“I am a strong person. But every once in a while I would like someone to hold my hand and tell me things are going to be OK.”

— Unknown

cuddling but with your dick inside me

Details in the Dark - Musée d’Orsay

Photographed by Frederick Ardley

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