Stupid and ugly man with low impulse control who lives in deep poverty: I can't wait to have kids!!! I CAN'T WAIT TO PASS ON MY LEGACY!!
18-20 years later: Damn how come my kids are a bunch of illiterate fucking stupid failures??? Mmmmmm must be the local public schools and TV definitely...Oh no nn- it's itss the MacDonald's for sure!!!
are you cat pretty, fox pretty, deer pretty, bunny pretty, jellyfish pretty. are you gonna get rid of your hip dips or your strawberry legs or your baby cheeks or your vuvuzela arms. what’s your seasonal color, have you had a personal color analysis. what’s your kibbe body type. what’s your aesthetic, what kind of vibe are you tryna give. have you tried the butt pencil test. have you tried the charcoal face mask. what about the charcoal toothpaste. have you tried sleeping with mouth tape on to get a better jawline. are you saving up for veneers or a BBL or a boob job. are you beer tanning this summer. have you optimized your shower routine. did you know that not making facial expressions keeps you from getting wrinkles. do you wanna learn how to be “That Girl.” do you wanna get the fox eye surgery or buccal fat removal. are you a girl boss or a bimbo. have you tried the hair identifier spray. are you gonna hide your double lip line. are you gonna get that liquid nose job. is your face card serving. does your pinky overlap your thumb when you wrap them around your wrist. how big is your nose gap. what’s your canthal tilt. did you know you can treat smile lines.
some problems are so humiliating the only solution is to solve them yourself and then continue to never talk about it
I honestly believe that women who are male-partnered/sexually active/ have kids/plans to have kids don't have much to say about trans people. Since a lot of arguments against trans people is the damage they cause to their bodies through sugeries and hormones (usually towards tifs) or that they're predators (towards tims) fall completely flat. These women do have a predator with them (their male partner), so why be upset over a male pretending to be female when you don't care about safety to begin with. Second, why can't tifs damage their bodies when you also damage your own body and mind through having sex and childbirth. You are a complete contradiction. You can't be against them and yet do the same as them just in different font.
I see willingness to engage with conflict as one of the ultimate signs of trustworthiness.
you can’t trust someone who fawns or freezes or falls into hysterics at the slightest hint of a conflict, or who equates conflict with abuse. Their “support” only lasts up until the point where they feel their interests don’t entirely align with yours, which upon reaching they will abandon you like the cowards they are.
Nature in humans/most mammals;
Females= Must be hunted and penetrated by males, must carry all the reproductive burden, all the pain of our bodies ripping itself apart to create life, must nurture offspring, repeat.
Males= Maybe get in a scrap, hunt females and penetrate.
Why were we the ones subjected to all the suffering?
Coming to terms with the fact that we can’t change the dynamic of nature is hitting a brick wall.
The only way we will have freedom is if the power imbalance doesn’t exist, which means extinction is the only route to true freedom.
Is anyone else disgusted with babies and the culture surrounding motherhood? Like why am I required to give a shit about you? You share too much and I think all babies look goblins. There is no such thing as a cute child for me. Idgaf and never will abt ur “miracle” of life.
Becoming a parent is an ego death for the mother. But not for the father. When a couple has a child, the woman becomes a woman and the man stays a man. In the sense that, the role of being a mother is inescapable. A baby is latched to you 24/7 in a way that isn't the case for the father. Even if you were pumping and so that the father could get up and feed the baby instead, you still are going to have to get up to pump to keep your production. There's nothing that a man can do that the woman doesn't already have to do. Most men continue their extracurricular activities as normal, having days out with the boys meanwhile women find that they can't even take a shower anymore without requiring advanced coordination. I mean heck, the fact that men can have multiple families but a woman never can, speak to this fact.
Prior to this, as just a couple without children - you can have gender equality. So if you don't already have it at that stage, you will definitely never have it when you have children.
But the act of having a child is an inescapable gender inequity. Parenthood can never be 50/50 even with a very involved partner. I think this is a very hard pill to swallow.
ever since i was a little girl i’ve always known i’m a big fan of alone time
I irk at the name of feminism when I hear it from anybody. It has totally lost its menaing and means nothing anymore.
Now they are doing the same with radical feminism. Raddies with boyfriends are main center of feminism. They wanna endlessly analyse male nature only to end up breeding with them and spawning new males. This makes sense why black pilled women don't wanna associate with radfems anymore.
Reformist women and hetfems have started to colonise radfem spaces and diluting the actual meaning. You get to see women who believe in socialisation theory and giving out "harm reduction" tips. If they really wanted safety for the woman then they would have asked her to abandon their moid.
There's too many handmaidens. I mean there is a reason why we have talks here that ask to center mothers and how bEauTifUl motherhood is.
What was the last straw on the back of the camel was the apparent lesbophobia from these same women.
From "radblr hates straight women" to "lesbians shouldn't talk about separatism". When lesbians already face double (or even triple) oppression. They think lesbians are having "sex parties" and how unfair it is for straight women to not "enjoy" intimacy. Lol. Let's assume all homophobia from world is eliminated and even then our dating pool is so small. We have to be single for years.
Honestly, I'm starting to doubt that radical feminism was even "colonized" by male lovers. Seems to me that the majority of the big radfems love males anyway. (Any truly liberated women that feel that it's their movement, and they feel betrayed by this, I get that as well.) But feminism as a whole is very difficult to truly shape into a revolutionary movement because it requires the hatred or the very least the absence of love for males, but with 99% of women truly loving them until their dying breath, we cannot move in any meaningful way.
Women who are poor should know good and well that they should not be pregnant while living in poverty
Shout-out to the homeless woman who chose to commit armed robberies instead of cock-gobbling. I see you, I hear you and I love you.
4b until horny
4b until poor
4b until lonely
4b until drunk or high
4b until the "one"
4b until upset
4b until bored
Tumblr is a great source for modern twists on classic misogyny such as “you hysterical floozies have penis envy” “you’re uptight because you’re frigid and need a good fucking” and “all female characters in media must be virtuous and good examples of morals, lest they tempt women to fall into sin”
have you ever seen that post where someone called out how simone de beauvoir was trafficking young girls and a radfem reblogged it to write this long drawn out post on how simone was actually the real victim in the situation, with not a peep about the girls she helped victimize
And I still remeber that. I also remeber the backlash i got when I made the post :)
These women don't give a shit about the well being of girls.
Time and again I have seen them defend misogynist women and not hold hem accountable because of some stupid concept of solidarity that they don't even know about.
"supporting women's rights and wrongs" doesn't even sound funny at this point.
You are true anon. These radblrinas defend their dead idols over the well-being of women.. Mary dale was very homophobic and still her texts are passed around. Andrea dworkin's texts on lesbians opened my eyes on how lesbophobic she is. And no one batted an eye.
But what I seem to notice is that this solidarity doesn't seem to extend for lesbians, woc and marginalised women.
They hate gay males for misogyny but find their bfs misogyny cute.
They write posts "Avg white male is less misogynistic than avg man in middle east" "Afghan men hated women, so they established Taliban" while their western gov actively supplied funds for terrorist organisations and de stabalised the middle east.
Their sympathy extends only for women who uphold oppression.
So many feminists live in a delulu fantasy world not advising women to make decisions based on the world we actually live in, but instead a world of how things should be
i think it's the byproduct of the leftie mindset, when you strive to be so open-minded your brain falls out; and feminism is a left wing ideology so it's suffering from its shortcomings. you know the joke about liberals at their core wanting to rebel against all social conventions out of arrested development, so they'll defend vile shit like pornography or pedophilia because conservatives are against them. it's a bit similar here. the trappings of defending stupid shit that women do in the name of feminism, because from a feminist viewpoint all women are perpetual misunderstood victims, and not real humans that are active participants in their own lives.
As Solanas once wrote, men will:
"swim through a river of snot, wade nostril-deep through a mile of vomit, if he thinks there'll be a friendly pussy awaiting him."
Yes, and male-attracted women are no better. She will:
risk cervical cancer, STIs, and STDs,
mess up her hormones with pills, insert copper in her uterus,
go through excruciating torture like abortions, pregnancy, and childbirth,
put up with abuse and sexual harassment from her spouse, spend the best years of her life pampering a man child, shortening her own lifespan to lengthen his,
litter the world with walking time bombs, spawn criminals and rapists at worst and covert misogynists at best onto earth and creating a world where herself, her sisters, and her daughters live in fear,
pollute the world with so many needless males so as to render human life disposable to oligarchs, making all of us easily exploitable because they know the male-attracted female will just keep churning out more cannon fodder,
submit to males and endlessly toil away to maintain the status quo of male power structures, dragging other women down with her, so on and so forth......
x is true because x is true!
christians: the bible says it's real because the bible says it's true!
tras: transgender individuals are: (the gender they identify with) because they say they are the gender they identify with!
we don't understand how x works
christians: god works in mysterious ways
tras: only people can define the gender they are. (only women know what women are)
ostracization from the community
christians: so and so is an atheist/gay. is walking down a worldly path. we can't associate with them anymore .
tras: TERF! THIS PERSON IS A TERF! BLOCK THEM!
demanding access into places
christian's: we demand that creationism be taught in public school. that the 10 commandments be showcased in every school!
tras: trans women deserve to be in women's sports! trans women deserve to be in locker rooms! trans women deserve to be in female only spaces!!
strict gender roles
christian's: a woman must be submissive, feminine, present herself in a way that is pleasing to god, and must present herself as non aggressive, gentle, be focused on her husband and children
tras: if a person identifies as a woman they MUST be submissive! they must be emotional! they're very soft spoken and passive, and love being soft, and have a gender non conforming/feminine fashion so they MUST be a woman!
persecution complex:
atheist: i believe you have the right to practice your religion but i have a problem with...
christians: WE'RE THE MOST PERSECUTED MINORITY! WE'RE BEING SILENCED INTO NOT SHARING OUR FAITH! THIS PERSECUTION MEANS GOD IS COMING! THE END IS NEAR THE RAPTURE IS HAPPENING!
radfem: if you'd like to dress in a gender non conforming way, then fine. but i have a problem with...
tras: WE'RE IN STAGE 7 OF GENOCIDE! WE'RE BEING DIVIDED AS A COMMUNITY! OUR OWN KIN IS TURNING AGAINST US! THIS IS WHY SUICIDE RATES ARE SO HIGH!!!
if you are x then you are x
christian's: you need the faith the size of a mustard seed to be a Christian.
tras: if you even think you're trans than you're trans
flipping the script once you're in the group
christian's: well actually women need to be pure for their husbands, follow traditional gender roles, reject who they are to be worthy in gods eyes and instill this belief that you are an inherently unloveable person!
tras: you're trans? oh wait, now you can go through years of hormone therapy treatment! you can start voice training to be perceived as the gender you've chosen! then if you feel comfortable you can have surgeries to look your identity!
Everyone makes exceptions, that’s why the world remains the same. “Can you believe we elected a sexual predator as president?” I can, because the same people complaining, sleep next to one themselves every night. Oh I forgot, your husband’s “barely legal teen” search history doesn’t count. He’s not really dangerous, he’s still one of the good ones.
Know that almost every individual on Earth is doing the exact same thing. Excusing those closest to them, no matter how horrific and depraved. Mentally ill sex addicts are the majority on this planet because everyone serves and worships them. As long as you’re related to, or make the masses feel good, they’ll look the other way.
“Children are being exploited!” They sure are, and it’s being done by the people around you. Why should everyone else live up to a moral code you don’t uphold yourself? Weak minded selfish egomaniacs are a danger to themselves and others, so they insist there’s a thousand rules and restrictions set in place to keep things “safe.” Guess who’s left to “enforce such things? People who are no different than them, ready to bend the rules whenever they see fit.
Adults get exactly what they ask for. It’s unfortunate that children must also suffer consequences, but that’s the fault of their parents. Endorsing humanity’s abusive system is a sign of support. You co-sign with your words and actions every single day. Very few people have real reason to be upset about the state of the world, those individuals being TRULY horrified at what this place represents.
Indulging sometimes and then repenting is still acceptance. Criticizing others while condoning your own behavior is a vote to keep the status quo. Participating in the game but becoming upset when you lose is nobody else’s fault. Protecting predators is partaking in abuse. Believing otherwise creates cognitive dissonance, which adds to the collective destruction around us.
Be who you say you are.
Leftism is a rotten ideology thats been spoiling ever since Marx and Engels started writing books, leftism is nothing more than the idolization of old white men and the worshipping of long dead totalitarian regimes. There will be no international proletarian revolution, reading theory is not praxis, your leftcom book club will not make any new ground breaking theories, and your marxist newspaper will not spark revolution. We fight here and now with no end goal of some communist utopia. We live in the moment and our communes are not planned nor are they preparing for the future. They simply are, they are autonomous unions of mutual association and work towards no goal other than their own self interest. Communization or anarcho nihilism or insurrectionary egoism or whatever you want to call it is far more practical and realistic than leftism. Break Bones and Love Freely.
you have to rid yourself of the idea that everyone whose nuance threatens yours belongs to The Other Side. a good way to start doing that is to accept yourself as a culturally informed subject whose internality, too, is constructed of ideas that are worth critiquing, and will be forever
Isnt it retarded how most of society is sex obsessed? It's like they never got out of their teenage phase and act like the horny bastards they are.
Especially women. They talk about giving blowjobs and acting in degrading acts. Even the most oppressed people/country in the world would revolt at the 1/10th humiliation subjected by oppressors.
Do you actually think only a few women are spared of ending up like most hetties?
Most people are juvenile because they haven't placed any effort into developing their minds. I used to be upset about how sex obsessed people are but I read books about how these people are NPCs and their only purpose is to procreate and put the pieces of the puzzle in place for me.
It's a choice to get out of having a sexual mindset, so yea only a few women are spared of this.
genuinely one of the most annoying things is when you criticize religion and someone has to come in like umm 🥺🥺 but the text has been altered over time through faulty translation 🥺🥺 if you look at this one rare version of the text from several hundred years ago as practiced in one town maybe from a certain angle while hanging upside down you can see that my god didn’t MEAN for all of this misogyny and rape and slavery and conquering and cruelty to happen in his name 🥺🥺 or maybe even her name or their name 🥺🥺 if we all returned to the TRUE version of the faith you’d see that it was good all along 🥺🥺 like girl ! i do not believe in your god. he cannot be misinterpreted because he is not real and has not spoken. the church is an institution which is made up of people! it preaches certain values and arranges certain orders and has an obscene level of influence in our supposedly secular government, and all of these things are carried out by people with agendas who have the arrogance to believe they are imbued with divine authority. a religion is precisely what it is in practice and nothing more or less!
Prison abolitionists are like "only some rapists go to jail right now, so we might as well make it so none of them do :)"
why do you think women get so angry when they see women posting themselves not wearing makeup to special occasions like this? I’m sure envy/ jealousy is a part of it but I don’t think it’s just that
https://www.tumblr.com/comradical/779514171640397824/the-misogyny-is-coming-from-inside-the-house?source=share
They hate to be reminded that there's a life outside the cage. Just like they hate to confront the fact that they're willfully participating in their own oppression. These women just want all women to maintain the status quo because it's easier for them to live life.
If you're a feminist who actually wants change, I imagine you ought to be less worried about alienating the average women in heterosexual relationships who are very likely to prioritise their relationships with a man (close, personal, comfortable) over any cause (faraway, oppositional, risky, unknown), and more worried about alienating heterosexual women who are on the fence or already celibate and separatist.
But no, feminists are entertaining inter-feminist discussions about ridiculous notions such as "heterophobia," about how unfair it is that lesbians are supposedly having marathon sex on the daily who stop heterosexual women from having sex with statistically-proven-to-be-dangerous men, and being accommodating of downright embarrassing behaviour from women who are wailing about how badly they want to suck cock.
This is the DREAM.
For most western women;
Why would you take the risk of trying to find a male that won’t kill, disrespect or rape you, when you could just not?
Too many cases of women and girls being abused by male partners to justify it.