Dumb Things Roman Has Said #94

Autistic Children Are Not A Burden. 

You could just like, not go

I do not think that would go over well with my parents

I love you so much 😭

-Roman

Logan i dont know if or when you'll see this, but my love I primise you will be able to come back home to me. Ibdint give a shit about your parents. We can raise julian better than they can. A monkey could raise him better than they can. But we're a lot smarter than monkeys right? Well qt least you are. You're the smartest person in the whoooollleeeeee world. Thats why I love you. Qlone with many many many other reasons

I'm so sorry you have shutty parents who kidnap you and lock you in gth hohse and blqckmail you. We can be so much better parents than tht

I'll wait for forbyiy forwvert my love. I'll keep out bed warm until you return to me. I'll look up at the moon and take comfort in knowing you are looking at the same one. I love love love koveblove love yoy mi amor 💖 😘😘😍🥰😍🥰😘😗💘💝💖💗💛💞💕💟❣💔❤🧡🖤🤎💜💜💙💚💛🤍💌💋💫🤧😭😢🌹🌹🌹🌈🌕🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

-Roma

Isnt Patton helping? Like, I understand him not wanting to reveal Roman’s business but this is affecting you now so like,,, -🌌

Patton is helping, yes. He has been a comfort to Roman, I believe. He certainly is better with handling these intense emotions, and he seems to understand them better. 

 However I do not want him to misuse Roman’s trust. I do not wish for another in house feud, so I have not pushed Patton to tell me what he knows. All he has told me is that I should approach the subject in a more gentle way with him and try to dedicate more time to for us. 

I’m not entirely sure what he means, if I am being honest. I have been doing my best to balance everything I have going on, and Roman is far from being at the bottom of my priorities. Quite the contrary. As to approaching the subject more gently, well...I do not really know how to do that. I thought I was being gentle, but I suppose my techniques were not correct. 

Then tell him! It's important that he knows if your uncomfortable!

I do not want to make him feel like I regret being with him or that his affections are not returned. I don't want to hurt him.

While being stuck in the house can be frustrating and cramped at times, i have to admit that I have enjoyed having the free time. I have gone through many of the books on my reading list, and have enjoyed quite a few documentaries. 

I hope all of you have found some joy with your free time as well. 

A History of Logan

Admin: Alright a bit of a explanation/reminder of Logan’s relationships with his parents for those of you who don’t know/don’t remember. 

Logan grew up in a very conservative family. His parents are in the upper-class and they have a lot of high expectations for Logan. He’s been pressured to be perfect his whole life--perfect grades, perfect speech, perfect health, perfect everything. they are also pretty controlling. they make Logan do what they want him to do, and they don’t take his opinions or wants or needs into consideration. they’re very much “i know you better than you know yourself because i birthed/raised you.” 

When Logan got into collage (on a full scholarship, of course) it took a lot of convincing for his parents to let him go all the way across the country, but this school has one of the best teaching programs in the country, so that helped his case. 

Everything was fine until Logan started sharing a house with five other people. that was when he was “corrupted” (aka shown that he didn’t have to live exactly how his parents wanted him to). When Logan agreed to be a stage manager on one of Roman’s shows, they kinda lost it. It wasn’t what “they” had “agreed” on and it was unacceptable behavior. this is really what put Logan at odds with his family. they pressured him to transfer schools, and he eventually gave in and agreed. He couldn’t just tell them to shove it because he couldn’t risk them disowning him and leaving his little brother, Julian, at their expense. 

Logan’s housemates did not take kindly to the situation and worked very hard to figure out a way to help Logan stay. He told them about his aunt that he barely knew at the time, who was more than happy to meet them all and get to know her nephew more (she was never allowed in his life before then). when she found out what was going on, she promptly yelled at her sister and brother-in-law and made them agree to let Logan stay for the rest of the year. 

Summer came, Roman and Logan were officially a couple, and Logan’s parents wanted him to come home. He promised them a month, basically, and went there more out of obligation than anything else. During that trip he convinced them to let him finish out his bachelors degree at his current school and he was able to go back home to his boyfriend and housemates (friends. they’re friends). 

He’s hardly spoken to either of his parents since then, aside from short and careful conversations. He’s very fond of his aunt now, and he was (in the background) in the process of trying to get Julian into either his or his aunt’s custody. 

the how and why his parents basically kidnapped him is what you’ll have to stay tuned to find out 

-Specs 

I want looooooooooooo😭

Admin: Sorry I haven't done anything for Logans birthday. This election has me stressed out and I had a nine hour shift at work today and tomorrow. We'll do something Thursday when I'm off.

-Specs