Hiii! I Know I Know I’ve Been Missing. It’s Just That My College Career Is Quite Demanding. This

hey, dear. i would like to enjoy your free reading.

as a child, i considered myself spontaneous and outgoing. however, after certain events, i became the opposite, much more shy (sorry, english is not my first language).

what triggered this change and what do i still need to work on?

my initials are 'efa', i'm 19 years old, aries rising in the house one.

What triggered this change in EFA and what do they still need to work on?

When I did your spread, it caught my attention that everything started with a major arcana (judgment in reversed), which in my opinion is so blocked that it did not catch my attention, i don’t know how to explain it but the card was so… cloudy? Then when I was drawing the last card, another major arcana came out (the emperor); where he was sitting in control and relaxed. The energy of him was so strong that I could not focus on the other cards lmao.

The root of your problem is that you have a huge block on your own introspection. It really clouded my judgment, I can't imagine how hard it must be for you. But as I was saying, you are being so hard on yourself. Like an excessive anguish for the sake of not relying on others again. Maybe in that experience that marked you you were judged excessively to the point that you internalized it too. You were judged by emotionally unstable people, I can feel the heaviness of them from here. I think they drove you to hold back and put out that fire and spontaneity you had, maybe to fit in? No man, I better stop because I'm getting angry at them channeling this (ugh, I'm so sorry that happened to you). What's blocking your return to your spontaneous and outgoing self is your struggle to be clear about cultivating your emotions. To be a more compassionate and big-hearted person. You may overanalyze social situations from a place of emotional sensitivity (which is understandable), but in doing so you extinguish your flame. The negative criticisms and the attempt to turn off your flame was in vain, you have the queen of cups come out and she talks about learning to cultivate what you already have. It is interesting how after all this done to you, you still got the queen of all the suit of cups. This gives me to understand that you don't need to make a radical change lol, you just need to re-cultivate daily routines in order to reconnect with this side of you that went dormant. You must let it flow naturally again. An effective way to make it flow naturally again is to take control of what you allow and what you don't allow. You must develop a solid foundation of self-confidence. Because once you do is when you can be your spontaneous and outgoing self. Avoiding and not being direct is not setting boundaries, EFA. The last letter made me dizzy! lmao your boundaries are confusing. Or maybe this situation that happened to you was deeper than I can imagine. But since it's a free game let's not get off track. Anyway, as I was saying: you should practice saying no, you should trust your intuition more about which people give you a bad feeling and which others do not. In particular, let go of that excessive judgment that you carry in you for not being the same person you were before. Others made you pay for it, don't do it yourself. You are free of it when you decide not to do it to yourself. Don't please anyone. Become like the emperor, sitting in your chair, in control, direct and unafraid to look straight ahead with your head held high. I recommend the sandwich technique, oh and this video to create boundaries is very good. Start at your own pace and remember that you are not selfish in setting boundaries, it is simply self-care.

ANONYMOUS PARTICIPANTS

I'm going to skip over the anonymous participants who did not clarify who they were on direct messages.

One participant submitted their alias anonymously, but there are several direct messages from others where they just say they submitted their question anonymously without telling me WHO they are. So... I don’t know who's who.

at this rate I will be answering an ask per day, I know. but i was the one that wanted to use a 3 cards spread while being a certified yapper deep in my blood 😫

Thank you for the reading! Here is feedback ❤️

You said the same things that other readers have said, especially with them being established and me figuring myself out!

I can’t provide much more since it hasn’t happened yet, but I do hope that it comes true!

I’m curious to know if/how you interpret time with your readings from the cards.

Thank you again dear! I adore your blog.

Timing in tarot

Timing in tarot can be interpreted based on the nature of the question. In your case, when it comes to your future spouse, the cards suggest that they'll already be financially stable when you meet them. If they are currently a student, it’s unlikely that they’ll be fully stable yet—unless they come from a wealthy family, which would also be reflected in the cards. So, it’s more likely that when you meet your future spouse, they'll be already be working in a field. To pinpoint a more specific timeframe, I look at the key symbols in the cards. For example, wands are associated with fast movement and action, like the 8 of Wands, while pentacles represent slower, steady progress. (I’m using only minor arcanas as an example). It’s all about seeing which cards repeat and what they reveal about the timing of events. Finding a pattern and connecting it. Biddy Tarot has some great info (you can check it out here) regarding this:

“Wands – Days or Spring

Swords – Weeks or Autumn

Cups – Months or Summer

Pentacles – Years or Winter

For the Pip Cards (i.e. those numbered Ace to Ten), simply combine the suit and the number of the card. For example, the Five of Wands indicates five days or, more broadly, Spring. For the Court Cards, the timing of the event may depend on another person, however you can still gauge an approximate indication of time using the suits.” 

To conclude, you need to know the basic meaning of the 78 tarot cards (including major and minor arcanas) before jumping into this. An 8 of wands is very different from a 5 of wands. The context of their meaning can help you better understand the time frame of what you want to know. That is why I believe that interpreting time requires a basic level of tarot knowledge. Hope this helps!

hey, I'm here for the game. Already rebbloged and followed, my initial is M and i'm 24

Who has a big crush on me?

Thank you!! 💙🧜‍♀️🐬

Who has a big crush on M?

10 of wands rx, ace of wands

The person who has a big crush on you is someone who’s recently let go of a lot of mental blocks that held them back before; their shyness is one. They feel a strong attraction to you, but it’s not just about physical chemistry—they also want something more stable and meaningful. However, they’re struggling with their timidity and not expressing their feelings openly yet, even though they’ve definitely been watching you closely, maybe through social media or in casual interactions. They are trying to secretly get intel about you. This is likely someone in your everyday life, quietly admiring you from a distance while trying to figure out how to approach you.

heyyy, for the feedback: I'm curious about this person, seems like a interesting one. Based on the reading the are a hardworker, dedicated to me and has a lot of passion for sure

Thank you for the reading 💙

Heyyy! I’m glad you liked the reading 💙 Wishing you the best with this connection haha—hope it all goes well. And thank you lots for the feedback!

roberto cavalli spring 2004

Hello dear friends! ❤🤍🖤💚

🍉I am Mahmoud Ayyad, a Palestinian from the besieged and destroyed Gaza 😭😭, coming from an extended family of young children, women and elderly people ❤❤ who have been suffering😭😭 for 300 difficult days from an aggressive war.

Our lives are harsh because we lack all the basic necessities of life. Everything has become scarce and unattainable. There is no food, no water, no medicine.

So, I ask you to help me keep my family safe and alive, especially after we had lost all our sources of livelihood.Please do not leave my family to struggle and suffer these difficult days alone. You can support my campaign by donating whatever you can or by sharing my posts to reach others who can help us survive the war to safety and peace. You are helping the lives of many people with your small contribution. Every donation makes a difference in our very difficult lives. But this is a legitimate campaign and has been checked by 90-ghost.

https://gofund.me/31c5cbe3

🚩This is Mahmoud Ayyad: @mahmoudayyads // vetted by 90-ghost // donate // €9,375/€55,000

Hi! I’d love to participate in your game please ❤️

My initials are MB and I’m in my 20s.

My question is what is my FS like/our story?

Thank you 🌹

What is MB's future spouse like/their story?

10 of cups rx, the world

You'll meet them during a phase of self development. When you are figuring yourself out. When you're not actively looking for love, but instead you're working on yourself first. Maybe you'll be focused on following your career and out of nowhere you'll meet them. Your future spouse is a very resilient person. Grounded but cautious. They may have a strong exterior but they’ll make you feel calm and secure. I dare say they will be very successful or established when you meet them. They have a lot of integrity and will be good at their craft (whatever it is they decide to dedicate their lives to), but they can struggle with taking risks. Someone who weighs options heavily because they want to make sure it aligns with their long-term goals. They'll come across as quite passionate and determined. They'll take things slowly with you and be very committed.

my first favorite hobby is yapping. second is being extremely quiet and not talking ever at all ever.