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hello! im here for the tarot game!

FMH

18

cancer rising

aries mc 4°

question: why am i struggling to score in my exams despite my efforts?

why is FMH struggling to score in their exams despite their efforts?

Your main obstacle is that you lack clarity about your ability to organize yourself well. Being strategic is your Achilles heel. There is a disconnect between your actions and intentions. To the point that it makes you feel like you are carrying the weight of the world because of this. Try not to be too encompassing and too unorganized. You need to plan better in the long term. There is energy you are wasting specifically because of the external expectations you have placed on yourself. They are not even your own expectations. You may even feel constantly evaluated because of that. Wanting to impress others before yourself, and it leads you to want to be all encompassing and not have a more structured plan of what you should be doing and what you should be working on. And then: Bam! You're left with that weight of the world on top of you. The reality is that this is not something that you value internally. You value the expectations of others so much that you haven't taken the time to know what you really value. Your method of study is quite unique and non-traditional, and you are stifling and suppressing it in a rigid method. The best approach you can have right now is one where you are not so rigid. You're not doing things for the love of it, or what you learn. You're doing it so rigidly trying to meet the expectations of others that it rightly makes you feel unhappy, stuck, and even causes you to procrastinate. You should look for a more flexible approach, something personalized to you that will help you reconnect with that inner motivation that will make you feel more creative and motivated to get things done. 

In other words: Stop fighting your nature (in this case, your study style) and work with it. I also recommend using the "Emotional Anchoring" method. If your exams left you stressed out it is a technique that connects you emotionally and gives you motivation in your studies. You can check it here!

https://www.tumblr.com/clairdelunetarot/766736001566654464/hi-im-pp-18-pisces-rising-i-have-no-placements

tysm for the reading! it was honestly so so on point.. i am def v guarded and that is a result of my past experiences. me having feelings for someone was something that was a very innocent and hopeful thing that now just makes me sad. i worry about letting someone close to me out of fear but i am also never approached romantically so it just keeps me in this bubble. i also have quite high standards after those experiences!! and i am definitely going to bring them down loll. thank u so much for the kind words and guidance 🫶🫶

thanks for sharing your thoughts! ❣️ i am so happy it resonated with you, yay! 🥳 and i get it. it is understandable to feel guarded after what you’ve been through but remember: it’s not your standards that need adjusting—it's those walls. you gotta reconnect with that inner child again. high standards are a reflection of your self worth. if you are never approach romantically don’t let that take a toll on your ego at all. don't think that's a reflection of your worth. i'm often told that i'm conventionally attractive, but do i get approached by many people? not a single one. just stares LMAO. the number of people (men in my case) who pull the classic "i don't want anything serious rn" while wanting to act like a couple or "let's get to know each other first" while having you to the side is immeasurable this days. so DO NOT lower them please. since I raised my standards a few years ago, the same thing happens to me. the minute you lower them men come to you like flies.

true & honest love is haaaard to come by. I've come to enjoy my own company a lot; it's not something that bothers me at all haha. the moment i started to enjoy my solitude i haven’t been able to look back. personally, I know my own qualities and what I bring to a relationship, as well as what I’m looking for. relationships take time and energy, so I’m very selective about who I share that with. It’s not about lowering your standards, but about being intentional with who you let in. after so many bad experiences i am not going to waste my life on connections that don't add up for me, really. anyways take your time and trust that the right person will match you!

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Thank you so much! You hit the nail on the head with the creative part. When I opened this blog, I spent quite a while thinking about how I was going to decorate it, what readings I was going to do. In fact, I think I had the first one halfway done before I even opened the blog. I put a lot of effort and screen time into it.

I think that’s what made this bother me a bit more. I still have a lot to polish and improve, and even though I haven’t been very active since November, I hope I can continue and get better at it. The combination of feeling burnout from personal matters and then finding out about that was just bad timing. I really considered deleting this blog because of this. But these little messages have encouraged me a lot. I might actually leave this account as it is and not be too brash about it, lol 🫶🏽💛

Addressing an Ongoing Issue Before My Return

I have noticed strong similarities between my content and this person's ever since I created my blog, and just a few days later, this person @/hermetiqa changed the aesthetic of theirs. I know i am a small blog with less than 400 followers and i disappear a lot. I have had sad experiences with plagiarism before, people have stolen my work (tarot and non tarot), and even if this isn’t exactly that, it’s really frustrating when someone with a bigger blog starts taking a lot of inspiration from you, never acknowledges it, you block them, and even after being blocked, they come back and keep doing it.

There’s no problem with being inspired, the issue is the context and how often it happens. Especially because this person changed their aesthetic after I opened my blog, along with their masterlist. I only found out now that they kept going because some friends outside my tarot blog told me. My last post was in November and guess what? So was theirs. I don’t know them, and they don’t know me. But the vibe here for me stinks bad. There’s also one thought that crossed my mind, even if it sounds silly: their blog has been around longer than mine, so what if I come back and they do it again? I won't feel comfortable because they made it weird. They could have said: oh and this masterlist was inspired by clairdelune. Like, they have paid readings, and are gaining money out of people. If you are having a business at least be transparent and support newcomers with their small business too when there's something you like or something you take inspo from.

PSA: I don't want anyone to give me advice on how to proceed, I just want to vent about this and not feel like I'm crazy. Even if it doesn't seem like it, this takes A LOT of time and days. Making tarot readings for a lot of public is draining because of the energies, and then decorating and coming up with something to make it look attractive is also draining. It's not a crime to get inspired, but the way this person has handled it has made me angry and feel a very bad energy around it.

For context this was their blog before:

It was simple, cute, straight to the point with three pictures. When you went down to read your pile, no section of "signs" with mbti or astrological placements where there. I love mbti, i checked their readings superficially and never noticed them referencing them. Here, you can see it for yourself:

then here's where it all started for me. This is what their masterlist looked like before:

Now this is what it looked like after taking inspiration from me and not even changing the roman numbers. Just changing small details but the essence is there. That's the difference with inspo and copy. You can take inspo from someone but the essence is going to be yours. If they did not change a few little tiny things, this would be confused with mine.

After this I blocked them. My thought process was: If they are a big blog and can do this with no one raising their eyebrows, It's safe to say they could even take inspo from my pictures and even readings. I don't know them, I don't know if this could be a one time thing or something that can continue, or worse: something that can enter plagiarism. I was hoping this would be enough for them to never see my blog again. But no. It kept going. At least they haven't copied what i write as I am aware.

Now, this can get tricky because unlike plagiarism, this is more inspiration based. Which is not a crime, but again, this being done heavily, with no acknowledgement whatsoever because i am a lesser known blog and after getting blocked? Not so nice and too much to be coincidence. Check the dates.

Same months, and this one took two weeks because before that, they posted another reading in between. I mean, putting floating png objects is not a trademark. But after I blocked them for what they did with my masterlist it pissed me off. Right now, them gaining more interactions with their post after this and with no acknowledgement is what did not sit well with me. It is hard to be a new blog in the tarot community and opening a ton of ask games for people to then unfollow you when they get their energy and reading from you and never interact with your blog again. Specially when this was a chance for you to get some money for college. But then again, seeing the strong similarities gets tricky, but you can see the inspiration.

Mine:

Theirs:

They never posted that section before. You can see it in their readings before, right? So when I started posting it too, guess what? they did it too. You know, it doesn’t feel fair that even after blocking them so they would leave me alone and find someone else to get inspired by, they still have this recurrent thing with me and might keep doing it with anything new I come up with. Because i stopped posting readings, the last reading I posted was the same theme (romantic partner) and with strong similarities as mine. I have not posted ever since. The one before that for me was future spouse related and theirs too. You know what's crazy? Mine got a lot of trouble and issues with the aesthetic I had to pull it down. This person's energy is so down heavy it made me put down my reading.

This can be called speculation, but we are in a spiritual community and I believe this could not be a coincidence and their energy towards me is not a good one. You can check the date. All in november. This is also a warning for other tarot readers, if you are sensitive like me with people's vibes, beware when opening a tarot blog.

They don't just do it with one thing and move on, they keep doing it with several things even after not being well received by my end, and it becomes annoying and it literally made me put my own post down.

I just want to leave this here before closing this blog and moving on, because honestly this hasn't been my year and I know it’s just starting, but little things like this don't give me a good vibe to keep running such an open blog to any audience. The energy is so draining and I want to do impulsive things like deleting my posts. Because I start thinking back to times where people straight up stole my work or envied it and posted it as theirs and I don't want that happening again.

Again, please, be mindful with your comments. If you have something rude to say, keep it.

A CINDERELLA STORY (2004) dir. Mark Rosman

Hi! I’d love to participate in your game please ❤️

My initials are MB and I’m in my 20s.

My question is what is my FS like/our story?

Thank you 🌹

What is MB's future spouse like/their story?

10 of cups rx, the world

You'll meet them during a phase of self development. When you are figuring yourself out. When you're not actively looking for love, but instead you're working on yourself first. Maybe you'll be focused on following your career and out of nowhere you'll meet them. Your future spouse is a very resilient person. Grounded but cautious. They may have a strong exterior but they’ll make you feel calm and secure. I dare say they will be very successful or established when you meet them. They have a lot of integrity and will be good at their craft (whatever it is they decide to dedicate their lives to), but they can struggle with taking risks. Someone who weighs options heavily because they want to make sure it aligns with their long-term goals. They'll come across as quite passionate and determined. They'll take things slowly with you and be very committed.

Next PAC

For the people who were not able to participate, I will be taking the repeated questions that were sent to me to do my next pac readings based on them. Here are 6 possible themes for the readings, but only the 2 most voted will be the future readings on this blog! 

hii! i'm mimi she/her! could i pls have a tarot reading from u on who my first/ future girlfriend is? just like anything about her, when we may meet or how our relationship may be. i have never dated anyone before for context but i have had crushes and heartbreak and things never seem to really go my way romantically.. so i'm really just wanting smth to look forward to :3 tysm in advance 🫶

Mimi's future girlfriend

4 of cups rx (the sun), 8 of swords

Maybe you are one of those people who get stuck emotionally, because your future girlfriend will give you that push to get out of that state. She’ll have a bright, uplifting energy that will help you feel free. Like telling you to go for it when you are overthinking it too much. But she’ll also have her own control issues. Like you two may disagree on power dynamics (e.g., possessiveness, jealousy) and/or practical difficulties (she may take over travel/date trips and make you feel controlled), but she will make up for it by being emotionally in tune with you. She’ll be mature and supportive, but also expect you to deal with the insecurities mentioned above haha. She’ll challenge and ground you.

Hi, how are you? ♡

My initials are EL and I'm 19 years old, Leo ♌️

• How can I improve my skills to connect with new people and build genuine relationships? Please.

How can EL improve their skills to connect with new people and build genuine relationships? 

In your current situation your only problem is that you are very misaligned, specifically you give more than you receive. You try too hard to "give" in your relationships disregarding your own needs and values. You need to change that focus: What do you value most in a connection? That they are honest with you? That they have integrity and don't bend their will? For example: That they are honest people or do you value people who connect with spirituality? What we value is not carved in stone—it changes. But it is important for you to know what your core values are. It is also important for you to know what your needs are and whether the connections you have align with them. A simple "I feel..." or "I need..." makes a big difference. Let’s say you value “supportiveness” in friends and when you have an important event you want them to be there for you or even show up (if their calendar isn’t full that day). Like a friend that couldn’t make it to you receiving an achievement and finds a way to “attend” during their lunch break by watching the livestream and leaving comments. Communicating an "I need you to support me in this, because I don't feel valued" or “I need you to support me on this, because I value ‘supportiveness’ (your core value) a lot” will cause you to stop being the only person in charge of giving more than you receive. If others don't listen to your needs despite communicating them or don't align with your values (or both because everything is interchangeable!), you need to let them go. 

If you want to improve your ability to connect with new people and build genuine relationships, your main obstacle is in finding a balance between letting things go and starting over. You experience anxiety in doing so. It's like a fear of the unknown. You may overthink how to approach people, afraid of being taken advantage of again. You have so much to give, but you don't receive what you are looking for, what fulfills you emotionally and makes you feel valued. You end up in a state of discouragement, perhaps even anguish to see the circumstances in a more optimistic way and without fear—of starting over. The best thing you can do is to realize that the happiness and emotional satisfaction you seek in your connections was simply misguided. You need to improve on three things: one, balance how much you give and how much you receive; two, let go of the bad experiences you had by being more optimistic, cutting off the ones that are currently not working for you and letting go of discouragement; three, rethink your focus, communicate your values and needs and prioritize yourself. First you must know that the emotional connections you form with others are not your only way to make you feel full and complete, you have so much love to give and to spare—you can fill yourself without any problem. Don't expect others to fill your cup when you can do it too, and never betray yourself (your values and your needs) to connect with people. You will never lose by prioritizing yourself. 

After so many years, i've come to you with a new pac! This one was chosen through a poll last year. In this pack, we’ll explore what your person of interest thinks about you. It doesn’t apply to family, friends, etc.

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DISCLAIMER: This is a general reading so take only what resonates.

PILE ONE

Energy check to see if this reading is meant for you:

If you’ve been intuiting things that you can’t quite confirm, but there’s a voice in your head telling you it is true. It also applies if you’ve had difficulty letting go of this connection, or if you’ve suddenly felt a disconnection or blockage with this person.

What do they think of you?

In short, when they think of you, they think of a missed opportunity. As if things didn’t play out in their favor. There was a good opportunity for something beautiful, that simply couldn’t happen because of external reasons. It’s possible that there was bad timing. This person left me with a feeling of resignation in the air. Maybe you felt capable of offering something reciprocal and even committing, but apparently it was only on your part. This person didn’t know how to give back to you in the right way, and that resignation I mentioned earlier comes filled with passivity on their end. This person seems like they didn’t have the will to fight for the connection the way they should have.

Signs: This person seems like someone who rationalizes a lot before acting, so it made me think of Libra and Aquarius. They tend to emotional protection and stay silent when they feel they’re losing control. A troubled Moon in Scorpio or Virgo. Oh, and they have a hard time closing chapters. It makes me think of a Moon or Venus in fixed signs: Taurus or Scorpio. I’d put Leo but there’s too much passivity on their end.

PILE TWO

Energy check to see if this reading is meant for you:

This reading applies to people who, after experiencing this connection, have become more grounded. If you have worked on setting healthy boundaries and are now approaching the situation more mature.

What do they think of you:

This person feels both clarity and shame. They’ve realized they didn’t act in the best way with you. They may have acted evasively, lied to you, or been very dishonest. That’s where the shame comes from. Even regret. They know they played a role in making things between you unstable or even difficult. They wish things had been different with you. But that shame is camouflaged in denial and doesn’t let them fully process that clarity. They’re not ready to face it openly and have a hard time being completely honest with themselves to know how to fix it.

Signs: Definitely Virgo or Capricorn badly aspected in their birth chart because of fear of not being enough. Pisces and Cancer in sun or mercury, or even Venus. Some air in there, because of the tendency to overthink. Definitely no fire in their chart due to the lack of initiative, and if there is, it must be very weak lmao.

PILE THREE

Energy check to see if this reading is meant for you:

If you felt that this person at first showed interest but then their actions weren’t consistent over time and you noticed them as empty or even manipulative, this pile is for you. It also applies if you’ve noticed that this person isn’t as honest or self confident as they seem. If you’ve picked up on insecurity, immaturity, etc. If you’ve recently snapped out of the confusion they left you in and now feel more disappointment than anything over how they treated you.

What do they think of you:

This person knows things didn’t end well: they’re fully aware of it. Maybe it was pride, misunderstandings, or even a clash of temperaments. Whatever the case, it left you both distant. They won’t say it, but they know they lost a chance with you because deep down, they admire you. It’s a bit complicated to explain, but they admire how strong, reserved, or even hard to read you are. Maybe they’re one of those masochists who feel a weird admiration when someone finally sets a strong, clear boundary and slams the door on them when they’re not used to it lmao. To this person, you were important or even different from the rest, and they think you’re the one who came out better from this situation.

Signs: There’s an internal struggle to keep the peace, but not as strong as Libra’s diplomacy, sounds like Sagittarius to me. Very weakened Sagittarius with some 12th house placements. They might have some Scorpio. But since there’s so much avoidance, most likely they have Pisces or Cancer (or both), misaligned/weakened. There are chances they have a Mars in Libra or something Libra-related in there. Venus in Aquarius sounds very fitting to me.