still thinking about that post that was like. actually some characters have SELF CONFIDENCE and should be written as such not as little crybabies who doubt themselves… as though love and want are not fundamentally and wonderfully destabilizing forces… as though a story about someone finding themselves suddenly unsure, doubting, wracked with insecurity, is not what a story about love is… as though no one who projects confidence could ever have any kind of underlying complexity that might be revealed laid bare or changed by encountering another person!!