i DO NOT care if you share the same s/o as me. its another reality. a completely different one than mine. there are literally infinite realities where i am with him and infinite realities where i am not.
im not with him in this reality so i dont care in this reality. im not even with him yet officially in my dr, i dont care (slow burn)
but if you care- cool! thats sweet, shows ur love. if you get mad at others for having the same s/o as u? weird. just block them. dont get mad at them.