gee whiz I sure am glad for the keith show part 4
I saw a post about “Please stop hitting on women while they’re at work” and I 100% agree with it, which is why I’m making a separate post to say please don’t hit on people in general when they’re at work.
I work at a bakery and we have this sweet 16 about to turn 17 year old boy who works up front of our store. He used to work at the place next door to us and, while he was there, a girl he was working with developed a bit of a crush on him and asked him out.
He said no, that he has a girlfriend (which she already knew) and thought they could just continue on being friends and coworkers.
Since beginning work at our bakery she stops in every single day and talks to him for the entirety of her 30 minute long break. He has told her multiple times that he’s at work and can’t stand around and talk and when I asked him if he was uncomfortable his response was a very relieved “Oh, God, yes.”
He’s tried to talk to one of the owners about it and his response was “You can talk to her after work” not realizing this poor boy is being made incredibly uncomfortable on a daily basis in the work place.
When we told him he could come into the back to find something to do if he needed to he was so incredibly thankful and relieved. This girl spent twenty minutes standing up front waiting for him to come back after he said he had to go do something. Twenty minutes in the front of the store ever after being told he can’t talk to her. He doesn’t know what would happen if he says that he doesn’t want to talk to her and is genuinely nervous every time she walks in.
The only reprieve he gets is from the bakers in the back saying “I get it. Come back here” because the Owners don’t understand that he, a male coworker, can be made uncomfortable by these unwanted advancements being made toward him.
Please.
This post isn’t made to undersell not hitting on women while they’re at work. I get that and that’s why this separate post exists.
Please.
Don’t hit on people when they’re at work.
Don’t hit on people when they can’t tell you no.
me when offered soda: yes. love the bübblés me when offered water: yes! a fresh and sexy beverage me when offered sparkling water: Why Are You Trying To Murder Me Under The Guise Of Hospitality
say it with me
liking a character ≠ condoning their actions
understanding a character ≠ condoning their actions
relating to a character ≠ condoning their actions
never assume that only because someone likes/understands/relates to a character that they see this character as “perfect” and don’t recognise their flaws
If I don’t say “I’m gay” at least once a day Elton John will come to my house and confiscate my Gay Card
treat me with respect (the way i treat you), and we both enjoy each other’s company and value each other’s friendship
👏everyone👏 always 👏forgets 👏coran 👏and 👏that 👏is 👏not 👏okay👏
So if you followed my old blog: @oh-no-not-another-fandom, I won't be using it anymore. I loved my old blog to pieces, but it's so disorganized and chaotic. And I want things to be more in order and such and easier for me to find, so I made a new blog, along with some other side blogs. But I'll only give those out if you really want them or decide to let you in on the details. Enjoy my shit-posting!
chat ima need yall to imagine somone
imagine a person, androgynous looking but if you had to choose, assuming youre thinking heteronormatively), see them as a guy and masculine
theyre black (very important when it comes to choosing my name tbh), nonbinary agender, usually has their afro (thats dyed blonde) out, will probably lock their hair soon
but they also love femininity, still dress feminine, and refers to themselves using the term “femboy”
whagt name do you vibe with for said person? thinking abt changing it bc my cousin makes fun of my current one a lot and my brother kinda makes fun of it
also, if you comment your own it needs to start with the letter s!! i dont want my initials to change lol
current preference is sage and soren tied for first and silas is in last place
somewhat nsft,
but YALL IM ALREADY HAVING BOTTOM GROWTH OMG
dude i cannot wait till i pass
i cannot wait till i look more masc and androgynous
i cannot wait till i look like how i want
i keep getting recommended posts by transfems and their journey and them passing im so jealous and happy for them theyre so happy they pass so well theyre so pretty i cant WAIT FOR THAT ERA OF MY TRANSITION WHERE I JUST AM SO PROUD AND OUT AND HAPPY AND POSTING ABOUT IT
GUYS MY THERAPIST THINKS IM FUNNY IM WINNING LIFE
THEY EVEN SAIDTHAY I SHOULD GET MY OWN SITCOM BC I MAKE RHEM LAUHH SO MUCH
i invited this guy i was talking to, (who im sure fetishizes trans men since he said how hed prefer me not to start hrt or get top surgery BUT wanted me to get bottom bc he likes futas LMAO) ,
to this viking roleplay minecraft server i was apart of
the issue?
you have to make a character to be able to join the r and play on it
mind you, ive been roleplaying since i was 9
i offered to help make his character
he.
decided to use chat gpt.
to make it.
yeahh after that i didnt really wanna talk to him anymore…
it also didnt help that he BARELY txted me back
yall i finally deleted twitter 🙏❤️
im healing
yall so.. i actually started hrt 2 weeks ago (this week thursday will be my 3rd injection!) and i didnt make a post bc my dumbass got too lazy to buy (also poor) the trans flag to put up so i just printed out a picture and taped it on my wall LMAO
im gonna buy it soon yall!! along with the trans icon blåhaj :3
ALSO ITS FREE!!! BC MY INSURANCE IN NYS LEGALLY HAS TO INSURE ALL GENDER REAFFIRMING CARE SO ID ONLY END UP PAYING FOR THE NEEDLES IF ANYTHING
also picture of the pretty girl since yall haven’t seen her in a bit
day i start hrt is the day i will hang up my trans flag yall, just need to buy it first :3 🙏
IWANNASTART HRT NOW PLEASEEE PLEASEHWBBA PLEASEEEE WHY IS THE APPT FOR 4/10 IMGOJNA CEY PLEWSE PELASW
the gods must hate me today bc not only did i eat shit and fall running up a hill,
but i also need to recollect literally all of my items for my batch at work because my cart somehow disa-fucking-ppeared
im upset and about to cry
oops forgot to update
im blonde now yall!!
+face reveal
my room lighting makes it look golden i PROMISE ITS LIGHTER IT DOES NEED TO BE LIFTED AGAIN THO LOL
me and my cousin were joking around (one who knows im trans, btw)
we both decided to eat cereal at 11p. i had frosted flakes and shes having fruity pebbles
we’re both queer so i called her a fruity faggot just like her cereal (as one does)
and she said that i needed the cereal
and whenever we do jokes like this, you would claim to not be apart of a minority while you’re obviously apart of it (jokes goes: claim the other is a minority they’re apart and they deny it)
so i of course did the usual spiel of denying being queer and tried to say “im a straight woman” but i just…. couldnt.
yall i couldnt even jokingly lie about being cisgender 😭
i also stopped using ftm to describe myself. i kinda feel weird using that term for myself. i dont wanna refer to my previous identity to acknowledge my current one. no shame to others who do, though!
im currently at the point of my transition where im happy and proud to be me
but i wish i physically matched who i wanted to be
i love my box braids and protective hairstyles in general, but i wish i could dye my hair and wear it naturally to help me look more masculine
i wish for nothing more than to finally start hrt (appointment with callen-horde on 4/10!)
i feel nothing towards my breasts. theyre just.. there. i dont feel sad or angry seeing them but they dont feel like me. like they shouldnt be there. but binding tape makes my cheat itchy and uncomfortable.
i just wished that people looked at me and went, “thats a guy”
hey yall im back LMAO
updates:
i finally dropped my racist toxic and somewhat transphobic ex best friend (will make a post about it)
visited my great grandma (will also make a post about it)
best way i describe my gender now is preferably no gender (agender) but if i had to choose, man and nonbinary (demiboy). basically meaning my dress/appear masculine/androgynous while my preferred pronouns are they/them and he/him. still genderfaun tho, my main gender just tends to be agender