Hiiii!
My initials: N
My rising: Taurus
My age: 23
In sidereal, my venus is within 10 degrees of aries.
My question: What should I do to become financially independent? If my question isn't phrased quite right, please just give me any advice surrounding this area of my life.
Thank you so much💕💕
What should N do to become financially independent?
I see a strong desire for independence and an ability to want to take charge and control over your finances. You have a good starting place, but it's as if you're looking the other way, as if you feel the urge to do something else. Which doesn't quite align with your situation. You're not currently in a bad terrible place, I don't know why you're having this urge to look away. But I guess it's a case of "the grass is always greener on the other side". You want to do so much at once but you need to take a breath. It looks like cultural or family pressure is influencing your attitude right now. It affects you in such a way that you fail to discern opportunities and dare not follow your inner voice. That inner voice that is not anxiety, but a voice that makes you think "hmm, I wish I had done x thing if I had not been so hard on myself". You should free yourself from that external pressure, so you can connect better with yourself; only then you can take better advantage of the opportunities or advantages that come to you. Because in the meantime, you will not be able to take advantage of them in this state. It is not that you need to take a “how to be more independent” course, or listen to someone else’s advice (LMAO). You have the ability to do it yourself, N, which is the funniest thing! Your approach should stop being so pessimistic and ahead of the worst and be more clear minded. Don't be so self-critical. Take control of your anxieties, don't let them cultivate irrational fears about your financial independence. Try to be more flexible with yourself.