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No.
I have to stop treating myself like a never-ending self improvement project and start treating myself like a healing, learning, and growing human with feelings.
Yes, self improvement is okay. You should always want better for yourself. But, there is no reason to always feel like something is wrong and always needs fixing. At some point, you must learn to give yourself some form of grace and acceptance.
XOXO,
Reina
Addicted to chaos
Addicted to growing
Desk reveal???? ðŸ¤
I just know i was born to be a housewife, wife and priority for a rich, playful, gentle, patient, mature, serious man who works hard so we don’t have to worry about anything and so we have everything we need and want and i take care of most of the housework even tho he insists on helping me at least a lil sometimes, born to be a girl mum for two twin girls who look just like me but have their fathers eyes and he treats them with pure love like their his lil princesses and treats me like im his whole entire world and he can’t live without me, period.
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March 12, 2025
wow, it's the first Wednesday of my unemployed life. corporate burnout sounds silly. but i seriously feel strange without a corporate job. i feel this impending need to stay productive. my therapist and wife remind me this is a recovery period.
even so, i have enjoyed getting back into creative projects. my personal website is coming along. there is so much more that comes from launching a blog than i realized. email lists is my current headache. oh, and also the background color not matching on mobile...
how do i get this email to work? at least my initial page is up!
I am happy with my choices.
other things i am enjoying:
walking without feeling the urge to get back inside and check my work email
just watching my dog and how she navigates the world (a shame i hadn't paid more attention to it before)
moving my body more
not rushing during lunch
eating three meals a day
and not spending 8+ hours stuck at a desk
restarting the artist's way
so grateful and privileged to even be in a position where I can quit my job and take time to focus on my mental health.