I understand your confusion very much. I believe it was master Ginro's original idea that we should discover our "passion" for one another through attempting to court him.
sigh
That is, until the young miss decided to put... interesting ideas into his head.
Although I don't believe you will need any assistance in finding out what your heart desires. You are very vocal about it either way.
Someday, I'll have two people fighting for me, but don't intervene. Let them, because soon they'll find out they're actually in love with each other and I'd be in the background, crying, because I was secretly rooting for them and my otp finally came true.