do you ever forget there are people out there that genuinely believe they have the one and only solution to gender/sexuality and anyone who doesn’t see it that way is homophobic/transphobic despite the fact they themselves are pushing the same gender binary they claim to hate so much by separating men women and gender nonconformity into three distinct categories, essentially creating a traffic light system for how we should treat others based on one of the most insignificant aspect of themselves? because i did until this morning
i’m so tired of every single argument that revolves queerness or gender being so reliant on these heteronormative binaries that simply don’t make sense to apply to ourselves.