Motto Of The Avoidant Attatchment Style: I’ll Hurt You First Before You Hurt Me - Blog Posts

*cracks knuckles* the besties just being jayus serendipity247 doing this ugly and scared pretty random turtle thunks time to get feral in the tags again because I have something’s to SAY first things first *clears throat* words will never be adequate enough to accept my true feelings in this matter so please accept my humble keyboard smash heycbelxheudkchwuegfkcisvwmwifufiepbsgxnsvdhsjfhrvwidmchdushevwosichnrbsufndg But on a more serious note this was such a good and hard video to watch for school I’m studying human development and relationships and one big thing we talk about is the power of attachment styles You know you can actually tell which people have which attachment styles through the type of humor they use fun fact. But that’s besides the point. The point is Oneion is showing strong symptoms of Avoidant Attachment Style he says he’s trying to protect Sprout and Poptart which I 100% believe he is but he’s also trying to protect himself from hurt + heartbreak Motto of the Avoidant Attatchment Style: I’ll hurt you first before you hurt me Poptart over here leading out the charge and calling out Oneion for his unhealthy isolation is literally everything to me EVERYTHING BECAUSE THATS HOW YOU SECURE RELATIONSHIPS: THROUGH CONNECTION Doesn’t matter who you are nobody is ever meant to do it all by ourselves. We are PEOPLE AKA multiple for a reason. We need each other As someone who is been in recovery from unhealthy attachment styles for something + years this comic was very cathartic for me because Poptart and Oneion conversation is LITERALLY two of my brain cells at war with each every. single. day. It’s…exhausting So it meant the world to me to see closure like this because it kind of gave me hope for myself that hey maybe I can figure it out too hope it’s ok that like I got emotionally attached to y’all’s characters. But like…I can’t tell y’all how much I have healed being apart of the turtle family because y’all have taught me so much + I 🧡 U 4 it slau crossover 2al separated leo au