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“Always go too far, because that's where you'll find the truth.” — Albert Camus
(Some science of smiling, certainly not another "how to read (and fake) a smile" article)
“The “science of smiling” as such was initiated by Charles Darwin. He noticed that the cause, consequences and manifestations of smiling is universal whereas many other nonverbal of body language behaviors (like gestures or touch) differ between cultures and are therefore probably learnt. Babies born blind smile like sighted infants. We begin smiling at five weeks: babies learn that crying gets attention of adults but smiling keeps it.“
This may be the truth but why is it ugly? I think the industry is what it ought to be. Imagine 100 pages of a beauty and fashion magazine only showcase average-looking women like those random girls you see every day on your way to the office, would you be more interested in that *beauty and fashion* magazine? Some critic but they may forget humans have fantasy and are inspired by ideal selves. Every now and then we enjoy unrealistic things. The publishers just offer the mainstream what the mainstream want. Consumers have freedom of choice.
Some blame the industry for manipulating standards of beauty for women. This may be but "standards" change over time and lots of factors rather than just beauty and fashion industry contribute to forming such standards. Do you think with his proposed "ideal proportions" of human body (easily seen in the statue of Venus de Milo) Leonardo was also manipulating the standards of beauty for women?
motivation, from minecraft
whenever i struggle with self image, esteem, confidence, or identity, i like to read the minecraft end poem, written by julian gough. it really helps me feel better and motivate myself when i’m struggling with lack or fear. in general, it’s a beautiful poem as well (it makes me cry LOL). i’m not signing off on this one because it isn’t my work.
here is the excerpt i like the best,
i hope it will help you, too.
♡
“and the universe said ‘i love you’
and the universe said ‘you have played the game well’
and the universe said ‘everything you need is within you’
and the universe said ‘you are stronger than you know’
and the universe said ‘you are the daylight’
and the universe said ‘you are the night’
and the universe said ‘the darkness you fight is within you’
and the universe said ‘the light you seek is within you’
and the universe said ‘you are not alone’
and the universe said ‘you are not separate from every other thing’
and the universe said ‘you are the universe tasting itself, talking to itself, reading its own code’
and the universe said, ‘i love you because you are love.’”
Manifestation is so fast if you assume it is. Literally you can desire waking up with your dream life , so you are gonna assume you will then persist for literally 5 minutes and get to sabbath state (idk why does this even have a name ) so literally just being relaxed and knowing you have your desire and the 3d is gonna conform no matter matter what. Then you wake up with your dream life and thats all. Literally, so fast AND easy.
The most important thing in loa to understand is this:
CHANGE AND FULFILMENT IN SELF = CHANGE IN THE WORLD
In my opinion this is the only thing you need. Stop overcomplicating it and just try it.
⊹ 𖦹๋࣭ ⭑Persist persist persist persist persist persist persist persist, persistence!! 💭
︶︶ . ︶︶﹒︶︶୨ ꒰꒱ ୧︶︶﹒︶︶ ﹒ ︶︶
Your sp is chatting with another person ? Don't care they are obsessed with you
Your friend point out your weight and how weird (you're cute btw) your body is ? Don't care you have your desired body
Your parents are yelling at you for not having good grades ? Breath in and out and forget it you're extremely intelligent and have A+//100 everytime
Your hair are looking terrible ? No they don't you have your desired hair texture and they are flawless
You didn't woke up in the void/ you were not aware ? No you're delusional you're a literal void master and you were aware and you did in fact enter it
You never shift and you're frustrated about it everyday ? No you're not and you always shift you shift everyday
Your bullies told you you were ugly ? Don't care you're pretty and don't react it's their karma not yours bby
You don't have any clothes ? Yes you do look at your wardrobe
You're poor and money is the biggest issue of your life ? You're rich wdym
You hate your life aka old story ? Good because it's not your reality
In conclusion, DON'T CARE ABOUT THE 3D it's literally not your job to change it it's just the 3D being a absolute idiot the 4D is perfectly implying why are you not focusing on it ? If something is doing something better of course you're gonna focus on it so focus on the 4D not the 3D..
︶︶ . ︶︶﹒︶︶୨ ꒰꒱ ୧︶︶﹒︶︶ ﹒ ︶︶
Stop giving misinformation.
I'm so sick of people telling me I have to "take action" when it comes to manifesting. I don't mean, affirming or persisting but as in if you want clear skin, you should also do skin care as well as affirm. THAT IS NOT TRUE.
I have manifested clear skin multiple times without needing skin care products, so stop spreading this limiting belief. If you don't want to do anything, you don't have to, simple as. Remember, people have manifested their full dream life just by affirming, only do other things if you want to (including affirming.)
Manifesting should be fun. Not a chore.
there are 7.8 billion ppl on earth & YOU know the law. you are PRIVILEGED to know the law exists. you are privileged to know literally anything is possible & everything is controlled by you. so why are you acting like a victim instead of a GOD?
youre complaining like: “i cant do it🥺” “its too hard🥺” “my circumstances are in the way🥺” as if there arent ppl who manifested ppl coming back from the dead or millions of $ after being homeless.
stop complaining & crying bc its not possible that you dont get what you want. APPLY. CHANGE SELF.
why do you care sm about a mirror when you know who the power hidden behind the mirror belongs to?
take advantage of your knowledge on the law and give yourself the world. yes, it is possible. stop waiting on the mirror to change, stop allowing yourself to stay in a victim state, stop overconsuming and still not applying. everything starts with you so change self.
Remain in the State
This is a part of manifesting that I feel like many fail to emphasize or give importance to.
The many techniques coaches teach you and the methods that you see bloggers talk about are only grounding techniques to remind you that you already have what you want. The actual moment you receive your desires is when you actually, truly embody the state of you already living with your desires. It's when you have placed 10000% trust that it will all come and work out for you, because it already has.
We already have our dream life, babes!
Moving with love, dream4jk 🌼
Barbie:Dream life
Here is a guide to having confidence and creating your dream life, inspired by quotes from Barbie:
1. Life is not a competition: Don't compare yourself to others and don't try to be like them. Everyone has their own path to follow.
2. The magic happens when you believe in yourself: Trust in your abilities and believe in your potential. You are capable of accomplishing great things if you believe in it.
3. Anything is possible: Don't limit yourself by thinking that some dreams are impossible to achieve. If you really want to, you can accomplish anything.
4. Write your own story: Don't let others write your story. Take control of your life and write your own story. This will be your greatest achievement.
5. Live your dream: Don't let fears and doubts stop you from chasing your dreams. Live your life on your own terms and pursue your passions.
6. The most beautiful thing you can be is yourself: Be authentic and true to yourself. This is how you will feel most fulfilled and happy.
By following these tips inspired by Barbie quotes, you can build confidence in yourself and create the life of your dreams. Remember, the key is to believe in yourself and live on your own terms.
Robotic affirmation challenge
✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ
Someone requested a robotic affirmation challenge so here it is :).
Rules
No overconsumption during the challenge.
No checking the 3D. Period.
Mental diet, aka no affirming against your desires at all.
Don't focus on any resistance, don't try to argue with it or "fix it" just affirm.
The show must go on, affirm anyway.
✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ
Instructions
Choose two to three affirmations and loop them in your head. Bonus points for repeating them to the rhythm or melody of a song.
When you want to check the 3D you will either check a vision board or use visualise in place of checking the 3D. Use them for validation instead.
Instead of overconsuming LOA posts you may save four posts/videos/whatever's that help you maintain your mindset. Outside of that don't seek out advice. You know enough.
Duration is up to you but please don't stop after three days, set an end date and don't let anything come between you and affirming till that date is reached.
✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ
Schedule
✧ Wake up - affirm
✧ Middle of day - vaunt for five minutes
✧ Before bed - affirm
15 minutes to an hour, you can go longer but if all you can manage is 15 minutes that's ok.
✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ
Bonus points
In the shower
During chores
While making a vision board
While playing games
✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ
Info
How to robotic affirm
Robotic affirmations are affirmations that are repeated without feeling. It doesn't matter how you feel when you do them.
You can do other things while affirming you do not just have to sit there. Go throughout your routine, do chores, whatever you want.
How to vaunt
I like writing down vaunts in a journal like I'm writing in my diary.
Vaunting is just thinking as if you're bragging to someone about your desire.
Example:
Oh my god my hair is SO shiny. How did it even get that shiny? Wow my hair is probably the shiniest ever.
Other
Abdullah used to slam doors in Nevilles face saying "you are already in Barbados"
That's what I do to myself when I waver.
Nope. Already there. Too late you can't argue I walked away.
Things I do while affirming
🐚. Painting.
🐚. During shower.
🐚. Jogging.
🐚. Watching series.
🐚. Cooking.
🐚. Chores.
🐚. Rearranging room.
🐚. Scrolling through phone.
🐚. Gardening.
🐚. Meditation.
🐚. Making DIY items.
🐚. Listen subliminals.
🐚. Skin care routine.
🐚. Morning routine.
🐚. Make up therapy.
🐚. Playing games.
🐚. Mirror work.
🐚. Night routine.