So I wanted to set the record straight because this has been such a nightmare. A few days ago I reached out to tumblr user Ladynepthyss after seeing she had made a post about hot girl summer again. My intention wasn’t to be mean to her or rude to her, but to validate her feelings and her experiences, and talk to her about why people were upset.
Through our conversation she claimed that she wanted to learn, and as I result I sat there and educated her. It seemed like she actually was paying attention to what I was saying.
Since I attempted to be kind to her, I have been lied about and she has been stalking my blog, and not only that, has targeted other black bloggers.
I think what devastates me about this is that I saw her hurting, and as someone who’s been in her shoes, I extend my kindness to her, and she literally spit it in my face. That’s just honestly heart breaking. I’ve done nothing unkind or mean to her, yet she’s used this as an oppurtunity to attack my character.
It gets under my skin because I validated her and listented to her as a black woman, and as a result she has spread lies about me.
And if you are reading this Ophelia, I’m sorry that my kindness offended you. I’m sorry that me taking the steps to work with you and validate you have offended you. I’m sorry i ever tried to be kind to you.
I thought I did see myself in you, but I don’t stab people in the back.
That said, if you are coming here due to one of her various callouts:
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