Is there, like, an information fetish? I love knowing things about a person that they don’t know I know. My “boy” was friends with my best friend before I met him. Anything he told her I also know, especially the things that one would prefer the person they are trying to date not know. It’s just a very good feeling of “I know more about you than you think and you’d prefer. I have power of you.” I’ve also been pulling the strings on this relationship the entire time. He said “hey I’ll be at (skating rink) on Friday” but I was the one who told him via my friends phone that I’d be there. I have so much control.