Can I also point out how incredibly stressful it must be to work in an industry where a man can become obsessed with you and dedicate his time, energy, and resources to constantly bribing the media to publish negative stories about you? (whether through a third party like a PR team or directly) And often, it’s simply because you stood up for yourself or just bc you exist.
On top of that, imagine having to constantly read and hear hateful comments from people 24/7. And keep in mind, these are rich white women dealing with rich, privileged white men… but at the end of the day, they are still women navigating a misogynistic system and society that’s quick to believe anything without doing proper investigation or even waiting to hear what a judge or court has to say.
Idk, just some thoughts.
I think the situation around Blake is getting really disgusting. I just saw a tiktok of someone saying that that Blake had an affair with Justin while they were filming the movie.
I don't care about how you fell about Blake or Justin but we are talking about a sexual harassment case and even imply this is so gross and disrespectful for victmis.
And to make it all worse the video i saw was from a woman. A woman is using a disgusting sexist (victim blaming) argument against other woman.
Also both parts are married and have kids. If you are not gonne respect the marriage, respect the children.
One more thing about the Blake Lively case
A actors job goes beyond just filming the movie/series. When they are doing the interviews ro promote their projects they are working just like the interviewer and often times they don't know each other on a personal level.
Now i don't know if at the time when the interview was filmed Blake had publicly announced her pregnancy (because in 2016 i was 11 years old and didn't speak english).
So lets look at this situation: you are working, you met another woman who is also working but the first thing she says to you is "Congratulations on your little bump"
1- i believe this is unprofessional
2-She did not say "Congratulations on your pregnancy" she specifically commented on Blake's body (and all, famous and not famous woman, specially during the 2010's, is allowed to not like having her body talked about when they are at work)
3- Rebember when we're taught to not comment on a pregnant woman's body? Let's bring it back
Also why did she keep the video of "the interview that made her want to quit her job" for 8 years?
It amazes me how some people will look at the Blake Lively situation and be like "yeah what happened to her is awful and she is obviously a victim here" but then they see that JB used (to attack Balke) the same PR Firm that JD used on his abuse case and the same people will say "Yeah but Amber is totally the abuser. Did you not see the social media posts during the trial?"
It just shows to me that nothing of this is ever about suvivors and victims and at the end of the day misogyny always win