“wdym you didn’t find it funny when i, a complete stranger to you, made a joke about my intensive trauma? someone’s life must’ve been perfect if they can’t even laugh at an abusive dad joke. why didn’t you like my dead relative joke? ohhh your relative just died? well how was i supposed to know? other people aren’t responsible for your triggers, if i make a rape joke and you don’t like it that’s not my problem!”
you don’t have dark humour, you just need to book a therapy appointment.