james gay awakening: 6 yrs old, his best friend peter
james first crush: 12 yrs old, his quidditch captain frank
james first relationship: 16 yrs old, his classmate lily
james soulmate: 19 yrs old, his roommate sirius
peters gay awakening: 11 yrs, his friend sirius black
peters first crush: 13 yrs, his best friend james potter
peters first relationship: 18 yrs, his classmate sybil
James Potter was in love with Peter Pettigrew at least once in his life idc