to the fat trans men who feel like nobody will find them attractive because they're fat: i felt this way too at first but trust me when i say this that there are TONS of folks who love fat trans guys, myself included. while i love all trans guys, i love fat dudes. i love fat men. i love big hairy guys. big arms, big chests, big hips, big bellies, big legs... i want it all. when i was growing up and realizing that i was attracted to men, i always wondered why i was never very attracted to men with low body fat and high muscle content. it's because fat guys are hot as hell.
nobody is inherently unattractive because they're fat. for every person who claims to dislike the way fat people look, there are at least 10 others who will violently disagree. ignore EVERYONE who tells you that no one will find you attractive because you're fat. those people are the devil and they speak nothing but lies. fat trans men deserve to feel confident in how they look. fat trans men deserve to feel sexy if they want to. fat trans men deserve so much more than the world gives to us.