Enby - Blog Posts
Me: oh it’s trans visibility day today. nice
Also me a few hours later: *orders under my deadname at Starbucks*
So far this week I’ve had an hour and 20 minute phone conversation with one of my friends and an almost 40 minute in person conversation with another. The last one made me like an hour late getting home from school today. I mean, sure, they were decent conversations about dumb stuff, as one does. But if this is what having a social life is like, I want no part in it.
Guys, I think I came up with a new term (unless of course it’s already been invented):
Zombie Name:
When you continue to use your deadname because you haven’t decided on a new one yet. You also never correct anyone who uses it while referring to you, because there’s no correction to give.
people calling Loki “Friggason” and they/them makes me soft......
My TOH oc, Hail Rui!!!
I'm not okay. Took a mental health day to do my part and make some art about it. No matter the opposition, we won't be erased. A world without trans people has never existed, and it never will! 🏳️⚧️
May this piece be a small light in the darkness for those in need of comfort and hope. Feel free to share/re-post elsewhere if this resonates with you. Just please make sure you include the alt text!
brownie badge to anyone who can guess who this is! (hint: 🌿)
ive come to realize something about the way we think about ourselves. gender isnt a social construct. heres why:
it implies that if there was no society, there wouldnt be any gender but people who are isolated from society can still have a gender
if all it took to be a woman was to simply identify as a woman, a transmasc egg would be considered a woman
it kinda feeds into the gender = gender expression myth
people from ye olden days and from other cultures who have different words for being trans like hijra instead of enby wouldnt be that gender because its a different label
tying back to that first point, if you need society to have a gender, wouldnt that make it a choice?
i propose this: gender is a psychological connection to femmininity/masculinity/androgyny/etc. like zodiacs, youre stuck with it for life, but how it applies to you is different then how it applies to someone else with the same zodiac/gender. how you interpret it can be different. you can call a color teal or cyan or turquoise but that doesnt change what color it is. and even if youre really short, that doesnt stop you from wearing heels, like how being a man doesnt stop you from wearing a dress. to be a woman, you have a psychological connection to femininity. you can present masculine, but inside its still femme. same thing for feminine presenting men and feminine/masculine presenting enbies.
thanks for reading, have a great day :)
i forgot to post my pfp so here it is
its basically just me in my signature hoodie
you know when youre like “im not [agab] im enby!” and youre really proud of yourself for not questioning anymore but then youre like “wait what if im really just a [binary gender opposite to agab]” and youre questioning all over again
A new song I wrote
I wrote a song! it’s called Dysphoria. it goes like this:
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
This is my OC, Lupine ^^ i hope you like them :)
Gender gremlins 🏳️🌈
Gender gremlins 🏳️🌈
What they look like: They pretty much look like humans. They only difference is They have green skin and long pointy ears. They are shorter then the average height of a fully grown person. They are about 4" 1 tall or a bit shorter. They normally have short hair with a tiny ponytail. Many of them also have purple or yellow flowers in their hair.
Their job: You call one of them on the gender gremlins hotline (1-800-GREMLINS), they send you a gremlin. You also match with another person. Gender gremlins steal your assigned gender at birth, and gives them to the other person you match with. Then the other person will have their gender given to you. That way, everyone can have whatever they want and be happy in their own skin.
Who can call them: Pretty much, anyone who is trans/non binary call. As long as you want change, its fine.
I know this is a stupid idea BUT it was 1 am and I want people to be happy. If anyone can draw them that would be great. Just tell me because I wanna see them :)
"Everyday I have my wife put on black eyeliner and wear a too-large band t-shirt tied in a knot around the mid navel with a studded belt over a pair of denim short-shorts and goth platform boots" (Quote from this video, I don't support the creator anymore) ₊⊹————🖤————⊹₊
❀ Characters ❀
Maya (ToyHouse link) - they/he
₊⊹————🖤————⊹₊ Tomfoolery is the main reason I draw, so have everyone's favorite trans vampire wifey... I need to stop getting possessed by jokes, the second I heard that I couldn't stop myself from drawing this. Note: The character is non-binary, not a trans woman
When your coworkers are talking about someone and they’re non-binary and one of your coworkers says “I just don’t get the then thing how is somebody two people” and laughs. Great reminder of why I’m not out in professional spaces.
Like/reblog if you think that you don't need to medically transition to be transgender
fuck “passing”, i want people to be so confused about my gender they blow up
I use nonbinary, agender and quoigender at the same time, lol
nonbinary culture is never being able to find a label that feels right for you and just using “nonbinary”
#134
I think people thinking they/them is only used plurally got to me because I keep accidentally referring to myself like I’m plural and it’s really frustrating to take a second to be like “what the hell I’m not a plural”
This is a safe place for every one!!♡
Reblog if your blog is a safe space for these identities: agender, demiboy, demigirl, genderfluid, non-binary, and transgender!
Note: @azaraih and I now share joint custody of a buffalo check jacket, aka we're gay. | Had a very nice friend energy boost last weekend. Socializing can tucker me out, but if I'm interacting with good friends, it gives me back a kind of uplifting energy in exchange. I like connection, and there's something about being around friends in person that brings me contentment. Last weekend we got to have friend brunch, Friendsgiving, and monthly Art Jam with buddies. I hope I can increasingly pour into and draw upon my friendship well. It's like a vitamin, I gotta get that sweet buddy spiritual nutrition. In other news, Minnesota is winter ❄️🧥🧤🧣 . . . #queerstyle #queer #nonbinary #nbfashion #nbstyle #enby #plaid #buffalocheck #jacket #winterwear #winterfashion #breakfasthat #ultralightdown #fashion #style #minnesota #mnfashion #mnstyle #winterstyle #outerwear #layering #filipina #filipinx https://www.instagram.com/p/Bqc1Kg-h5fg/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=maldwaxlml4z
The only reason Krem wasn't a LI is because BioWare is a fucking coward >:(
I was robbed of a t4t romance and my only consolation is fanfiction :,(
Me @ myself
Still figuring out my gender over here. I've been doing some research and some retrospective, and I feel that Polygender/Multigender might be the best descriptor at the moment.
This feels closer to how I feel than the term Genderfluid, but nothing's set in stone at the moment.